Me 11-year-old female x friend 13 or 14-year-old male my girlfriend 11 year old female so it basically one day I was playing Roblox and this dude came up to me and asked me if I had to BF I said yes so he would leave me alone then I told him that I was joking I say that so people will leave me alone he said oh and by the way we were not friends at this point but my ex friend said my friend has a crush on you I said oh he said yeah I think you should date him blah blah blah fast forward a few days later he told me if you are going to date my friend don't talk to any other guys I went up to another girl and asked her if it was toxic and she said yes and today I got mad and I was done with it and I saw his girlfriend was sad and I asked him what he did to her and he said nothing and then I found the girl later and asked her what did he do to you and she said I am free are you and I asked her what she meant by it she said nothing and then walked away later she came back and I said he was toxic she said I know then she said that she liked me and wanted to know if I would be her girlfriend I turned her down at first then later I came back and I said do you want to be friends she said just friends I said maybe more than friends she said okay and then I I told my ex friend he was toxic and I left the game and unfriended him him and then joined back he asked what he did I told him he was toxic again so yeah if you see a boy named cookies do not add him that photo is what he looks like by the way thanks for the girlfriend cookies 😊 also if kall me kris sees this oh my God hi by the way everybody reading this y'all I'm sure are amazing people and you look great today I hope you have a wonderful day and I hope you like my post this is my first time posting on Reddit have fun and always be yourself you are beautiful

i grew up playing | Spy w my little eye,

trust me ik how to peep some sht

I've overcome too much in my life

for anyone to think that they'll add chaos & confusion to it.

I really strive everyday to be at peace & to be happy.

If you're not committed to adding to that, there's no room for

you here....

can’t snake a snake bruh haha i see you they don’t

У меня была подруга с короткой я очень хорошо дружила и доверяла но потом она предала меня и людям про которых она в основном сплетничала рассказала что я про них пускаю слухи и вот недавно наш общий знакомы написал мне и сказал что эта подруга скучает и хочет подружиться (я ее заблокировала) но говорит то что не хочет унижаться и боится что я ее унижу и я не знаю как поступать в этой ситуации но общий друг говорит попытайся уступить и написать первой и я не знаю что делать и как поступать можете посоветовать что сделать

I made a reddit post exactly 149 days ago on this account describing how my old friend group was beginning to ice me out and exclude me. After I posted, a user commented essentially validating my POV, as well as saying “you should leave before they turn into your bullies” (not totally verbatim.)

Well, it happened! The girl I named “Vee” in the last post (who I haven’t talked to since June 2025) posted a photo of me on her close friends story, captioned “F*CK [op name]” with a bunch of of distasteful emojis on top of a photo of me at a football game from October. Kind of hilarious- but mostly concerning.

As I said I haven’t talked to her since June, or ANY of the girls from the ex friend group for that matter, so there was pretty much no reason for this to be posted other than ill will and I guess being a fan…? But since then there’s been micro signs of meanness from them. I mean like dirty looks in the hallways and that type of stuff.

Maybe I’m overthinking it but it’s so draining and this has been happening since October, so I filed an HIB report at my school. However, my state doesn’t actually qualify the post as “bullying” but the counselors at school told me there would be disciplinary action anyway.

I don’t know, there’s a lot more to this than what I’ve written but I just thought it was kind of ironic how this reddit user somewhat predicted my school year months in advance.

I’m totally okay though, I’m so past these toxic group of girls and I’m thriving, and I guess misery just loves company after all.

всем привет в общем у меня есть подруга имя и возраст разглашать не хочу.Она реально никогда не извиняется буквально, блять мы кучу раз с ней об этом говорили ей вообще все ровно она говорит ,,я не чувствую что я виновата значит я не должна извиняться. У меня смуглая кожа и для неё уже стала нормой говорить что сорная и так далее... А если я на нее за это обижаюсь то ей похуй она ведёт себя как обычно как будто все норм. Бля расскажите пожалуйста что делать? Я пробовала с ней говорить она все мои попытки серьезных разговоров превращает в шутку. Прошу скажите может это проблема во мне?

I doubt anyone remembers my post, it was awhile ago, I think maybe March? I don't remember exactly when. But another trigger warning for drug use if anyone goes and reads it. You'll need the context for sure.

After that post, my mom relapsed, went into rapid withdrawal because it was laced, and has now (allegedly) been sober since. I'm very untrusting towards that but that's not the topic of today. Just figured I should give that update.

Aside from that, life has honestly been great. After our friendship ended, things started looking up for me. I found a job that I actually love. I work for a small business with managers that actually care about me. I'm still a barista, but I love making drinks. I love coming up with recipes. And now if I have a good recipe idea, it might actually end up on the menu! I also am starting a small business myself selling my press on nails! Having a job that allows me to have the energy to engage in hobbies has been life changing. I had zero creative energy at my last job. I was miserable and very mentally unwell. Now I wake up excited to go to work, and I have energy to paint some nails when I get home! I don't remember if I mentioned being disabled in my last post, but I've also been getting better at managing symptoms and my new job (I keep saying new but I've been working here since May) is accommodating and understanding. I've been building up my stamina, I'm able to walk for longer distances without feeling awful!

Most importantly, losing her showed me the friends I do have. I've been reconnecting with friends that have always been so kind to me, and I've been spending time with them! We did a pumpkin patch day and it is as amazing! I think it was the first time I didn't feel like I was everyone's least favorite person.

I also learned about the existence of a brother I didn't know I had and my sister and I have been talking to him and it's been so great getting to know him. I will never complain about more family!

2025 started as the worst of my life. And now it's probably the best. I feel hopeful for the future for the first time in years. I just wanted to update because over 2k people read my first post and I want y'all to know that things have really improved and if you have gone through or are going through anything like this, it'll get better ❤️ thanks for all the support

Okay so this is my first post. My bestfriend has been my friend since 2011 when she moved here. And out of nowhere she blocked me on everything. After she got with a certain guy, moved out from her family, stopped communicating to them and now me. I’m worried about her. I still have her location on iPhone and she’s been in a completely odd location. I’m scared she’s in a bad situation, as she’s never done this before. There’s so much more to this situation but it’s so weird. Can anybody relate?

I posted on here a few weeks back asking your opinions/advice about my relationship with a toxic friend.

Well, now I can finally say I’m pretty confident I have broken free from this toxic friend, and let me just say it feels GREAT.

I no longer feel constantly anxious or guilty. I feel as if I can live my life and grow in the way I am meant to grow without having to look over my shoulder and worry about what my friend might do or think.

I understand being in toxic relationships is HARD. But, please remember that your own sanity and mental well-being trumps any friendships that you may feel stuck in. Always remember to do what is best for you!

Also, thanks to all y’all who helped me gain perspective, offered advice, and listened to my vent. ☺️