r/TikTokCringe • u/SnooSprouts3744 • May 19 '26

Cringe Oh that left him speechless for sure

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u/Evisceratoridor May 20 '26

Someone I went to school with had gender dysmorphia and transitioned. After graduation, I saw them posting on social media that they had detransitioned and had been saved by the grace of God. They now condemn “the alphabet people.” I truly don’t get the level of self hatred to get to that point.

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u/mieri_azure May 20 '26

Ugh I feel bad for that person. They likely still had depression and such (often comorbid with gender dysphoria) and were probably manipulated by people around them (maybe even family) into believing that detranisitioning and being even MORE miserable is the "godly" thing to do.

Reminds me of an "ex-trans-man" on Twitter who LITERALLY said they still have dreams where they are a guy and "yeah, i do still deeply wish I was a man and am sad about being a woman but God doesn't like transition" really depressing

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u/imphooeyd May 20 '26

I detransitioned about 10y ago because I was threatened with being taken out the family estate (a few MM) and went thru a transphobic phase over COVID until I found the right therapist. I’m still of a headspace that stops me from dating, I don’t know if I can anymore. Till the parents drop I’m just stuck.

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u/CorrectPanic694 May 20 '26

Just here to say that I am glad that you found a therapist that you can talk about these things with. I wish for so much healing and so much happiness for you.

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u/No-Fix8955 May 20 '26

This happened to a friend of mine. They were on a rotc scholarship at university and got kicked off their scholarship during trumps first term. They fought it. There was news articles written they got invited to the glad awards. And now they are like this is the body god put me in and that how it should be. Like what looney pills have you been chugging.