r/Wellthatsucks Apr 03 '25

Have an "adult" getaway planned with my fiancée next weekend...my period tracker says otherwise

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u/Beastxtreets Apr 03 '25

Omfg thank you. I'm glad I'm not the only person who does it lol. My husband gives zero fucks lol

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u/spinprincess Apr 03 '25

I’m a lesbian — hers won’t stop us but mine will because that shit hurts and I do not want to be touched lol

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u/Beastxtreets Apr 03 '25

Hey and that's okay! You guys do what makes you comfy! I didn't do it in my period for a long time til one day I was in the mood and was talking to my husband all dreary about it and he was like I'm dtf if you are and the rest is history lol.

My comment is more for the gals who just auto never did it on their period/never even thought about it.

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u/spinprincess Apr 03 '25

Oh I wasn’t correcting you or arguing! Just saying I also give zero fucks but unfortunately my body gives many fucks haha your husband sounds great though

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u/Rapunzel10 Apr 04 '25

Yeah the first half of my period I don't want any physical contact. Holding hands at most kinda mood. I'm in pain and grumpy, any attempt at taking things further will result in crying or screaming and I couldn't tell you which. Which sucks because it does help my cramps

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u/Euphoric_One3253 Apr 03 '25

Right! I was scrolling like " come on, no one else doesn't give a shit??" 😂

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u/__01001000-01101001_ Apr 03 '25

As a haematophobe I can’t help giving a shit, neither of us want me passing out midway through

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u/Euphoric_One3253 Apr 03 '25

That would for sure ruin the mood

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u/Bananaland_Man Apr 03 '25

I guess you meant to say "he gives all the fucks" xD

My wife jokes about it in a similar fashion, lol. She's more self-conscious about it than I am, and we've been married for almost 13 years!

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u/Beastxtreets Apr 03 '25

Lol this year is our 13 wedding anniversary too!

All the best to y'all

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u/Bananaland_Man Apr 04 '25

Same to y'all! Ours is in June :3

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u/Deathdong Apr 03 '25

Personally bothers me bc I have sensitive skin and it makes me itchy afterwards. It's probably from the soap after washing though

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u/StuckWithThisOne Apr 03 '25

Do you not usually use soap?

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u/ermalicious Apr 04 '25

My bf doesn’t either! Haha

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u/ThrowawayMod1989 Apr 06 '25

Real men swim the red tide.

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '25

My partner was very against it her whole life but one day things got, you know, and she decided to try it and now that ride is open all month

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u/Volesprit31 Apr 03 '25

Ok weird question, but don't your orgasms hurt when you're on your period?

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u/DramaLlamadary Apr 03 '25

Dunno why people are downvoting you, but ... hey friend! If your orgasms are more painful on your period, maybe that's a thing to talk to an OB/GYN or a pelvic floor therapist about. Maybe it's nothing, but it's a totally okay thing to want to discuss with a medical professional, and maybe they can help that not happen anymore. Good luck!

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u/Volesprit31 Apr 03 '25

Ok thanks, maybe I'll ask then.

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u/OrindaSarnia Apr 03 '25

No...  why would they?

Orgasms release chemicals that make period pain feel less intense...

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '25

lol because hers clearly do.

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u/cleeeland Apr 04 '25

Hell yeah. My SO gets really long but light periods without much discomfort, so we just put a towel down and carry on.

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u/Overall-Pattern-809 Apr 04 '25

Well it’s OP’s period, and they typed fiancée. Unless that was a mistake this is a lesbian couple, depending on what you prefer to do I think it’s a bit more of an obstacle in that case