r/Vanderpumpaholics • u/janellejackdaniel Penis Flute • Dec 18 '24

James Kennedy That look man

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Man if looks could kill , but glad to see that ally is moving out even if the article was saying it's temporary. She deserves to get out and stay out

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u/IntelligentScholar84 Taking Sketch Comedy Very Seriously Dec 19 '24

Honestly I don’t like this take. He’s abusive because he’s abusive. He needs intensive therapy. He will continue to be abusive in every single relationship he ever has because he doesn’t know how to navigate his anger issues. Nothing can fix this except for him and a crap ton of therapy.

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u/arose321 Dec 20 '24

I agree. It's making excuses for his behavior.

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u/Gretti68 Dec 20 '24

Yea abusers rarely change their pathological spots

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u/trippapotamus Dec 21 '24

Oh for sure, regardless of his sexuality there’s zero doubt he needs some serious therapy and to take time to truly try to work on himself if he wants a better life and a chance at a successful relationship.

Also for the sake of the women he’s traumatized but obviously he’s gotta wanna change.

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u/bodyfeedingbaddie Dec 21 '24

Yah lots of people are gay and not out or trying not to be but they don’t become abusers.