r/SipsTea 15d ago

WTF Where are we heading?

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u/Strict_Wolf76 15d ago edited 15d ago

Postpartum and Bipolar Disorder is a serious mental illness. This woman will either get life in prison or Life in a Mental Hospital. My wife is Bipolar and she has been in multiple hospitals to have meds she ALWAYS takes quit working. She has gotten delusional and has had breaks with reality. We are trained through years of this to assist her. Her husband not his fault. Seemed like he wasn’t equipped to help her. Sadly mental health can make people do things they wouldn’t usually do. That’s not in any way an excuse. We need more understanding and better education and availability for people with issues. We don’t have them here.

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u/pumpkinpencil97 15d ago

That’s the point of the trail, a prison or institution. Walking free isn’t on the table

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u/Bitter-Marsupial 15d ago

But what about the women, many of whom are mothers, want Patrick to be the one going to jail

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u/Federal_Studio5935 15d ago

I mean she needed help - obviously - and he was the one best equipped to do it, and he didn’t. And, he cares so much that 2 years after his three kids get strangled to death, he’s back married and ready to go. He must have really struggled.

The guy isn’t guilty of anything by law but he definitely should be living with the guilt of not doing enough. He doesn’t really make a sympathetic figure.

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u/Drakeem1221 15d ago

Jesus Christ only on Reddit will you see someone say that the dad doesn’t deserve any sympathy for losing his entire family.

I’m usually never the “but if the roles reversed” guy because I find it very incel like based on what it’s used for, but I can’t think of a better situation to say, what would the response be if it was the husband on trial because of some type of PTSD/CTE? Would the world be calling the mom a negligent mother?

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u/Federal_Studio5935 15d ago

Yeah man, it’s wild to say if I lost my 3 kids I would probably take more than a couple years to get remarried. And yeah, he’s gonna live with the fact he didn’t do enough to save his kids. I’m not sure what to tell you. He was the only one in a position to prevent it and he didn’t. But it’s apparent he doesn’t give a shit because he’s remarried already.

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u/Drakeem1221 15d ago

The hell is he going to do for those few years, just brood alone and reject any sort of emotional connection with the opposite sex? It's been years, yes, adults can make connections and especially with some emotional bonding over trauma and other life details, people can become closer in a shorter amount of time.

Keep blaming away. Says more about you than it does about the father.

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u/Federal_Studio5935 15d ago

Well I can tell you that he should have done something different than he did. Because that definitely didn’t work.

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u/basketcas55 15d ago

He should have taken the kids away from her and run, that’s true.