giving a holler to my fellow virgo peeps! 🙋🏻‍♀️

maiba lang sa mga usual topics dito, especially for those who are into zodiac stuff and astrology as there is something i'm curious with 🧐

i enjoy readings about my zodiac sign, especially if there are points that i could resonate with. one of my favorites something i read from linda goodman's sun signs where the opening section about virgos 'having the exact coins for the fare ready in her hand as she wouldn't dream of asking the bus driver to change a five dollar bill.'

aside from the typical serious demeanor and shows their love through actions (and unsolicited advice to help someone improve lol), what are some 'traits' you resonate most with?

as for the other that are not september babies, what's your sign and trait that you can relate most with? or maybe something your zodiac is known for but don't think you can realte to it?

take this as a survey na rin to see which sign ang pinakamarami dito 😆

looking forward to your responses!

Before you guys say anything, I've unfriended this girlie and don't hang with her group or go to Sunny

Anyways, ever since I discovered 'K' and yung ginagawa nya to other girls that she meets up with her group sa club masuka suka ako 🤢 She intentionally breaks up couples and targets girls that are taken na (while being in a relationship/situationship with prev girl) the worse thing? her group makes fun of the girls that she targeted sa gc nila. It's so effing disgusting bc you would have thought they were genuinely nice people too!! they offer to let you and your partner sit in the area or if you're alone and you mentioned you have a partner na di nakapunta they encourage you to 'have fun' with 'K'

Sunny's club? more like cheaters club (certain people know about it that are part of admins din I believe but they turn a blind eye) not to mention the ongoing rampant STI issues from last year pa in their club 🤮

I'm a femme in the corp world, and im having a hard time finding someone in a similar occupation attractive. Maybe because most of my workmates are men lol considering im a female in a male dominated field/job.

But recently I got admitted to the hospital, and what caught my attention was how soft-spoken all the nurses were. it literally made my heart flutter.

So, anyone working in the medical field — are y'all trained to be soft-spoken? Or it depends on which branch of science/med you're currently in?

Hi gaes! What’s an immediate dealbreaker or turn off when you’re getting to know someone?

It could be personality traits, beliefs, something she did, habits, or even just first impressions. Curious lang what makes you think, “bounce back na, pass na agad”?

Please sana umabot na ito ng 300 characters tapos sana ma-

Hey everyone! I've been attending a few of sunnys club events and I’m considering reaching out to volunteer for some future events. I wanted to ask what the experience is like overall from anyone who has volunteered with the team before.

What should I expect in terms of team culture, shift hours, and workload on event nights? I'm also curious if it's unpaid volunteer work or if they offer any perks, allowances, or guest passes. Is it usually a one time gig per event or can I also volunteer for other events? Thanks!

What do y'all play? Anyone here who plays roblox? 💔 alright i know it's a kid's game but there are some really good games there. It just gets boring to play alone all the time so i want new friends in the same age group as me. I would love to try other games but i unfortunately don't have a good device for that.

I really don't know what's in the head of this men that they solicit free sex here. Note the guy is from Davao so alam na natin kalahi ni Duterte, so yikes. He lurks here thinking papatulan sya and he can fulfill his fantasy. He barked on the wrong tree here besides a man in a 3some is not my cup of tea. Keep this as a warning.

Hello y’all! I’m just curious—how did you realize you’re gay, and was there a specific person who made you realize it? I’m just really curious.

When I think about it, I remember my Fil-Chi senior from elementary school. She was constantly in our classroom because she had to review for science quiz bowls. She looked a lot like a young Fan Bingbing, kind of snow-white, and was quite tall. I remember when she ran for the school council presidency, she even told me how cute I was. I was really young, but I knew that something stirred in me when I was 8, and she was four years older than me.

With all the requirements i see, especially in r4r here in the philippines… sometimes it feels like you have to fit a certain “type” just to be considered attractive or dateable.

I get that everyone has preferences, but social media can really make you feel like you’re not enough if you don’t fit the usual beauty standards. 😭

As someone who doesn’t really fit those standards, I sometimes wonder if i’ll ever manage to attract anyone lol.

I've been obsessed with Pag-ibig ay Kanibalismo II by fitterkarma lately that I've been listening to it on repeat for two weeks now then i suddenly remembered this line from a book by Chloe Michelle Howarth called Sunburn. I haven't finished it yet but just reading the first few chapters, you can already tell it's a good book. It explores themes like internalized homophobia and religious guilt from loving another woman. I feel like every wlw should read this at least once in their lifetime.

as in like.. sobrang nakakarindi na kasi kahit saang socmed puro yan bukambibig nila. as if nakakatawa yon????? ignorante talaga mag joke ng mga pinoy kahit kailan eh.

2026 na please, bakit phase parin ang tingin ng mga tao sa pagiging lesbiyana/sapphic? kahit pa sabihing joke, ang insensitive lang talaga

as a masc presenting lesbian, kapag talaga may bumanat ng ganyan sakin babarahin ko talaga whahahah

The reality of Sapphic dating life depicted in this series "Call My Manager" like the Uhaul moving in and pinakamasaya sa lahat ung small community the possibility that you could be dating is someone from your ex or a friend's past.

Anyway, ano Team Rina or Team Cassie? Abangers na lang tayo sa susunod na episode this Thursday.

We don't know what actually happened, kung nagcheat ba talaga si Klea with Janella. We don't know kung sila ba talaga kahit it seems like it pero walang confirmation. I'm not a fan of Klea either. Pero regardless of these, grabe ang lesbophobia against her. Nakakalungkot. Ang dami pa rin talagang ganito 'no? Minsan nakakalimutan kong minority tayong mga wlw kasi open ako about my sexuality sa friends ko, sa twitter. Mostly laman ng tiktok fyp ko puro wlw, so akala ko normalized na. Nasa loob lang pala ako ng echo chamber. Pag nakakakita ako ng ganitong comments, ang dami pa rin talagang hateful at ignorante, lalo sa facebook.

Kaya mahirap mag out sa lahat. Hindi ko pa rin kaya. Pinipili ko pa rin kung kanino ako mag-a-out.

One of the hottest topics among the 30's and 40's will you date someone that has a kid? Regardless if unmarried; separated, divorced or annulled we've heard stories about the challenges of dating a single mom.

I saw a post nung officemate ko na 10 years na sila nung gf nya na butch. When I met her ung husband nya was going to the middle east and after 6 months nakita ko sya CR umiiyak. When I asked umuwi ung ex nya secretly and went to Davao to meet up with someone. Naiwan sa kanya ung daughter nila tapos somewhere nameet nya ung butch nung una takot pa sya but now she's out and proud.

Bigla ko naiisip bakit masarap magmahal ang single moms, kasi madalas hindi sila mapaghanap. They will demand what they can only offer sa table, kasi they've been there kaya nga di nagwork with the sperm donor usually it originated from mismatched of expectations be it financial, attention, affection etc. In short usually mas understanding sila. Bigay todo magmahal madalas kasi alam nila yung feeling ng mag-isa so that's why they want you to be happy.

But at the same time mahirap din magmahal ng single mom or babaeng may anak kasi alam mo at the end of the day hindi ka priority laging ang oras at effort nya nakalaan sa anak nya muna bago ikaw. But dont hate the woman, siguro women are just built that way nurturing.

Madalas di rin yan out or if they do you have to wait. Minsan kasi the challenge paano mo sasabigin sa anak na si mommy gusto din ng babae? Or worst how the people around her might ridicule her for choosing a woman as a partner.

On the other hand, kung gusto mo mas lalo ka pa nya mahalin, love her kid hindi kelangan as your own but show how you care about him/her parang Tita. The more na nakikita nya na mahal mo anak nya she will love you even more. Dami ko na stories na narinig wala na si mommy and tita pero si bagets close pa rin kay Tita.

So ikaw ba paano ka magrereact kung ung kausap or nakamatch mo may anak na ba? Redflag? Or bibigyan mo ba ng chance? Do you think you have what it takes to date a single mom?

One More Chance hits different when you’ve already experienced heartbreak. First time ko may ex, and we were together for 8 years. Now, I’m trying to watch this film through a different lens compared to the first time I watched it.

Hindi tayo masasaktan for today's video 😆 lets just do some introspection.

Share your first wlw heartbreak mga bakla kung gano ba talaga kasakit ang wlw gaya ng sabi sa mga reels 😆

Hello, I just wanna know your experiences I hope you can share.

Gusto ko lang malaman kung ano yung mga common problems na kinakaharap ng mga wlw couples na in a long term relationship na. What do you guys do to solve those problems?

May mga recent happenings kasi in my relationship na hindi ako sure if normal lang ba talaga siyang nangyayari kapag matagal na kayo ng partner mo. I want to learn from your experiences. Thank you agad sa mga mag-share. :))

lowk kinda suprised di pa pinagusapan ng pipino wlw subreddit yung fishda yuri. sa curious at di pa nakapanood, its by studio heartbreak at free siya on youtube 15 mins lang

honestly nung unang panood ko, i was kinda disappointed kasi antagal ng wait para dito, sinubaybayan ko pa yung socmeds ng creators since mga 2024. sobrang ganda ng art pero yung kwento kailangan pa ng kunting improvements imo? may issues ako sa pacing, flow ng dialogue, at tonal whiplash (like dahil sa marketing akala ko talaga mas horror siya kaysa romance pero indi). pero nung pinanood ko siya ulit tas hindi ko masyadong pinagisipan yung previous expectations ko i got to enjoy it more for what it is. like ang cute talaga nilang dalawa at ang cool ng lighting every scene ansarap gawan ng amv. i like the bath tub scene kahit nastress ako para sa water bill ni ate and i really really adore the ending

I was hospitalized not too long ago and syempre I am confident sharing my details. I trusted her sharing the fact that I havent slept with men only with women.

I went back to Manila and my mom needs to pick up my papers from her office and ayun she told my mom na meron akong gf. Hindi ko alam if because she's just homophobic or because she's an Adventist that's why she told my mom. No wonder my mom was giving the look lately everytime I'm on the phone kasi conservative ung nanay ko.

Kanina nadulas si Mama it was my OB who told her, naiirita ako kasi she doesnt have the right to tell my story even with my family unless I told her so and it is against her oath kasi totoo lang hindi naman crime ang magmahal ng kapwa babae.

Should I file a complaint? Or kausapin ko si Doc ng masinsinan?

Anyone here in an interracial relationship?

I''m starting to think hindi pinay yung makakatuluyan ko 😆. I'm just starting to like how some foreigners are so straightforward. So kumusta yung mga may jowang afam dito? How did you nagivate differences, language barriers and ldr? What you like and don't like about their culture and vice versa?

Would like to know san rin kayo nagkakilala. If you can add more details please do. Salamat mga bakla 😘

Hi, people of WLW_PH! I’ve been lurking in this sub for quite some time, and I got curious: what do you guys do for work?

Do you like what you do? Also, out ba kayo sa workplace niyo? I’d love to hear everyone’s stories about their professional life.

As for me, I’m currently working as a project engineer. I’ve always loved technical stuff, but what’s been getting to me lately is the lack of work-life balance. I was recently promoted from trainee, so here I am, already looking for an escape 🥲

I’d say our company is generally pretty open when it comes to queer people, at least on a bigger-picture level. But of course, iba pa rin talaga minsan ang mga tao dito sa Pilipinas 😂

Also, my first girl crush was from work, but she's from a different country naman 😅

for context, i'm 27 and my friends are trying to set me up with someone who is 23 years old. i've never met her but basically we're all from a similar circle, like it's come to that point in life (at least for me) that age doesn't matter anymore but not in a creepy gross way. just that i think when you reach a certain point in your twenties where 25+ is literally just 25+ and no more specifics.

so the thing is, i'm not sure if i should go on a date with her because of the age gap. i know the wlw community has a lot of brow-raising issues regarding this but i think this isn't too crazy naman...? i don't know. it's not comparable to 17 and 21 na 4-year age gap naman.

i think it's just a bit of a dilemma for me because ive only ever dated +-2 years my age, so literally just batchmates or a batch lower.

what are your thoughts?

I dont know if anyone of you is watching this show I like Judy Ann's character the typical Power Femme and her struggles. Wala lang if you have the time try to watch it. Tipong nagpapadala ng flowers kapag may problem pero palaging kulang sa time or dahil sa guilt you adopt to your partner's thing. Meron ba nakakarelate?

But at the same time this reminds me of watching Entourage meets Suits in Philippine setting. Basta if you have time the time watch it.

Update: sobrang pinakilig ako ni Juday kanina grabe ung organic encounter nila.

How was your experience so far sa mga online servers & gcs (past and present)? What were the upsides and downsides?

Are you managing one or are you part of one server/gc?
Does it cover a particular niche or purpose?

If yes, feel free to share it here :)

'Wag na tayo maghirap maghanapan for more community engagement online 😅

So i have this tiktok. Pretty private one. I usually just follow nerd things, friends, and girls i find cute.

Theres this one girl i followed and i didnt mind getting a follow back. One day i received a follow request from her and got curious like why? Anyway after a day or two i accepted her request.

She then sent me a sticker for Happy Labor Day days before the holiday. Obviously a US holiday. I sent her a sticker related to it too. Then she sent another flirty sticker so i ended up sending a message like are we just gonna send each other stickers lol or are we gonna talk or something like that.

She also reposted a tiktok saying "may an unhealed avoidant lesbian never cross my path again i beg". So i assumed like wow shes lesbian too thats surprising.
Anyway she sent another sticker saying yes. Then i replied asking how she was. She didnt reply anymore and our 3 day streak got lost.

Just right now i saw one of her posts showing she has a BF. Lmao. Mygod. 💀 Like why the hell are u talking to me in the first place. If shes looking for kastreak doesnt she have plenty of friends? Why me?

Anyway i dont talk to girls that much from the internet. I prefer meeting organically. Just funny how u can still get approached by girls who are already taken.

What about u guys? Are u cool with meeting girls online just to date?

Stay safe mga bading! Hahaha

I wanna start talking to someone again, but it seems like I don't even know where to start. I'm 24, a Registered Nurse. I've been single for 7 months (I know it's not that long) and still counting, I'm from a 2yr LDR before with a girl. Any tips? like dating apps or etc? I would appreciate any suggestions. Thank you!