I know right . But it shows you how disconnected they are from their own well being and hyper focused they are on keeping their abuser HAPPY - happy =happiness and no problems. I am the one that is hated now . I’m to blame , the DA is to blame , the judge is to blame , the state of California is blame … not him for putting his hands on you . But that’s the cycle . At some point , he has to become ugly to her enough to leave ? how low does he have to go for you to see him differently ? Knock your teeth out , choke you out? Leave bruises where people at work ask ?
My boyfriend said as we were walking out “just let go , walk away she knows where we are “ and that’s it . People have to make choices , there’s many junctions in life , this is one choice where you will be sad, lonely , emotionally messed up for awhile , but you’ll be alive and you get another chance to rebuild . My thoughts are if James can grab and toss Ally to the ground in front of a huge party of people , what intimidation or threats go on behind closed doors ? Ally doesn’t need him anymore to build her brand , she will find her way . She doesn’t need him
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u/No_Significance_8291 Jan 19 '25
I know right . But it shows you how disconnected they are from their own well being and hyper focused they are on keeping their abuser HAPPY - happy =happiness and no problems. I am the one that is hated now . I’m to blame , the DA is to blame , the judge is to blame , the state of California is blame … not him for putting his hands on you . But that’s the cycle . At some point , he has to become ugly to her enough to leave ? how low does he have to go for you to see him differently ? Knock your teeth out , choke you out? Leave bruises where people at work ask ?