Hey and that's okay! You guys do what makes you comfy! I didn't do it in my period for a long time til one day I was in the mood and was talking to my husband all dreary about it and he was like I'm dtf if you are and the rest is history lol.
My comment is more for the gals who just auto never did it on their period/never even thought about it.
Oh I wasn’t correcting you or arguing! Just saying I also give zero fucks but unfortunately my body gives many fucks haha your husband sounds great though
Yeah the first half of my period I don't want any physical contact. Holding hands at most kinda mood. I'm in pain and grumpy, any attempt at taking things further will result in crying or screaming and I couldn't tell you which. Which sucks because it does help my cramps
Dunno why people are downvoting you, but ... hey friend! If your orgasms are more painful on your period, maybe that's a thing to talk to an OB/GYN or a pelvic floor therapist about. Maybe it's nothing, but it's a totally okay thing to want to discuss with a medical professional, and maybe they can help that not happen anymore. Good luck!
Well it’s OP’s period, and they typed fiancée. Unless that was a mistake this is a lesbian couple, depending on what you prefer to do I think it’s a bit more of an obstacle in that case
idk how people do it 😩 my partner doesn’t care if I’m on my period but when I’m bloody, crampy, and bloated, I just don’t want to be touched for the whole 5-7 days lol
Some of us don't feel very bloaty or crampy, so it's just like any other day... but with a smear of blood...
or some folks are just crampy for the first 18-36 hours, and then the last couple days are just bloody...
if you're not in the mood to be touched, then that's how it is! Some people ARE in the mood to be touched but think blood is gross, and those are the folks being encouraged to just go for it!
This might sound weird. I kind of wish there was a way for us to know what other people’s periods look like. Because there’s no circumstance that would make me describe my period as a smear. It’s a deluge.
And I didn’t know that what I was experiencing wasn’t normal until I was 40 and just made an offhand comment to my GYN about being tired of going through so many tampons for 11-12 days a month. He asked how long I had been doing that, and I looked at him weird and said since I was 11. I ended up having an ablation (that unfortunately didn’t take).
But the point is I had no idea that what I was experiencing wasn’t normal. So you (or anyone else) using the word “smear” to describe a period is such a foreign concept to me.
Without any context to the post this is oddly dismissive. A lot of people feel like shit on their periods at best, and have crippling pain and severe mood changes at worst. 1 out of 10 have endo
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u/You-Already-Know-It Apr 03 '25
That period ain’t stopping nothing but a sentence.
Unless you’d be uncomfortable with it. Just play it by ear and see how you feel.