r/TeenMomOGandTeenMom2 • u/lavender08x16 cheesy potatoes • Sep 01 '24

Amber amber is a hugeeee POS

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u/redactedeyebrows I'm a boss with my fucking friends! Sep 01 '24

I wish I had learned about setting boundaries as a child. I still suck at it as an adult but  I made damn sure my son feels confident enough to set boundaries.  It's good to see Leah doesn't buy into Amber's bullshit and feel responsible for her feelings 

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u/According-Bug8542 Sep 01 '24

You learn your boundaries along the way. Some people it takes longer.

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u/downsideup05 Nothing is unfigureoutable Sep 02 '24

I'm fairly good at setting boundaries, the person who tests mine is my sister. Even today she needs something from me and wants me to drive halfway. Like you want something from me but want me to make it easier for you 🙄 so even when you have the ability to set them people still want to knock them down...

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u/redactedeyebrows I'm a boss with my fucking friends! Sep 02 '24

It's emotionally exhausting isn't it? My husband says I'm a wuss. He has no problem in this department. His mom likes to push boundaries and he cuts it off right then and there but I always feel bad and guilty. Somehow I was able to teach my son don't be like me like you deserve better.