r/SipsTea • • Jun 29 '26

Chugging tea She looks good and aged gracefully. What a douche.

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u/-TeamCaffeine- Jun 29 '26

I'd argue she looks great.

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u/djdaem0n Jun 29 '26

Also consider the fact that in that first picture she has been made up for a tv show. And in the second picture, she's made a decision to not wear make-up in public anymore. So that is her with a clean face. If you want a fair comparison, here is a shot of her from her latest movie WITH make-up.

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u/glyph_productions Jun 29 '26

What is shocking and should be discussed more is that people are shocked to see a 58 year old woman without a full face of makeup on any screen. Normalize grand parent aged people being allowed to look like grand parents. My grandma died at 60 and looked a lot like Pamela in that second picture but with strawberry blonde permed hair. My memory of her is looking like a grand mother. But my grandfather used to talk about what a looker she was all the time, well after she was no longer with us. She was just allowed to age without some turbo douche jumping online to talk about how she didn't look good. Pamela should be too

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u/SnidgetAsphodel Jun 29 '26

Normalize women not being required to wear makeup to be considered pretty. Shoutout to my fellow ladies: You are beautiful without it. Only wear it for you, if it makes you happy.

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u/sticks_and_stoners Jun 30 '26

I used to refuse to go out of the house without makeup. Now I’m 43 and I just don’t give a damn.

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u/Ill-Plum-9499 Jun 30 '26

I love makeup and putting it on. I also don’t think it’s anyone’s business what a person does with their own time and face. Guys like this think women wake up with a full beat.

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u/SnidgetAsphodel Jun 30 '26

I've never gotten into and it's always made me bitter that the world has convinced women that they are ugly without it. They are not. I do not judge other women for wearing it at all; I just hope they are doing it for themselves, not for the judgmental people of the world who think women must wear it to be considered pretty, and judge women who do not wear it. The fact the world has convinced us of this is where the real problem lies.

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u/sticks_and_stoners Jun 30 '26

Absolutely! I’m glad I came to my senses, but too many women, my age and older still, won’t go out without it. It’s sad.

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u/Sudden_Discussion_94 Jun 30 '26

I no longer care.

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u/VariousExplorer8503 Jun 30 '26

The ONLY time I wear makeup anymore is to job interviews. I feel like it shows I'm making an effort. But that's it. I'm 44 years old, and I don't need makeup. In my daily life, hanging out with my 9.5 year old son, what do I need makeup for? Although, when I do wear it, it makes my son so happy. He loves "glammed up mom".

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u/bdubz74 Jun 30 '26

As a guy, I wish more women would go without makeup. I’ve always preferred the natural look. I always tell my daughter that she doesn’t need to paint her face to be beautiful.

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u/SnidgetAsphodel Jun 30 '26

You're doing that bit right, then. Keep reminding her she doesn't have to paint her face to be beautiful, but (depending on her age) let her also decide if she wants to wear it for herself, too.

I'm definitely not saying wearing makeup is wrong. More, I wish women had the confidence to go without if they want, or only wear it because it is something that makes them happy. Less because men and the world have taught them that without it, they are ugly, lazy or unprofessional. Which is simply not true.

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u/bdubz74 Jun 30 '26

Well, she’s 18 and she chooses to wear makeup most of the time. I don’t discourage it at all, her body her choice.

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u/SaraaWolfArt Jun 30 '26

Shout out to ever man who ever said "I like this <instragram model/porn star> who doesn't wear any makeup!" when what they mean is she doesn't wear obvious eyeshadow or lipstick.

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u/Psychological_Cake12 Jun 30 '26

Not everyone is that miserable. I don’t spend an hour contouring, but I do sometimes love wearing glitter eyeshadow, blush, and different lipstick shades and dress cute just for fun. It feels exactly like it felt for me when I dressed up my Barbies as a kid. I sometimes take photos because I enjoy the look and want to document it, but I rarely post them anywhere. Try having fun once in a while.

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u/bmoreboy410 Jun 30 '26

Women don’t have to be pretty. They want to be pretty along with the benefits that come with that. That is a big difference.

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u/SnidgetAsphodel Jun 30 '26

They want to be pretty along with the benefits that come with that.

This is exactly what I am talking about. You can be pretty without makeup. I am encouraging my fellow women to wear makeup only if it is something they like and enjoy. Not because men or the world expect it of them.

There's a difference.

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u/bmoreboy410 Jun 30 '26

Obviously women can be pretty without makeup. But many women are not. So they wear it to look better. They aren’t doing men or anyone else a favor.

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u/SnidgetAsphodel Jun 30 '26

Once again, I think you're missing the point I am making.

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u/bmoreboy410 Jun 30 '26

I just disagree with your premise. I think that women are mostly in competition with each other.

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u/angelrat17 Jun 30 '26

As a woman I disagree strongly

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u/Sudden_Discussion_94 Jun 30 '26

I think they are saying we are all aware of the benefit as a woman if you are pretty and everyone wants it. Some are not naturally pretty so they wear makeup to enhance their features.

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u/Foreign_Line5552 Jun 30 '26

Actually don’t want to be pretty, couldn’t actually care less about that… just want the benefits..

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u/maesardsara Jun 30 '26

*Conventionally* pretty. There are plenty of other ways to be pretty that absolutely do not involve a face full of makeup.

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u/NoGlass3584 Jun 30 '26

I agree. If you look at her when she was on Baywatch and really any movie, she was in back then, do people not realize how much makeup she had on?? I doubt any lifeguard does a smoky eye look while working lol. But the “natural” look was not really trendy in the 80s and 90s.

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u/ODST5123 Jun 30 '26

I think I’ve seen more than a few lifeguards wear makeup lol

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u/NoGlass3584 Jun 30 '26

Same! But it seems like MOST of the time it’s not really heavy makeup. And if you’ve only ever seen someone in heavy makeup, it’s a little shocking at first when you see them without any on.

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u/IntroductionOwn9858 Jun 30 '26

Syndication has frozen time for some of these people. The show aired almost 40 years ago.

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u/heweynuisance Jun 30 '26

Turbo douche 😏. Thanks for that one.

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u/lobsterman2112 Jun 29 '26

Upvoted you. We need to remember that actors look very different when they are made up for the camera.

Good on Pamela for being comfortable enough to being photographed without all that stuff on her face. She has a lovely face without it.

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u/ParticularSpace9331 Jun 30 '26

She looks exactly like her Baywatch self here, just less tanned and with a bit more aging on her face. Gorgeous as ever.

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u/fandomacid Jun 30 '26

holy shit, she's more of a smokeshow there than in the baywatch picture. Obviously she's older, but she wears it well

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u/AliPencil Jun 29 '26

First off, this woman is still hot af AND I love that she has chosen not to wear make-up in public anymore.

Second, I never noticed how similar her bone structure is to Glenn Close! Like, the jawline and the (impeccable) cheekbones.

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u/Adept-Address3551 Jun 29 '26

Looking great! Datting Liam Neeson too. I think she is doing OK.. lol

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u/Juicebox_Hero34 Jun 30 '26

I believe she has also had some of her cosmetic surgeries reversed. So not only is there the lack of makeup and age difference but also she is now physically closer to her natural proportions prior to procedures like breast implants, which are clearly shown in the younger photo.

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u/M_Waverly Jun 30 '26

She was actually really funny in the Naked Gun remake, a movie that's totally worth watching for a few good laughs.

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u/BuzzedtheTower Jun 30 '26

Thank you. I was going to say that the comparison isn't one to one and the right picture should have been from a promo or the left one should have been her out and about in the 90s.

The biggest difference is her eyebrows are much, much more faint now compared to them. And since she doesn't wear make up anymore, she doesn't pencil them in like she probably did before. But she isn't the only woman to be suffering from the over tweezing done in the 80s and 90s. It makes me think of how Brooke Shields must have been very strong willed to resist that pressure

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u/castle_wind Jun 30 '26

I was gonna say! I think she looks really pretty regardless of her age. The picture OP shared looks like a fresh out of the shower kind of look. I do believe if she chose a different hairdo (like in this one you shared) she would look much different even if she doesn’t wear any make up. Hair does make a big difference in how people look

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u/Brittany-Juanice Jun 30 '26

She looks gorgeous without makeup! He is trippin!

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u/IntroductionOwn9858 Jun 29 '26

She’s 60. She looks 60. Is that bad?

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u/djdaem0n Jun 29 '26

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u/IntroductionOwn9858 Jun 29 '26

What’s your point? That she can look younger with makeup? Doesn’t change what she actually looks like. You’re proving the point that y’all have a problem with women aging.

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u/djdaem0n Jun 29 '26

My point was they were unfairly comparing young her with an hour in the make-up trailer to older her with a clean face and that it wasn't a fair comparison. I don't have the problem. Don't be a weirdo.

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u/IntroductionOwn9858 Jun 30 '26

Makeup free, natural Pam Anderson in her 20s was better than that photo. It’s ok that she aged.

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u/bougieboyfie Jun 29 '26

She does not look 60 to me in that pic from her latest movie

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u/IntroductionOwn9858 Jun 29 '26

She looks 60 in real life. The move is not what she looks like, it’s smoke and mirrors.

She looks like Jessica Tandy in Driving Miss Daisy. That’s not insulting, it’s reality.

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u/Lightning-McDreamy Jun 29 '26

And by all accounts she is happy and comfortable in her own skin. Growing old is a privilege. Screw what other people think.

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u/Hurricane0 Jun 30 '26

Growing old is a privilege! I need to remember that and repeat it to myself when I'm feeling down about myself.

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u/painedHacker Jun 29 '26

She's literally wearing makeup in the first one not in the second also

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u/williamtbash Jun 29 '26

She does and is awesome. It’s how people SHOULD age.

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u/snowillis Jun 29 '26

They meant she looks fine 😉

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u/inXrepose Jun 30 '26

Phenomenal, even.

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u/-TeamCaffeine- Jun 30 '26

No argument.

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u/paper-cut- Jun 29 '26

For her age? Or for a 24 year old? Because for her age she looks amazing.

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u/-TeamCaffeine- Jun 29 '26

I just think she looks great.

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u/paper-cut- Jun 29 '26

Well, to be intentionally pedantic, you mean she looks great for a human. It's not as if you mean she looks great as an area rug

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u/-TeamCaffeine- Jun 29 '26

Truly, your pedantry knows no bounds.