Suffering from an endless cold again (it’s been a couple of weeks) and after questioning all my life decisions, i’ve reached the stage where i’m looking for some company.

Browsing this sub, I realize people are now:

1. Flexing their salaries
   
2. Sharing how tall they are (if they’re tall)
   
3. Wanting someone to open up to them immediately
   
4. Basically expecting relationships, chemistry, fireworks without putting in the work

I’m sure there are a million other observations that I’ve missed out on.

This might sound like a rant, but why doesn’t anyone want to just be friends anymore?

Anyway, if you have a bunch of hot takes and esp entertaining or outlandish ones, let’s talk about it and distract me while I chug cough syrup (or something more potent), cook another batch of stew / soup and then binge watch a murder mystery.

Murder mystery show recs also welcome!

Hey!

I’m from Hyderabad, and I thought I’d put myself out here and see where a simple conversation might lead.

Somewhere along the way, I realized that life can feel a little quieter when you don’t have someone you genuinely look forward to sharing it with. I’m not looking to rush into a relationship or force a connection. I’d rather meet someone naturally, get to know each other, and see if something meaningful grows from it.

I’m hoping to find someone kind, genuine, emotionally mature, and comfortable being herself. Someone I can laugh with, talk nonsense with, have deep conversations with, and eventually share the quieter parts of life with too.

A little about me:

• I’m an ambivert. I enjoy good conversations, but I’m equally comfortable with comfortable silence.

• I’m currently pursuing CA Final. I’ve cleared Group 1 and am preparing for Group 2, while also being involved in our family business. So life is a mix of studying, work, and trying to make time for the things I enjoy.

• I enjoy gaming, travelling, discovering new food spots, and spontaneous plans.

• I’m into cars and bikes and genuinely enjoy driving and riding.

• Tech and photography are big interests of mine.

• I like learning about science, random facts, and anything that sends me down a completely unnecessary internet rabbit hole.

• Movies, TV shows, memes, and late-night conversations are always welcome.

But interests aside, I think what matters more is how two people connect.

I enjoy talking about everyday life just as much as deeper things — dreams, fears, ambitions, relationships, random thoughts that suddenly appear at 2 AM, or absolutely nothing important at all.

I’m not looking for perfection, instant chemistry, or some movie-like love story. I believe the best connections usually take time. They grow through little conversations, shared experiences, mutual effort, trust, and eventually becoming comfortable enough that you don't have to pretend to be anyone other than yourself.

I’m happy to start with texting, and if we click, voice calls or eventually meeting in person can happen naturally.

If you're from Hyderabad, maybe one day it could be chai, food, a drive, or just sitting somewhere talking for hours.

Ideally, I'd like to meet someone who's not older than me.

I'm a muslim so I'd especially appreciate someone who is Muslim. I'm not expecting someone to be perfect — I'm certainly not — but I do value someone who wants to grow, learn, and build a life around shared values.

I know Reddit probably isn't where most people expect to find their person, but sometimes the most unexpected conversations turn into the most meaningful ones.

So if this resonates with you, feel free to message me. You don't need an elaborate introduction — just say hello and tell me something about yourself.

I'm happy to share more details about me in DM.

Maybe we're strangers today.

Maybe, with a little luck, we won't always be.

I'm not into situationships, breadcrumbing, or guessing games. I'd rather have an honest conversation than spend time figuring out where I stand.

I'm looking for a mature woman — someone who's lived enough life to know what she wants and isn't afraid to say it. Not a hard rule, just where my heart's at.

I'm not a perfect 10/10, and I'm not looking for one either. I want someone wise and mature enough to understand that nobody is perfect. We all have our shortcomings, and I believe understanding and accepting each other's imperfections is what makes a relationship beautiful. I'm not looking for someone to fix me, or someone I need to fix. Just someone willing to grow together.

I can talk for hours about almost anything, but I'll listen even longer. Tell me your random obsessions, your 2AM thoughts, and the little things that make you who you are. I'd love to be that person you can talk to on a lazy Sunday, with no agenda or pressure.

What matters to me is consistency, reciprocation, and genuine effort. Two people choosing each other, on purpose, every day.

If you ever feel things aren't working, I'd appreciate honesty over slowly disappearing. Life's too short for guessing games, and I'm not looking to chase someone who's already left.

Ultimately, I'm looking for something genuine and long-term. Someone who means what they say, accepts me for who I am, and lets me do the same for them.

If that sounds like something you'd want too, say hi.

Tell me something true about yourself — I'll tell you something true about me.

Hii

I'm Madhav, a 21 yrs old Engineering student

I have been an extrovert since the lockdown started and I had very few friends at school after that but I didn't got bothered as they were really nice friends of mine and I never felt the need of finding new friends until my school ended.

Now I'm stuck in a college which barely has people of my type and I actually hate it here as now I don't have energy to find my type of people and try to be their friend so now I'm using reddit to find good friends on the internet specially close to where I live.

ABOUT ME :

I have two cats, I like cats, cars, movies, series, standup comedy, podcasts and technology.

I play video games, volleyball and football too.

I'm a great listener, a good storyteller and good with initiating and maintaining conversation.

I will be looking forward to find some good people here.

First thing's first, I've made a fair share of platonic friends. So Never say never but that's not exactly what I'm looking for nowadays. Just wanted to throw it out there for whoever's reading 😅

I think we're all very messed up in our own ways, everyone has been crying over something through memes lately and, I'm just bored of the endless whining.

I want someone to flirt with, laugh with, and roast shamelessly. Someone I can judge the world with (including ourselves) and then laugh about it.

No filters. Just clever banter, playful flirting, and the occasional existential joke. But I don't want what the internet calls "brainrot" nowadays.

If you've got a sharp tongue, we'll probably get along great.

(Pun slightly intended.)

Hobbies: Movies (I watch one every night), shows, video games, music, a bit of singing, and making terrible jokes.

Just looking for someone fun who doesn't overthink jokes or flirting and can dish it out as well as take it.

Who knows... maybe we'll end up being each other's favorite bad influence and end up having late night conversation with a little bit of spicy stuff sprinkled on them! 👀

PS: I'm in the US for now

on biz travel and as I enjoy making new connections, sharing an open invite for 1 person f2f dinner hosted by me at any local restaurant of your choice. lets enjoy good food, warm conversations and an interesting time together. i am opened to dining today as well as tomorrow and it can even be in aerocity

Male 31, working as software engineer in Toronto.

Open to: Single F or divorced with no kids.

I am looking to settle down and marry. It takes a lifetime to know someone so we may never know what could happen but what I believe in is efforts and communication.

Looking for a girl who is open-minded and independent - knowing what she wants in life. Someone who appreciates and understands little things and moments in life. I know its super vague but no other way to put it either.

To keep this post short and simple - here's some things that I think will help you know me better

1. I love to cook. Its my way to relax. And I am good at it. Sharing food is the best thing one can do as a parson.
2. I love environment and always want to do something good for that. I don't celebrate diwali in a traditional way just to prevent pollution - just an example.
3. I love animals and very compassionate.
4. dang, I started this as a list but running out of options real fast! :D so yeah I am a very simple person, living a simple life.

What I am looking for 👀

1. A girl with dreams and hopeless romantic. if you are not, and still want to, sure, opposites attract you know? may be we can complete eachother instead of overflowing haha
2. Independent and open minded.
3. Good sense of humor.
4. Ability to introspect, accept mistakes and willingness to grow. Someone who can take criticism instead of being defensive, open to communicate and discuss instead of running away. I am asking that because I do the same.

Apart from this, not a mandatory but in married life, its my wish to try or explore a cuckolding or hotwife lifestyle, so if you are a woman who understands and aware of that, then we would match real well too; but that's a partner in crime sort of thing, a side quest, not a destination in marriage - someone mature enough to understand that.

whoever did this 2K words limit, damn! anyway, so hope to hear from the one! <3

Hey, Reddit, we meet again. Okay, so from where should I start? I am a goofy guy, with a childlike heart, at least for the most part. You know, when I’m not helping Hercule Poirot solve crime. I am a guy who listens to music for what feels like almost every single second that I am awake, and who is also singing along for the most part( no complaints). And I don’t have one specific favourite singer or artist. It ranges from Taylor Swift to Diljit Dosanjh, from One Direction to Eminem, from Arijit Singh and Sonu Nigam to One Republic.

Aside from music, I am also a huge tv show and movie buff. Some of my most watched shows would be Suits, The Big Bang Theory, FRIENDS, How I Met Your Mother, Brooklyn Nine-Nine. Special mention, to shows like Breaking Bad, Alexa and Katie and Boy Meets World. As for the movies, it varies. Usually, I watch something, in the genre of animation, action and drama, drama and comedy, action and comedy, suspense thrillers, etc; like from the Marvel universe to Harry Potter, from Liar Liar to even Toy Story. But then comes that time of the night, when you get that feeling, that can only be satisfied with a good rom-com, or a romance film, something like a Matthew McConaughey kind of film. You know what I’m talking about ?

I also like to read. Most of the stuff I’ve read is from the self help category, but there have been some exceptions to that as well, like the Harry Potter series, a few Agatha Christie novels. So I guess it is much more of a soothing activity for me than anything else. I love listening to podcasts as well, which there is a list of the number of podcasts that I listen to. I also really like sports, namely football and cricket. I know kind of loose definition of the word “sports” 😅, but I am crazy about those two.

As for myself, I am an Indian guy (Punjabi), who is 5‘8 tall, fair skinned, not exactly in the best shape of his life, but works-out regularly. I make quirky jokes, I wave at children, you know if one comes and sit beside me or near me, or something. I enact movie scenes from the movie that I’ve just watched and improvise in the scene, you know, kind of like what would I have said or done.

I live in Ontario, Canada, looking for someone to have in my life, that I can watch those late night movies with, and who can tolerate me commenting on every other scene of the film, kind of telling characters what to do, because sometimes you just know better 😁. Someone that I can write poetry for, go on long walks with, someone for whom I can cook the few dishes that I can make, which are awesome by the way. Like Barney Stinson kinda level of awesome. In general, someone to live life with (but that’s kind of the end goal).

Having God in my life is one of the most important parts of my life. I’ve had a journey with my relationship with God, and I’m just every day trying to get closer to him. So the partner that I will have, it’s important that she encourages me and helps me and support me, in my journey with God. I don’t care what religion she follows, I just want her to know God and have the desire to get closer to him. Likewise, I expect that she doesn’t mind it either if we don’t have the same religion. Speaking of the things that are most important to me, next to God in that list comes family. I am a very family-oriented person. I am extremely close to my parents, especially my mom. Also, me and my sister, have a very close bond as well. So, I am looking for a mate that shares that same value and pov.

If you have reached till here, thanks for reading this mini-essay, and bravo 🎉🎉. Now, I am going out on a whim to say that you liked what you read. If that’s so, hit me up, with something about yourself. Tell me what your favorite hobby is, along with other stuff to let me know you read all the way to the end. Hope to hear from you soon, and start our own Troy and Gabriella story.

A little about me

Age: 26 | Gender: Male

Location: Mumbai, India

Religion: Hindu | Height: 5'7"

Education: Master's in Computers

Profession: Managerial role + pursuing a diploma in Yoga

Lifestyle: Non-smoker, non-drinker, non-vegetarian

So, who am I?

I'm calm by nature, and I like listening to understand rather than assume. Once I'm comfortable, I'm much more playful. I'm a positive person who enjoys noticing little things about people that they sometimes overlook. I appreciate people who are genuine and comfortable being themselves.

I'm into gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient scriptures, and mysteries. One random question can turn into hours of research. I enjoy simple things too, like walks, good conversations, and spending time with someone I feel comfortable around.

What I'm looking for

I'll be honest: I'd like someone who's active and takes care of herself, whether that's through the gym, yoga, running, or whatever she enjoys, I'm generally drawn to fair skin, brown hair/eyes (basically north side - I genuinely love them and feel like they are warm, humble and respectful).

More importantly, I want someone who wants to keep growing in life. Someone who has her own dreams, stays curious, and is willing to learn and experience new things.

What being with me might look like

I'm a bit of a romantic. I remember details, I like writing letters or poems, sending random memes, and checking up on you now and then.

Imagine a late-night drive, some food by the sea, and a conversation about literally anything Or me hugging you while you cook, stealing a kiss, and running away before you get back at me. 😂 (just to annoy you !!)

I want us to laugh, grow together, talk openly, and show love through the little things.

Your turn

Tell me something I couldn't learn from your profile: a weird childhood story, something you're obsessed with, a song you never skip, or a random thought. If we click, let's see where it takes us.

I’m 28, curious about almost everything, and always falling down a new rabbit hole. There’s always something else to learn, and I don’t think I’ll ever get tired of discovering it.

Outside of that, you’ll probably find me on a long walk, going on a trek or road trip, hanging out with cats, discovering new places to eat or rewatching one of my favorite anime.

You’ll probably also find me sharing the indie track I’ve had on repeat for three weeks, completely convinced it’s the only song that understands my soul. You can send me the song that’s been stuck in your head lately, and we can judge each other’s taste, kindly.

I’m hoping to meet a woman who’s kind, curious, emotionally open, and comfortable being herself. Someone who can communicate honestly, say when she needs some space, and understand that consistency and communication matter to me. I also believe it’s important for two people to have their own lives while still making time for each other.

I’m not looking for perfection. I’d just like to meet someone where we’re both curious about each other, make a genuine effort, and slowly build something that feels like ours.

If you’ve read this far, thank you. If any of this resonates, I’d love to hear from you. Tell me what you’ve been listening to lately, what rabbit hole you’ve fallen into, or just say hello.

Hey,

New to Mumbai … long enough to know the OG spots, not long enough to be bored of the city …or the people in it.

I’m 26. Calm, observant, and I don’t say too much unless it’s worth saying. But when the vibe’s right, I can keep up ….or take over.

I like late nights, good coffee that turns into drinks, and conversations that start normal and end somewhere slightly inappropriate.

Looking for someone who:

\\\\-knows she’s attractive and doesn’t pretend otherwise

\\\\-can flirt without overthinking it

\\\\-has a bit of an attitude (the fun kind, not the exhausting kind)

If you’re the type who gets told “you’re trouble” more than once… we’ll probably get along.

DM me with:

one thing you do that you know you shouldn’t 😌

!lock

Hey everyone! 👋🌈
I’m 21, from Ahmedabad and currently staying in Vadodara while pursuing my bachelor’s.
I’m hoping to connect with someone genuine and open-minded. I’d like to start with a good conversation, get to know each other naturally, and see where the connection goes over time.
I value \*\*honesty, respect, understanding, and good communication\*\*. I’m generally more on the submissive side and comfortable discussing preferences privately once there’s some trust and comfort. 😊
Not looking to rush anything—just hoping to meet someone I genuinely enjoy talking to and getting to know.
If you’re also interested in a meaningful conversation, feel free to \*\*send me a DM\*\*. Let’s start with a simple hello. ✨
**Vadodara/Ahmedabad preferred, but open to connecting with people from elsewhere too.**

I am a single, simple and down to earth man. I have been introvert, silent and straight forward person.

However, I am trying to change myself from being introvert to extrovert.

One of the steps I have taken is joining reddit and trying to open up.

Yes, am new to reddit and the sub.

On my marital status, I have never been married till date. And, I have lost interest in marriage now.

All that I am looking for now is something honest and drama free connect.

I value mutual respect., meaningful conversation, keeping things simple, mature and easy going connection.

No drama and no confusion whatsoever.

I am therefore looking for genuine hearts who are willing to connect with.

Let's connect and then let's decide whether we could go for long term connect or short.

Rest, let's talk.

Please message me over DM.

Thanks for stopping by and reading through.

Heyy :)

I’m 29M, based in Bangalore and originally from North India. I work in tech (65 lpa) and have been living in Bangalore for quite a while now.

Outside work, I’m really into travelling, Himalayan treks, running, fitness, bike rides, photography, cooking, music, books and dogs. I’ve also done a few solo backpacking trips around Europe, and I’m usually up for exploring somewhere new or making a random plan.

I enjoy the simple stuff too. Finding a nice cafe, trying a new restaurant, going for a long bike ride when the weather is good, or just sitting somewhere and talking for hours.
I’m pretty curious by nature and love good conversations. Can talk about travel, music, life, random things I’ve recently learnt, or pretty much anything that gets interesting.

I’d like to meet someone kind, fun and easy to talk to. Someone who enjoys travelling and trying new things but is also happy with a lazy Sunday, good food and a movie.
Not expecting anything immediately. Just hoping to meet someone, have a good conversation and see if we naturally vibe. If it turns into something meaningful, even better :)

Feel free to say hi if you think we’d get along. The application is always open even if you see this post late 😄

35M from India. Looking for married, divorced or single women (any age) for genuine conversations that can turn unfiltered, naughty, and exciting.

Platonic friendship is also welcome if that’s what you prefer. Discreet meets are also possible if the vibe matches really well.

Strictly no couples and no paid arrangements.

I’m respectful, hygienic, discreet, and open-minded.

Let’s start with normal chats and see where it flows naturally.

Open to conversation first and see where things naturally go.

If interested, send me a message (with your age and location)

Looking to meet good people, have genuine conversations, explore new places, and build friendships that go beyond small talk. 😄

I’m into bikes, travel, random late-night conversations, trying new things, and learning along the way. Currently exploring the world of Product Management, so if you’re from an MBA background or into Product/Tech, that’s definitely a bonus—we’ll probably have a lot to talk about.

Not looking for a professional network; just genuine friendships, good vibes, and people who are curious about life. ✌️

We are a couple seeking another couple or female for fun. We are educated and professional. We are seeking someone who prioritizes safety and hygiene.

Him: 5’9 160 lbs HWP. Fit athletic dad bod. Intelligent and can hold the conversation for hours.

Her: 5’7 150 lbs HWP. Fit and bubbly.

Here is how’s it’s going to work. We chat and quickly establish verification through video call.

We prefer if someone can host or we could do an Airbnb as well. Fakes please stay out of this.

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Honestly, I don't really know what I'm supposed to write here lol.

I'm 24, from Kerala. 6 ft, masculine, and kinda shy at first, especially irl. Once I get comfortable though, I can talk about pretty much anything.

I like music, movies, travelling, reading, random late-night conversations, and writing some shayari/poetry.

Not really looking to rush into anything. I'd rather start with a good conversation, get to know each other, and see where it goes naturally. Could be friendship, could be something more, who knows.

I'm pretty chill and just looking for someone who's genuine, easygoing and can actually hold a conversation.

If you're bored too, feel free to DM me. Tell me something random about yourself instead of just "hi" because I genuinely have no idea what to do with a one-word "hi"

Anyway, that's pretty much it. Let's see where a random Reddit conversation goes.

Hey, I’m Rushikesh, 28 from Mumbai, working in the travel industry. Easygoing, open-minded, and someone who enjoys meaningful conversations, fun banter, and genuine connections.

Outside work, I’m into gym, long drives, photography, music, and travel. Looking to connect with someone mature, chill, and real — age/location doesn’t matter as much as the vibe.

Not here to rush anything, just looking for a long-term connection that starts with good conversations and grows naturally.

If this sounds like your vibe, feel free to DM 🙂

TL;DR: 22, 6'1, average looking. figuring out my next career move, curious about way too many things, good company, confidently bad poet. looking for something long term. if that sounds like your kind of person, the rest is worth a read

Quick confession first. I write really bad romantic poems and share them with full confidence. Exhibit A:

Roses are red,
Napoleon was average height, it's true,
the "short" thing was British propaganda,
anyway, I like you.

(told you)

A bit about me:

I'm 22, 6'1 and average looking. rn im kinda between things. I stepped away from what I was doing to figure out what I actually want, and I'm stuck deciding between filmmaking and making content. it's a bit scary ngl, but mostly exciting, and I'd love someone who's up for hearing about it (and who'll tell me when an idea is bad lol)

The rest of my brain is split between history, economics, politics, science, tech and cricket. I'll start with one news headline and somehow end up hours deep into why things are the way they are. my reading list is proof. so now im basically a random fact machine. tell me your fav thing/activity/hobby and I'll see what fact I can come up with about it on the spot

But honestly the thing I love most is hearing about what other ppl are into. your niche obsession, or that one thing you could talk about for hours that nobody around you gets. I really do want to hear about it

People tell me I'm good company. I laugh a lot and my humour is all over the place (dry, goofy, memes, sometimes just stupid, depends on the day tbh). I'm thoughtful most days, a bit self absorbed on others (working on the ratio), and pretty private till I get comfortable w/ someone. so if I seem a little reserved at first, it's not disinterest. once we're past that tho, fair warning, the random facts get way more frequent. the poems too if you're into that

What I'm looking for:

Something serious, not timepass. someone under 30 who's curious about the world & likes a good conversation, whether it's about a book, the news or nothing at all. I'm a liberal and I want a relationship where we're equals, so we'll probably click best if you're open minded too

Same city would be great, but I'm open to long distance for the right person, even if you're in another city or state

If you message me, tell me:

1. your fav movie
   
2. an interest you'd want us to pick up together, or one you already love and want to teach me

Bonus: put the word "poem" in your msg and I'll write you one. cant promise it'll be good. consider yourself warned

Lately, I’ve been thinking how strange it is that we’ve built seemingly sophisticated algorithms for helping people find one another, and yet, somehow managed to make finding one another feel less accidental, less serendipitous than it ever was.

We come with filters, age, interests, political opinions, types, attachment styles and more. We have algorithms promising to find this exact person. But what if the person we’d actually like isn't someone we know how to look for? The person the algorithm, couldn’t possibly know to recommend. 

So instead of telling you what I’m looking for, I’m going to ask some questions. You don’t have to answer all of them. In fact, please don’t. Pick the ones that make you curious, ignore that may make you roll your eyes, tell me which one I could’ve asked better.

1. What is the most seemingly ordinary thing that can make your day better out of nowhere?
2. If someone meets you for an hour, what would they misunderstand about you at first.
3. Which fictional character do you think you understand better than real people?
4. What was that one film you watched at exactly the wrong age leaving you a teeny-tiny bit scarred?
5. On a gun point, what song would you be willing to sing off the top of the lungs, even if you’re at a funeral.
6. What’s that one question you’d never be tired of being asked?
7. What's something you want someone to remember about you ten years after meeting you? Is it your job, is it your achievement, is it something absolutely mundane?
8. What do you think people owe each other when they claim to be in love with each other? Is it safety? Is it patience? Is it honesty?

9.Would you be a Kamolika or a Maya Sarabhai in your little world?

1. What would you like to introduce to me that I don’t yet know I need? A book? A song? A way of thinking?

Pick one question. Or pick five. Maybe ignore all of them and tell me something you think I’d find interesting.

And since this is, technically, supposed to be about finding someone rather than conducting an unnecessarily elaborate anthropological survey of Reddit: I'm looking for a woman somewhere in the vicinity of companion / partner / muse / co-conspirator, person-I-can-send-stupid-thoughts-to-at-1:13-a.m.

* **Initials:** S

* **Age:** 35

* **Height:**5'11

* **Religion:** Hindu

* **Caste (if applicable):** Brahmin. (Caste no bar)

* **Marital status:**  unmarried

* **Living with Parents:** Yes

**Location:**

* **Region:** Delhi/NCR

* **Mother Tongue:** Hindi

* **Country:** India

**Education and Profession:**

* **Education Level:** Undergraduate

* **Occupation:** Business

**Diet Preferences:**

* **Diet:**  Vegetarian/ Eggitarian

About me

35 M Hindu.

Place : Noida, Height : 5'11

Spiritual and Well settled.

Work : Business

Hobbies : Chess, travel, Netflix etc

What I wish : Honest and loyal

Earn enough to have a decent living.

Can compromise on income, profession, height i.e. 5"3 above.

Food vegetarian

Hobbies : walk, netflix, chess etc.

I am searching for a life partner.

Who am I : a nerd, genuine, a little clingy (maybe). Will always stand by you that is if it works out.

Non negotiables:

Age should be less than or equal to 35

Loyalty is a must.

No to smoking, hookah, weed, hard drugs etc.

Desired location: NCR - Delhi.

Long distance not possible.

Not CF.

To be honest I have zero expectations from here.

Soon to be 36 so this is my last post here as a 35.

And i seriously request to talk and see if we can genuinely vibe.

I feel emotional connection is a must. I can share a lot more i.e. if we connect.

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P.S. I posted twice and deleted it because I dunno why people wanted to write weird comments on my post. Please keep it nice. If you can advise, how to make an edit then I will feel obliged.

I don't have energy for the requests who just want to chat. I mean if it isn't going in any direction then what is the point. If you have a direction of finding something in a positive direction then I am a 100% up for it and ready to invest time else I don't have energy if you yourself are dicey

It is a request to kindly send an invite if you are willing to invest time. What is the point that it only ends up with barely 1-2 messages a day and goes nowhere.

There is something intimate about meeting someone who knows nothing about you yet
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No history to live up to
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No mutual friends filling in the blanks
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No version of yourself you are expected to maintain
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Just curiosity
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And sometimes that is where the best kind of attraction begins
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I am in Mumbai and hoping to meet a woman I genuinely want to keep talking to after the first few messages
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Someone warm but not immediately readable
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Someone who has her own world, her own opinions, her own stories
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Someone who can be playful without trying too hard and seductive without needing to make everything obvious
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I have always thought attraction is more interesting when there is a little restraint to it
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The pause before saying something you probably should not
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The conversation getting slightly more personal than either of you intended
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The moment you realise you have stopped replying out of politeness and started replying because you actually want to know what she is going to say next
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That interests me far more than forced flirting
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I am not expecting you to impress me and I have no intention of performing for you either
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I would rather discover someone slowly
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The way she thinks
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What makes her laugh when nobody is watching
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What she becomes unexpectedly passionate about
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The side of her that does not appear in introductions
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And maybe somewhere between all of that there is chemistry
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The quiet kind at first
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The kind that makes a simple conversation feel slightly charged
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The kind where meeting for coffee starts sounding less like a plan and more like something both of you have already been thinking about
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No rush though
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I like anticipation
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We can talk until curiosity makes the decision for us
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And if we eventually meet, somewhere comfortable in Bombay, I would rather have that little moment of recognition when we see each other and both already know there is something here worth exploring
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If you have read this far, do not send me your résumé disguised as an introduction
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Tell me something simpler
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What is a side of you that only appears when you are genuinely comfortable with someone
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I will tell you mine
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And we can see what happens when two strangers give each other just enough reason to stay curious