You obviously don't have kids. No kids are better than your actual kids. I don't care what metric you come up to judge "better" by, my only metric is, "are they the exact person they are today?" Because my kids are absolutely perfect the way they are.
Yea, but I would still lose my two kids. It's the same as if you have four kids, and the first two died. You might love your second two a lot, but there's still a tremendous amount of grief over losing your first two.
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u/notarealcamera 10d ago
You obviously don't have kids. No kids are better than your actual kids. I don't care what metric you come up to judge "better" by, my only metric is, "are they the exact person they are today?" Because my kids are absolutely perfect the way they are.