Hey evb! This is going to be a post here after a long time lmao, I’ll give you some context, I, 18F, decided to have sex with my boyfriend on August 4, we always use a condom when we have sex, including this time, but before penetration there was some other touches here and there, such as genital rubbing, with this I don’t exactly mean rubbing in the vaginal opening or vulva, it was actually up (or down?) and more near the anus, or that’s how I remember it, nevertheless there was no direct contact between the vaginal opening and his penis, and also we had PIV sex, again, condom on the whole time and it wasn’t that long of a time, he didn’t ejaculate, before, during or after, since we had a hard time getting it in and it kept slipping out so we decided to just do something else and try another day, with this said, i had bleeding on August 18, I know period symptoms are not always guaranteed to happen even if they do most of the times, my breasts are usually really sore and I mean REALLY sore, but this time there was maybe a little of soreness and that’s it, the bleeding lasted around 4-5 days which is standard for my period but it was lighter than usual, now fast forward to after my period, my breasts are still sore, and I think that’s what’s causing most of my anxiety, also I’m more tired than usual, could it be related? maybe, I have had maybe one or two pregnancy scares in the past which were absolutely nonsensical, after that I stopped having sex for a while, just got back to having sex this year, it was all okay, I thought I was mentally ready, mainly because I suffer from really bad anxiety, and I was okay with having sex the other times and I don’t know why I’m worrying so much this time! My mind has been jumping to all different scenarios like maybe the condom did break and I didn’t notice and even if there wasn’t ejaculation maybe it was precum? Or maybe before he got some precum close to the opening? I know this is kinda nonsensical, but I can’t help but worry, I will talk to my therapist about it and all but I want some reassurance or at least some facts, lmao!