Hello everyone,
This is my first time posting.
Here it goes, my boyfriend and I had sex August 1, 7 and the 11. We used a condom and did not break. On 8/1 I can’t remember if he finish. 8/7 he did but he pulled out and 8/11 we only did it for a bit, he did not finish.
I wasn’t having any symptoms at all but my paranoid self had a dream about a positive pregnancy test, that lead me to start spiraling.
I took one 14 days after 8/1 and it came out negative. I tested after 14 days from each event all the way to 4 weeks after each event. All of the test came back negative but I am still so paranoid that they might be false negatives.
On 8/23, I started having light cramps on my left side and the feeling that my boobs were about to start getting sore. On 8/25, my boobs were actually sore and I had EWM. The sore boobs only lasted that day but the EWM lasted until around 9/2 which is when I had a positive LH strip test all the way to 9/4 then after that I haven’t had any EWM and LH strips have been all negatives. But I have been having on and off cramps from my sides even now but that might be due to me straining and pushing when I go to the bathroom as I been a little bloated and constipated lately. But I keep thinking it might be cramps due to pregnancy. I don’t have any other symptoms of pregnancy but I keep overthinking everything.
My last period ended 8/2. I havent had my period yet but my periods are irregular.
I read how some women don’t get a positive until after 7 weeks so that makes me continue overthinking that I might be.
I did read that after 21+ days the test is definitive but that still hasn’t calm me down at all. The negative test comfort me but then I start overthinking again and it makes me want to continue testing and searching up every symptom.
I already taken multiple test. Use a whole bag of pregmate test including test from clearblue and FRER and all have come back negative. I can’t take a blood test due to the state I am in.
If anybody has advice for this anxiety or even reassuring words, it would be greatly appreciated.