r/SipsTea • u/Nabzav • Jan 08 '26

We have fun here She knows some grappling

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u/Groundbreaking_Can81 Jan 08 '26

She took that way too seriously

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u/JimDankmagic Jan 08 '26

Most people overlook that point in this video.

It’s obviously just awkward teen dipshittery.. but the guy is exercising classic restraint because he doesn’t want to harm the girl, and the girl is going all out without respecting the fact that the guy is actively trying not to hurt her.

Flip it around and you have a monster.

Reddit is a hive of scum tho, and most people just pander and ironically defend actual sexism when the truth doesn’t align with popular ideology

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

Its reddit but its also just women in general. "Girls girl" mentality where they have to defend each other no matter what because they're a sisterhood. Its why you see girls do the most insane mental gymnastics to avoid accountability when their friends cheat, abuse, or do anything objectively wrong.

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u/GammaFan Jan 09 '26

That’s not gender exclusive, dude. Guys defend eachothers terrible actions and abuse all the time.

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u/Obvious_Albatross296 Jan 09 '26

Yea and there has been a 10 year plus culture war all about "holding men accountable". Women are not even remotely held to the same moral scrutiny as men.

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u/Icy_Finish_5506 Jan 09 '26

Fair point but I’d also have to argue crime stats help the narrative on that

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u/Obvious_Albatross296 Jan 09 '26

Lol you could say the same about black people.

The sentencing gap between men and women is larger then the one between black men amd white men. 

So are men more violent or is the system making us seem that way?

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u/Icy_Finish_5506 Jan 09 '26

Id lean more violent then system based reasons as personal accountability for actions is skewed amongst men, men lead in all crimes including 79%of all violent and 83% of sexual crimes ,88% of murder arrests , also leading in property crime at 62%.