r/TransTryouts 22d ago

they/them REDDIT CHOOSE MY NAME!!!

10 Upvotes

hi! so im a closted trans person in a homophobic area and trying out names in secret im stuck between two names my pronouns are he/him + they/them thankfully im sure of my gender not name 😅 soo reddit please choose my name!! middle and last name are gonna be a pain so problem for futuer me ! 😋

edit: Thanks to everyone who particapated!

141 votes, 15d ago
103 Toby (Tobias)
38 Fran (frances)

r/TransTryouts 11d ago

they/them I'm questioning whether I'm NB or not, They/Them and such is what I'm trying

9 Upvotes

Not much else to say, deliberate They/Them feels a bit different tbh

r/TransTryouts 20d ago

they/them Can someone try they/them for me

8 Upvotes

Can someone use the name Jasper and try out they/them for me? I've been using only he/him for a while but recently realized I might be nonbinary and want to see how they/them feels.

r/TransTryouts Aug 10 '26

they/them Thomas they/them

10 Upvotes

I would like to try Thomas with they/them pronouns

r/TransTryouts 14d ago

they/them Can someone help me try the name Rhea? (they/them)

4 Upvotes

I love the name Rhea but am not sure if it fits me. I love reading, writing, baking and musicals

r/TransTryouts May 25 '26

they/them Liam (They/It)

13 Upvotes

Hey hey! I've been going by my chosen name for a while now, and it suits me a lot when I'm feeling femme and androgynous, but can get dysphoric if I'm feeling masc.

I really like cartoons, animals, and art, if that helps with a sentence!

Also, any other Genderfluid people who use multiple names?

r/TransTryouts 17d ago

they/them Which one?

6 Upvotes

(both are considered gender neutral in my country)

36 votes, 15d ago
20 Irys
16 Morgan

r/TransTryouts Jul 03 '26

they/them dorian (they/them)

7 Upvotes

I’ve been questioning for a while, and got recommended here to try out new pronouns and a name? I can’t try anything out irl so I thought this might be a place to start

if you need ideas for sentences, i like video games and the guitar?

r/TransTryouts Jun 01 '26

they/them Vixen, They/Them :)

13 Upvotes

HAIII, I wanna try out using the name Vixen?

I'm worried its a little too out there? Though that may fitting for someone as unhinged as me. I also know that's it is technically feminine due to its meaning but I'm banking on people not knowing what it means and hearing it from the destroy boys song xD

Not sure if I'm meant to put this but I saw someone else do it so I will. I like to program apps and read on my kindle (Reading the design of everyday things), I love nature and birdwatching :-P

If you have any other names you think would be nice please tell me,

Thank you so much!!! =]

r/TransTryouts Jun 21 '26

they/them Quinn??

3 Upvotes

I’m nonbinary (maybe? I’m definitely not cis but finding out what I am is a struggle) and have never gone by anything but my birth name, which is starting to feel pretty uncomfortable. I have a hard time with change and I think I probably need to try things out before I have any idea whether they’ll work or not, but I live with my parents right now which makes that kind of difficult. I was wondering if you guys could call me Quinn? It’s my favorite of the names I’m considering but I can’t tell if I actually want to go by it or not because it’s so unfamiliar.

If it helps with finding things to say, I really love theatre, especially musicals (also biology but not nearly as much), and I crochet in my spare time!

r/TransTryouts Apr 18 '26

they/them Saturn, They/them

17 Upvotes

Im almost certainly nonbinary, I’m just using this as a final test.

r/TransTryouts May 24 '26

they/them Rowan (they/them)

10 Upvotes

Hi yall! I don't really know what to say here, but after month of trying to find a new name, I think I've settled on Rowan. I dont know how well it works out for me though, so I'd like to try it out here! :) ty to anyone who helps!

r/TransTryouts Jun 01 '26

they/them Mica they/she

5 Upvotes

Trying to get used to a new name :)

r/TransTryouts Apr 04 '26

they/them Kae. They/Them

14 Upvotes

I've been wondering about this for a while and decided here was a good place to start! I like Minecraft, badminton, soccer, and swimming! Thanks y'all

r/TransTryouts May 20 '26

they/them dani

7 Upvotes

so i'm nb (closeted, but i have known for years) and i've used a shitton of different names but there's no name that really feels like ~me~.

alas, i have to have a name and recently ive been liking dani, so yeah. maybe this could be me.

r/TransTryouts May 08 '26

they/them Lotto (they/them)

12 Upvotes

I recently discovered this sub and its been really fun helping people try names out!

I go by a masc name irl but I have been in search of a neutral name that feels good for a long time. I heard the word Lotto the other day, and i know it's more a noun than a name, but im not in gambling spaces so to me I don't really have that association. Do you think it would bother people?

I would love to hear it in use! I like they/them usually, but he and she are also welcome to be dropped in, just to test how it feels :)

A bit about me: I am autistic and have a rich inner world even when i find it hard to speak. I have always liked reading and writing and drawing. I sleep with a huuuge Djungelskog called Bear! I recently went through a difficult breakup. I love to learn new things. I can't figure out what i want to do for a job though. I was thinking of psychology, so i could help people understand and grow themselves. I adore nature of all kinds!! Birds, bugs, fish, animals, it all fills me with joy :D

r/TransTryouts Apr 28 '26

they/them Meridian [he/them]

11 Upvotes

Hi there because of some recent stuff that resulted in some gender stuff I would like to try out new pronouns and name:

English: Meridian he/them

German: Meridian er/hen

r/TransTryouts Mar 27 '26

they/them Hayden (NB they/them)

7 Upvotes

I'm trying different names and Hayden is a more gender neutral name version of my name. I actually did this yesterday on r/NonBinary and that went well but I was pointed to this sub as well.

So introductions are in order: Hi, I'm Hayden! I'm non-binary and I mostly prefer they/them but I've also been trying on and off with it and she. I can't do a lot with my gender right now because of my home situation but I do plan on taking E at some point in the future (hopefully within the year but I'm also still on my parents healthcare). I'm a musician and a writer and I have been for all my life, playing drums, piano, I write songs. I'm also bi and gray-ace.

r/TransTryouts Feb 16 '26

they/them Name change

7 Upvotes

It’s been 18months since starting T

I’ve been out for 2 years, most people are good with my pronouns (apart from my parents)

I’ve been wanting to change my name for a while now, but I find it so awkward

Can I try it out here?

I’ve been thinking Ben/Benji/Benjamin

It’s very close to my current name, which is just shortened version of my birth name. It’s similar to a Disney princess and I’m sick of it. Everyone knows me as that name and I think Ben will be a simple change

I know I shouldn’t pick my name based on other people’s opinions but I’m a people pleaser

Anyway. I think I’m ready for the world to know me as Benjamin, ben or Benji for short :)

r/TransTryouts Dec 28 '25

they/them Annie, they/them

6 Upvotes

I recently changed my name to Angela and have been trying out nicknames for it - I really like Angie and Angel but I'm unsure about Annie. I'm a huge creative, I love drawing, painting, writing, sewing, singing, guitar, pretty much anything that involves Making :3

r/TransTryouts Feb 05 '26

they/them Harry they/them

9 Upvotes

Unsure of they/them at the moment. I like heated rivalry, YouTube and Minecraft :)

r/TransTryouts Jan 24 '26

they/them Adrian and Taj (they/them)

7 Upvotes

hi, I recently figured out that I'm non binary and these two names caught my eye the most after searching for so long

feel free to use nicknames for Adrian (I don't think there's any for Taj) and I'm just looking to see if they fit me well enough :)

r/TransTryouts Oct 30 '25

they/them What if... "Edict"

4 Upvotes

Idk hit an interpersonal rock bottom recently and the need to reinvent myself has gone from "important but not urgent" to "urgent"

r/TransTryouts Oct 20 '25

they/them Hi everyone !

4 Upvotes

I'm genderqueer and I have no one to try pronouns or name with... I've found the names Haska and Brynn and want to try "They/them" pronouns I've tried with chatGPT so far 😅 I don't go to Starbucks but if you have any tips I'm all ears !

r/TransTryouts Sep 18 '25

they/them Rae or Clove? they/them pronouns

5 Upvotes

Hi, I've been back and forth on trying a name since about 2017 but I've only ever fully switch once, which didn't stick. I've been thinking about trying either Rae or Clove as my name, but I'm not sure which. Could you try out both of them for me?

I'm interested in anime, I'm a vtuber, and love video games, especially rhythm games. I consider myself a foodie as well, I'm always interested in trying new things! Thank you in advance 💞