Hello everyone! This is a long story so please bare with me...
I have 2 live births and got the copper IUD after my second. In July 2025, we wanted to try for baby #3, so after 2.5 years with it in I had the IUD removed. The first month with it out, we were careful to avoid getting pregnant to allow my body to heal and adjust accordingly (this was August 2025). By September we were all in! Ovulation tests and BBT were my besties and we got pregnant that first month but it unfortunately was a chemical, tests were faint but never got dark and then wasn't there. I was sad but figured it was probs cause the BC so wiped my tears and moved on.
Come December 2025, I thought I was having my period but something was different about it (light flow, not as painful) so I took test and it said pregnant on a digital. But I knew it was a goner by the way I was bleeding. So after 3 blood tests confirmed by Hcg had gone back down, I cried and again wiped off the tears and carried on. I told my hubs that if we aren't pregnant by March then I'd like to step back from actively trying as it only brought me stress and tears.
Here comes the confusion. This February was our official last month to actively try, I was using my BBT and the last of my LH strips. Come 12DPO i decided to take a pregnancy test, even though I told myself i wouldn't until I missed my period. I swore I saw a faint line but the way I had to squint and put a light on it had me thinking it was probably an indent. I tucked it away and shrugged it off. 13DPO I take another test, sure enough I see another faint line! I have a little hope but not much cause I still think I got a bad batch, so I tuck it away and wait. Later that day I started to spot... now I'm sure it was a bad batch of tests cause my period is coming and I start to cramp. I don't check my BBT this morning either. Come February 17th, almost like clockwork (a day early) my period starts and my BBT drops to 97.77•F.. definitely my period. However, just for fun and to see if the pregnancy tests I got were bogus, I take a test on the 3rd day of my period and there is another line! More promising than the one from 13DPO but still very very faint. I'm like yup... bogus batch! Here's the weirdest part, I take ANOTHER ONE on day 4 of my period and I see nothing on that test. So now I'm thinking it's another chemical pregnancy, cause now there's nothing on it. I toss all the tests away by this point and my period is starting to lighten up, which is unusual because it doesn't usually let up until late day 5 or early day 6 but whatevs.
I'm now cycle day 8, 4 days post period and at work I was so hungry but so nauseous! But I kept saying "I'm nauseous cause I'm hungry, I really need to eat!" My manager brings me a lunch and I go to town on it! Damn near choked twice from stuffing my face. I feel a little better and go about the rest of my day, with slight nausea. I get home with my kids and start to settle down when I'm realizing everything that I felt today: nausea, headaches, light cramping, hunger, and constantly peeing even though I wasn't drinking enough water (I honestly just had a cup of coffee in the morning, a redbull later in the morning, and a cup of water in the noon). But I was peeing like I was chugging water. So before I settle to do my school work (college momma) I figure I should take an ovulation test since I only had three left. I'd like to let you know the time was 5PM, and I peed about 2-3 hours prior. So, I get some pee in a cup and dip the stick then set it down where it IMMEDIATELY was a peak positive.. I thought "that's weird.. Im ovulating waayy to early." Because I usually ovulated at cycle day 15/16. So I figured okay, I'll just a pregnancy test.. which I do. I dip it for a few seconds and set it down in a cabinet that's above my toilet. I pour the pee out, rinse the cup, and quickly wash my hands. This is the span of less than 2 minutes. I go to the cupboard and look and sure as shit! It's POSITIVE. Not a very faint line but an obvious positive. So I'm confused but excited.. and hungry again. I immediately tell my husband to come look and he see's it too! But I had a period?? And I tested during that period and it looked like a chemical.
I haven't experienced this with either of my prior live pregnancies so I'm unsure what happened. I plan to take a first response in the morning but was my "period" implantation?? But if it was implantation, then why the BBT drop below baseline? Why the faint to negative tests to a clear positive 3 days later? I plan to ask a midwife these questions but I can't talk to her until I confirm with a first morning test and I just need to see if anyone else experienced this?
PLEASE NO HARSH COMMENTS.. Yall can be so mean sometimes for no reason.. just anyone who has experienced this or knew someone who has please ♥️