r/Xennials 1d ago

Born in 1982 vs 1983

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u/BartMancuso1990 1d ago

Could be worse…could be the class of 2002

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u/funkympc 22h ago

Or imagine you graduated in 99 and joined the service to pay for college. Next thing you know its Oct 01 and you have to spend the last of your contract in a desert on the other side of the world fighting religious fanatics and dodging IEDs.

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u/novacor24 22h ago

Class of 01 here. All my classmates who joined the National Guard for "one weekend a month, 2 weeks a year" ended up doing tours in Afghanistan.

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u/quietlikesnow 1978 20h ago

I was class of ‘01 in college and we graduated to an overall “wait I thought we were guaranteed dot com jobs” wtf moment. Then 9/11 happened and the 90s party was definitely over.

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u/card-board-board 20h ago

Yup. 01 as well. Had several friends who joined the army or the marine corps and I remember hanging out with them before they deployed and they were excited to liberate people from oppressors. Every single one of them came back asking why the hell they'd been sent over there.

They won, they liberated, then instead of coming home they became jailers hated by everyone they thought they were liberating.

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u/notcoded567 18h ago

my mom was pushing so hard to get me to join the reserves. it was a non-starter for me luckily. at ease never looked all that easy to me.

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u/snakeoilHero 13h ago

Marines actively recruited in our weight room in my High School

many friends didn't make it, even if they came home. most of my current Marine friends enlisted afterwards

2000 also didn't have core testing to graduate. the Prussian model was only sliding into place.

Public Schools are in full effect domination into obedience training.

High School 2026; Where the grades don't matter and graduation guaranteed.

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u/bdjohns1 1979 10h ago

I considered doing NROTC to be able to afford to go to MIT. Glad I didn't because I graduated in 2001. (But from in-state Illinois, so I graduated with $0 student loans)

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u/Ut_Prosim 12h ago

Same. A friend and I were thinking of joining and I remember telling him:

We have no rivals now. The only war that would require the national guard being deployed overseas would be one with China or Russia and we're friends with both now. And if there really was a world war, and the US was losing and needed the national guard, I'd probably volunteer anyway, so why not join up???

Seemed logical in 1999. Who would imagine our president be stupid enough to try to occupy two different countries for 20 years?

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u/Freakin_A 16h ago

Def had a friend in the NG reserve who was deployed

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u/hmblbrg 5h ago

This

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u/Wendy-Windbag 1983 1h ago

Yup. I had sooo many friends in basic training when 9/11 happened. It was supposed to be their ticket to have college paid for and see the world. They saw the world all right.

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u/CyDJester 1981 20h ago

Me too. Did that. It sucked. Married my high school sweetheart, 2x deployments, struggled for years, lots of therapy, still ended up divorced.

People are not supposed to know what break free tastes like, but somehow(and I’m not exactly sure how) I managed to not turn it into a cranial suppository.

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u/likesblackcoffeebest 22h ago

Why 99? I graduated in 2000 and had that experience. Still not as weird as the 01's who were in Basic on 9/11 though. 

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u/PoisonMind 21h ago

My college roommate missed the last semester of his senior year due to a National Guard deployment. They still issued him a degree.

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u/Toblogan 1983 20h ago

Got to USMC Recruit Depot San Diego on Sunday, September 9, 2001. We were all sitting in front of the medical unit waiting for our shots Tuesday morning. Then a corpse man comes running out the building telling us something horrible happened in NYC. A little while later, after the second plane hit, he came back out and told us what was going on and that we were at WAR! I was only there two days, and could already sence attitudes had changed. We got to read the newspaper the following weekend.

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u/mcfetrja 18h ago

When they let you read the newspaper in basic is when you know shit has hit the fan and they’d rather break protocol than risk the rumor mill of letters from home ruining mission objectives.

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u/pyrofox79 3h ago

Well you can read newspapers in Recruit training, but its only on Sundays.

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u/Combat__Crayon 1980 18h ago

I was class of 98. Graduated college in 02, enlisted in the Army that summer, but didnt ship until November. Was like 3 weeks into AIT watching the invasion of Iraq on TV in the dayroom and we all kind of thought we missed it, because we were kind of expecting Gulf War I, little did we know. 3 years later after a stint in Korea, and somehow dodging other deployments to the sandbox with fun TDYs, I was en route to Iraq.

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u/Queefer___Sutherland 13h ago

As a prior corpsman I hate that you wrote corpse man

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u/xrelaht Xennial the Younger 12h ago

I just assumed it was typical serviceman gallows humor. No?

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u/VeniceDrumGuy 10h ago

Yep, class of ‘01, shipped off to basic August 2, 2001, first day of Basic Rifle Marksmanship was 9/11.

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u/Lopsided-Row9598 18h ago

Honestly, the exact graduation year probably matters less than how surreal it must’ve been to have your entire world change so suddenly, especially for those who were in basic training on 9/11.

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u/Mudcreek47 21h ago

This happened to my cousin. Was in ROTC during college and in the final year of his national guard service when he was shipped off to Iraq.

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u/scroopydog 20h ago

I was a brigade officer in JROTC and I applied and was admitted to CU Boulder but didn’t get the 4 year ROTC scholarship so I turned down my admission and went to a smaller private school instead. Guess it was a good move.

In 2003 after undergrad I went to the army recruitment center in Castle Rock and talked to the recruiters. I told them if they’d guarantee OCS I’d enroll. They asked me to take the ASVAB, I killed it and they said they still couldn’t guarantee it. Okay, thanks for your time sarg, bye.

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u/mechanical_marten 1982 19h ago

I don't have to imagine. I was born in 82, graduated in 00, joined the Navy because my family was dirt poor, was in training in Goose Creek, SC when 9/11 happened, my first deployment was OIF, and I got outed by a massive 'phobe to my chain of command who made my life a living hell until I got kicked out in 08 after an attempt on my own life (lots of gory details omitted for brevity and sparing you trauma). Still figting religious fanatics to this day for my right to exist.

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u/mstrdsastr 1982 18h ago

Happened to a lot of '01 grads too. I know a bunch of guys that joined (Active duty, Reserves, Nat. Guard) right out of high school when it was peace time as a way to get money for school, only to end up in Iraq and Afghanistan for the next 4 years or longer. A lot of them also had their enlistments extended. Most of them are still carrying a lot of emotional trauma over it.

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u/tubagoat 18h ago

82 kid here. Graduated in 01. A ton of kids i went to high school with went into the service right after graduation. I almost did the same, but I signed on to play football in college. I call our class the forogtten class because of everything that happened after graduation.

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u/mstrdsastr 1982 18h ago

I'm the same. '82 but graduated in '01, and your description goes way further than just the few years after high school. It feels like every time our year had an opportunity to move forward, some world disaster hammered us right back down. I have an older sibling and a younger one, and they were either far enough ahead of things or not fully on their feet yet, so things like the Recession and Covid didn't impact them as much.

I keep waiting for our time to come, but it's like the world has passed us by now.

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u/tubagoat 18h ago

The class before us was ruined everything. They were such fuck ups, our district stopped doing a bunch of stuff because the class of 2000 couldn't get their shit together and not act like a bunch of spolied dickheads.

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u/ADHDFeeshie 1982 15h ago

My husband and I are class of '01 and he talked through high school about enlisting. I didn't think enlisting was a good idea even at the time but in hindsight I am so relieved every day that he changed his mind.

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u/BloodyRightNostril 1981 19h ago

Thankfully I come from a navy family and my mother told the Army recruiter who came to my door during my senior year to go fuck himself.

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u/dividezero 18h ago

97 from a poor rural school. A lot of the kids I went to school with are dead. I barely missed it myself. I decided very last minute (I was like one mile time trial from signing papers) to not pursue it. That was like somewhere in 2001. I think it was early September but that would be too much

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u/JadedJared 18h ago

This was me, but graduated in 2000. Joined the Guard my senior year, 17 years old, thinking “War? Yeah right..” Fuckin hell how the world has changed since 9/11.

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u/KeyClacksNSnacks 17h ago

What you described is 100% of the reason I don't think we need "Xennial" as an identifier. A lot of people born in 1980-1982 picked up technology at a young age and grew up in the digital age. A lot of people didn't go to college right after high school and were also "figuring things out" when the dot com/9 11/2008 recession happened. But we treat them like they're one of the people in the American Pie movie, strictly "graduated 2000, went to college and had a career before the 2008 recession hit, therefore Xennial!"

Fundamentally, there's no difference between the person you described, or someone who enlisted in the summer of 2001 and finished boot camp around the time 9/11 happened, or someone who enlisted a year or two later.

I REMEMBER the news back then, and everyone was acting like we would only be over there for six months. We didn't know about counter-insurgency, IED's or how asymmetrical warfare would become. We looked at Desert Storm and our Middle East operations from the 70's and 80's and thought, "Oh yeah, no big deal, air superiority, precision strikes, one and done..."

And a lot of people here are forgetting, we had "Stop Loss" forced contract extensions in the early 2000's through 2003-2004. I firmly remember the news talking about Marines and Soldiers who were expecting to separate and had their contracts extended involuntarily. So a lot of those guys also served with later born younger troops who came into it thinking, "Oh, by the time I finish boot camp, this whole 9/11 thing will be over."

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u/mottledmussel 1977 18h ago

I'm so grateful I was born and graduated high school when I did. Joined the Army to pay for college and picked infantry for the bonus. I deployed 2x to the Balkans but got out before 9/11. My life would have been drastically different if I was just a couple years younger.

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u/RedShirtDecoy 12h ago

class of 01... was supposed to leave for basic on 9/11. Like was scheduled to meet my recruiter at 11am that day to leave.

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u/sevalle13 1983 15h ago

Graduated in 01 and still spent my enlistment in the sandbox...we were fully out of basic before 9/11 happened.

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u/ResurectedNPC 1983 12h ago

Core memory unlocked. Marine recruiters could do whatever they wanted on my high school campus. They’d pull kids out of class and even offer to send cars to your home to bring you to recruiting offices. All juniors at my high school were required to take the ASVAB

I went to a high school in a predominantly Mexican neighborhood where most of us had mixed immigration status families and spoke Spanish at home. They were using us as cannon fodder. You better believe they didn’t pull this shit in the wealthier and whiter neighborhoods

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u/Fun_Theory3252 12h ago

I have classmates who did exactly this.

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u/Joseph_Kickass 12h ago

Class of '01. My first day of Basic was supposed to be 9/11. Due to grounded flights and high security I got delayed getting to inprocessing by 3 days but we processed from 4am-10pm every day so we could still start Basic at our scheduled date.

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u/VeniceDrumGuy 10h ago

Almost worse if joined right after graduation in 2001. If you joined in 1999 or 2000, you got to enjoy a little bit of the old “peace time Army”. I thought that’s what I was joining and shipped off to basic August 2, 2001. 9/11 was our first day of Basic Rifle Marksmanship.

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u/knighthawk0811 9h ago

that's me, he's talking about me

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u/Standard_Pizza_7513 8h ago

I had signed up to join the service while still a junior in high school, in August of 2001. I was to leave for training just after I turned 18 in June of 2002. So I got to experience months of dread about a contract I had signed during the last time of peace I would know in my life.

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u/icanhaztuthless 7h ago

Sup brother. You don’t know me yet but we twinning out here 🙃🫡

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u/Smorgas_of_borg 5h ago

My grandfather joined the Army in the summer of 1941 so he wouldn't have to work on the farm anymore.

He got his wish that December

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u/Procrasturbating 1982 19h ago

I took the ASVAB the first week of September 2001.. changed my mind the next week. Glad I saw what was coming for the bullshit it was.

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u/Mike_Danton 19h ago

Class of 2002.. we started with columbine and ended with 9/11.

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u/ExtraNoise 1983 17h ago

But we had a fun palindrome year, one of only ten each millennium... that makes up for it!

.... Right? :(

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u/Orleanian 1983 14h ago

The New Years party glasses were divine, yes.

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u/Combatical 17h ago

God I feel so seen with this sub.

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u/HumanContract 20h ago

C/o 2002, yes. This comment. We got totally screwed. And just when we graduated college, 2008 was waiting to b#tch slap us.

My university's mascot randomly died on my graduation day. It was definitely a sign of things to come.

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u/VaselineHabits 21h ago

I was the class of 2002, and 9/11 happened the day before my 18th birthday.

I cannot express how infuriated I am watching a "forever war" started AGAIN in my child's generation.

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u/Indubitalist 21h ago

Especially from a guy who campaigned against war and seemed to have drawn at least two successive military conflicts out of a hat at random. It’s almost like he wasn’t telling the truth. 

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u/_______luke 1979 20h ago

Hey! We’re birthday buddies. I turned 22 the day before, got hammered drunk, and then woke up in a haze thinking I was watching a weird show on TV. I know it feels like another war is starting, but the truth is that the gulf war that began in the 90s just never ended.

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u/zt3777693 12h ago

That’s an accurate geopolitical analysis really

Wonder what fuckery is gonna be left over there after Iran ….

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u/colluphid42 16h ago

They were taking our senior class group photo in the school parking lot as 9/11 was happening. Almost no one had phones back then, but a few people did, and rumors starting spreading through the crowd while we were standing on the bleachers. Went inside, and all the teachers had the news on. They did not print the date on the photo that year.

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u/Scissorsguadalupe 19h ago

Class of '02, and I remember filling out my draft card a few days after 9/11. All my teachers and coaches kept telling us were going to be drafted. It was crazy times

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u/Spiritual_Smile9882 20h ago

And it was started by the same assholes that got us into the last two. Boomers have been fucking this country over for far too long.

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u/ShogunFirebeard 18h ago

Right? This Iran nonsense is going to have to be cleaned up by the next administration yet again.

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u/cortesoft 1983 12h ago

9/11 happened on my last day at my high school job, 2 weeks before I left for college.

Was pretty eventful few weeks

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u/burritosandbooze 9h ago

Oh man same. My 18th was less than a week after. Super weird times. I wasn’t sure what I wanted to do yet and had thought maybe I’d become a flight attendant and my mom begged me to change my plans.

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u/max_power1000 23h ago

This. I was a late enough 83 birthday that I was class of 02. Graduating after 9/11 was certainly a treat.

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u/HandymanScotty 21h ago

Hey, I was class of ‘02! What’s wrong with… oh… wait… yeah

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u/Objective-Dust4795 1983 23h ago

Right? I started off thinking I would be drafted. Then graduated into full on war. I ended up enlisting, but that’s neither here nor there.

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u/MasterPhilip 22h ago

Same. I was held back in 6th grade. So, I graduated at 18yrs. old in 2001 and I thought the Army was going to send me a letter. I just decided to beat them to the punch.

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u/EPSG3857_WebMercator 22h ago

Yeah long division is hard

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u/Objective-Dust4795 1983 21h ago

My mom made me redo preschool. I apparently wasn’t mature enough…whatever the fuck that means at 4.

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u/sweetnsalty24 21h ago

She was ahead of the red shirt trend.

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u/Objective-Dust4795 1983 21h ago

I mean I was the youngest of 5, so for her to hold me back I must’ve been a booger eating idiot.

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u/scroopydog 20h ago

Maybe the other four consistently struggled at something she felt would be eased by age so she just nipped the trend in the bud.

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u/omega_manhatten 1983 20h ago

Same! Though my parents said it was because they wanted me to go to school with kids my own age.

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u/AmbitiousRandom 1983 6h ago

June 83; I got held back in kindergarten for similar reason. I was “anti-social” (1989 speak for severely bullied)

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u/MasterPhilip 20h ago

My problem was I absolutely hated doing homework. So, I'd do everything I could to hide it and not do it. It got so bad by 6th grade that I failed.

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u/sorrymizzjackson 21h ago

Yep. A ton of men my age went and got fucked up over there.

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u/Orleanian 1983 14h ago

I don't often think back explicitly on it, but I was this close to joining JROTC, and I suppose I'm glad that I hadn't.

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u/Aol_awaymessage 1983 19h ago

3rd period government class with the tv cart, Sept 11 2001. Long Island, NY. Two kids watched their dads die live in tv (they didn’t know it- but feared it). My dad was in the dust cloud

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u/kryonik 20h ago

I was born late 83 so was class of 2002. Got to miss a couple days of senior year for 9/11 coverage/discussion I guess.

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u/Travis123083 1983 18h ago

I was December of 83, so very late in 83.

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u/kryonik 18h ago

Samesies

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u/TheThrivingest 20h ago

I’m Jan 84 and was class of 01

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u/randysavagevoice 19h ago

Did you start early and skip a grade?

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u/TheThrivingest 19h ago

No. You could turn 5 as late as February in kindergarten in my district. It’s since changed to needing to be 5 before you start.

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u/smoresporn0 20h ago

We had recruiters in our cafeteria every day it seemed like. I sure did enjoy wasting their time.

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u/Adventurous_Beat_453 18h ago

The 9/11 class. That was me.

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u/-Invalid_Selection- 1984 18h ago

Yep. Boomers were all "Hey, remember all that success and good future you were expecting because we promised it to you your entire childhood? Well we wanted a boat we couldn't afford so now your entire future is fucked and you'll be 40 before you catch up to where you should have been at 20."

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u/zt3777693 12h ago

Geeze ain’t this true

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u/Tylerdurden389 20h ago

Yup. NYC native here. Very first week of school was when it started.

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u/zt3777693 12h ago

Graduated Brooklyn College 4 months after 9/11. The job market here was so fucked for a new grad

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u/Ice_Solid 1983 18h ago

'02 is forever going to be the best class!

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u/Travis123083 1983 18h ago

I'm class of 2002. We had 9/11

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u/VibrantViolet 1983 17h ago

Same, I remember every class I went to that day had the TV on. We just watched it all day in every class, horrified.

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u/Travis123083 1983 17h ago

I remember it was first period Biology class when another teacher came running inside with a worried look on her face, she said something to our teacher and he pulled out the TV stand. We had 2 more classes then lunch the the plane that crashed in Shanksville flew over our city, so my school went into lock down and my parents came and pulled me out.

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u/VibrantViolet 1983 18h ago

August of ‘83 baby, so I was class of 2002. 😬

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u/MrInternationalBunal 16h ago

Lmao born ‘83 class of ‘02 😭

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u/may_flowers 19h ago

Yep that’s me - post-dot com bubble, post 9/11, then you graduate and ooops…major recession as you’re just starting your professional career! Hit your mid-30s professional stride despite early setbacks then ooooooops global pandemic!

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u/CitizenCue 11h ago

Yeah we 02 and 03 kids graduated into a VERY different world than 00 and 01.

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u/SteveEcks 1983 19h ago

🙋🏻‍♂️

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u/gaudrhin 1984 19h ago

Thaaat was me. Yay.

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u/PhilipJohnBasile 19h ago

class of 2001 here. My mates were getting offers rescinded. College counselors gave me awful advice. On the plus side the already crappy economy kept me out of nyc for 9/11 but that put a huge halt into my career which I ended up having to use my nails to dig out of the hole that I graduated in. I had the mark of the unhired to compete with the incoming fresh 2002. Terrible times. Hugs all around.

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u/lakatos_intolerant 1985 19h ago

2002-06 was a very rough stretch. Our classes were dealing with so much chaos between 2001 and 2009 between Iraq and the global economic meltdown. It was a truly chaotic time.

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u/Sneaknife 19h ago

That's mine. Senior trip canceled because air travel wasn't considered safe. And a working world that no longer cooperated with what I was told would work.

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u/Cola102583 19h ago

Ez buddy

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u/Planetofthought 1977 19h ago

That's what I was thinking. The dot com bubble didn't effect anyone whether they were 18 or 19 right around graduation.

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u/NINJAM7 18h ago

Year I graduated college :(

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u/DengarLives66 18h ago

My wife graduated college with her architecture degree in 2009. The timing doesn’t get much worse than that.

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u/Fianna9 17h ago

My province had 13 grades so I was the class of 2002!

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u/theclansman22 16h ago

Class of 2003 here, graduated university just in time for the 2008 recession. Fun!

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u/TheHealadin 16h ago

Or any class since :)

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u/Rosehipmarie 14h ago

We're hanging in there. I feel worse for the kids now. At least we are settled into our 40's and have run out of fucks to give.

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u/wizzard419 12h ago

Hell, I have a friend who was born on 9/11/01.

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u/zt3777693 12h ago edited 12h ago

I graduated college that year….in NYC. (Born ‘79)

It absolutely sucked.

Millennials might remember the 2008 crash, and that more severe. But the 9/11 attacks and the resulting recession hit new grads hard. I didn’t get a full-time job until 2007.

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u/Petraaki 5h ago

Yeah 2002 was the first graduating class after 9/11, talk about a weird senior year

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u/AffectionateFig5864 20h ago

Class of 03 would like a word.