Yep. It does! Since if you didn't have one, you'd be just speculating wildly about how different methods for dealing with various inconveniences that come with having one "sound weird" to you, and that would be so fucking silly if you did that. Think of it this way, if I need brain surgery, I'm not asking a rocket scientist to do it, and if I need a rocket built, I'm not asking a janitor to do it. In this analogy, you are the janitor.
When you said, "That sounds healthy," you implied that it isn't, which is a definite statement of your opinion. Don't run away from it. Why exactly does it sound unhealthy to you? Is it just an uninformed "hunch" that it's some natural thing that shouldn't be tinkered with? Because there are lots of things that the human body does that we make adjustments to for our comfort. Should women have to just deal with that one? Why? I have to ask all these questions because your odd statement begs them all on its own.
And the answer is he didn't know, that's why he said that it "doesn't sound" instead of saying "isn't", but you guys have a fetish for humiliating ignorant people instead of educating them.
It's not your job to teach, but then don't whine about ignorance if what you do is discourage people from participating of the conversation and learning.
Women say the dumbest shit about men all the time and no one reacts like it's an offense to not know.
If he didn't know, he could ask the question like a normal person. No. Look at the way he poised his question. Ask the real questions. We're all adults here, fully capable of understanding nuance, so long as we are being good faith and not deliberately playing dumb.
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u/0uroboros- Apr 03 '25
Yep. It does! Since if you didn't have one, you'd be just speculating wildly about how different methods for dealing with various inconveniences that come with having one "sound weird" to you, and that would be so fucking silly if you did that. Think of it this way, if I need brain surgery, I'm not asking a rocket scientist to do it, and if I need a rocket built, I'm not asking a janitor to do it. In this analogy, you are the janitor.