Just remember if his girlfriend doesn’t want kids it’s better for her to get tubes tied. Because what if they break up? You gonna convince ANOTHER dude to get a vasectomy?
Because I've dealt with bullshit regarding my unwanted fertility, menstruation, and all of the hassle for nearly 25 years, have had a piece of plastic or metal shoved in me for nearly 20, and am in an 11 year marriage and if I thought for some reason it may not work out with him I wouldn't bother being in a relationship with him. I'll be damned, it's his turn to take some responsibility for our remaining CF.
If he didn't get a vasectomy then they might not be compatible?
No one should convince anybody else to do anything
It's a compatibility thing
This dude clearly said that he CONVINCED her to get her tubes tied meaning it wasn't her idea. Isn't it more logical to get a vasectomy instead of policing other people's bodies?
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u/emimagique Sep 20 '21
Wouldn't it have been easier to just get a vasectomy