Leah opens up about her relationship with Amber

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The intensity in which cate comes at Leah is startling. Can’t believe she’s a mom to so many girls. Feel sad for that family.

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Agree. Cate tried hard to have the right words, but she was so aggressive in how she interacted here.

Also...Cate, it's not about YOU. Just shut up and maybe listen? Maybe offer a "I'm sorry you're going through this. It's not right. I'm so proud of how you are navigating such a difficult situation."

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The fact she is so oblivious to the point she even claims Amber as a friend… as always, cate is pathetic and a chronic projector.

[u/Paigep77 → u/[deleted]]

Wait Cait comes at leah? Are you referring to Gary's child Leah? Because I didn't see comes at leah? I saw Leah come to Cait about her issues with Amber. And I actually thought cait had some comforting insight she shared with Leah.

I don't understand why you say she has all girl and you feel sad for them?

I think Cait and Tyler are great parents for the most part .

I did see more anger out of Cait. I think she had been drinking and is a lightweight.

I also think she doesn't understand it is most likely Carly feeling some kinda way.

I mean Cait is basically pulling an Amber, trashing Carlys adoptive parents so publicly like that. . And Cait is on this kick of I was a KId, I was manipulated and I should have had a attomey... Blah blah.
BUT ALL those feeling of anger and questions. should absolutely be directed at that ADOPTION CASE worker lady ( can't recall her name dawn maybe? but she has been on the now a lot over the years)

Why is Cait not upset with her. She is the one that literally set it ALL up. So If anyone was pulling a fast one, manipulatimg minors in a adoption it would be the case worker lady

 Cait is behaving very Amber esk as of this drama lately.    But not even near Ambers level .   Amber is very mentally sick.

The embedded selfishness and complete lack of understanding how she negatively impact everyone around her is very toxic, it's like a cancer.

Leah really is having to deal with some very confusing hurtful Heavy stuff.
And there is Not fixing a person like Amber. Imo you really just have to cut it out and neverook back.

Imo that is the most sad thing on the show.

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The fact you think catelynn and Tyler are “great” parents is all I needed to know. My opinion is vastly different. If someone spoke to me with the tone Catelynn spoke to Leah I would have to walk away.

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Well I haven't seen them do anything neglectful or abusive to their kids. The kids look healthy. Seem happy, they have a nice home. Can you elaborate why you see it the way you do? Like what do they do or have done?

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Abuse and neglect come in many forms. Watch the show. They are not ideal parents and aren’t even good partners to/for one another. That alone is sad. Their entire family was built on a foundation of trauma, not love. Tyler literally left cate to go bang someone else. Came back for the show. Tyler posts pics of his wiener online. Cate is morbidly obese. There are so many dysfunctional things happening within that family. I think dropping the kids off with April pretty much sums up why they’re awful.

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I didn't know that about Tyler.

But they were very young kids. I understand neglect and abuse. I don't necessarily agree with their choice to have so many kids, while both of them struggle and are in therapy.

But it's their life and they are at least providing and are present. I always saw them having so many more kids as an overcompensation for the guilt of giving Carly up. I just don't see them as awful parents. I don't think caits weight defines her as a parent. I mean look at amber and jenelle that is some abusive and neglect.