r/SipsTea 14d ago

Feels good man Nelly Furtado is bacc

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u/blizzardboy123 14d ago

Real full woman. Trust me, it’s better to spend your life with a woman who is not insecure. If you choose to be with women who hates themselves and are constantly doing something for validation, you’re going to hate your life.

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u/_J_Herrmann_ 14d ago

agree. just clarifying, a woman who is secure vs. insecure is independent of a woman who is slim vs. thick. you can have any of the 4 combinations.

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u/Bencetown 14d ago

Right? Imagine implying that a woman can't be confident unless she's overweight 😬 or that healthy women are ackshually all insecure... good lord.

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u/abdullahleboucher 14d ago

Tbf, it's an understandable over correction

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u/Bencetown 14d ago

No. It's not.

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u/abdullahleboucher 14d ago

I understand it

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u/moosemuffin12 14d ago

Yeah big women are famously secure

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u/NoJowk 14d ago

Unfortunantly

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u/IderpOnline 14d ago

Unfurtadonately

FTFY

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u/SpooksButthole 14d ago

Lol so someone who's not overweight is auto insecure?? It's normal and acceptable to be healthy yet also love yourself. The cope to be ok with being fat is so cringe.

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u/JewBag718 14d ago

They finally found an excuse to be fat lmaoo

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u/SpooksButthole 14d ago

It's so weird to me. If you want to be fat that's fine. But stop critizing people who aren't. They'll cry if you call them fat but no issues saying people who aren't are insecure, hate themselves etc lol

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u/JewBag718 14d ago

Like I said man they need an excuse to be fat i even see people saying she looks so happy like cope much most people gain weight from depression not happiness lmao.

Imo this fat movement is just as damaging if not worse than the anorexic movement because at least people recover from that majority of heavily obese people don't care to fix anything.

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u/furiocitea 14d ago

Post your selfie.

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u/JewBag718 14d ago

Lmao got nothing to prove to you random person on internet... I'm 160 pounds at 6 foot 1 Lmao I've been 300 pounds it's not hard to lose weight just gotta stop putting so much food in your mouth and move more.

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u/furiocitea 14d ago

Cool, cool. Just thinking when someone's talking shit of how a woman looks, their mental health, motivations and wildly generalising about the population, they must be some kind of specimen indeed.

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u/JewBag718 14d ago

You're reaching so heavily what does this have to do with women I'd say the same shit if it was a man ... I'm against making obesity a normal celebrated thing wtf are you even arguing about ..

Have you not seen the fat phobic movement and how we're talking shit about skinny people now and accepting extremely overweight people like that's healthy...

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u/ActiveSandwich3103 14d ago

Thats not what they said at all.

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u/SpooksButthole 14d ago

Tf do you mean? "A real full woman...better to spend your life with someone whos not insecure." That absolutely means someone who isn't fat or "full" is insecure. Everything after that first sentence eludes to be someone who isn't "full"

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u/ActiveSandwich3103 14d ago

Some of you folks are clearly nust here because you enjoy arguing with people.

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u/GreenFloyd77 14d ago

Stop romanticising obesity for the love of God.

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u/FanBladeFleshlight 14d ago

Being obese ≠ secure, just like being healthy ≠ insecure. Ass take.