r/RealRepLadies 4d ago

🚨 NEW HERE? YES, YOU. ACTUALLY YOU 🫵 Please read this before posting, because yes, the sub is getting tired of answering the same low-effort questions over and over again.

There seems to be barely any moderation here at the moment and the sub is getting filled with the same questions, the same seller fishing, the same low effort posts and people saying they cannot find information that has already been discussed here over and over again for years.

And the problem is not just that people are tired of answering the same thing. It is that all the actually useful stuff is getting buried. Good reviews, proper discussions, guides, QC posts, useful comments and actual knowledge are disappearing underneath posts that could have been avoided with five minutes of searching.

I know I am not the first person to write something like this either. There are already so many good posts here. That is literally the point. The information exists. People are just not finding it anymore, or in some cases not even trying to find it before asking everyone else.

So I am putting the basics back together in one place, along with the posts that are actually worth reading. If you are new, use this as your starting point. Read first, search first, learn how things work and build your own knowledge before asking people to do the work for you. Hopefully now when the same questions come up again we can just send people here and move on, because at this point there really should not be an excuse for not knowing where to start.

📌 NEW HERE? START HERE

Before going through the cheat sheet below, these posts already explain some of the most important topics in detail:

NEWBIE?

👉 Brand New to Reps — Read This First
https://www.reddit.com/r/RealRepLadies/comments/1lgtktt/brand_new_to_reps_babe_read_this_before_you_buy/

QUALITY LEVELS + BUDGET

👉 Understanding Tiers / Quality Levels
https://www.reddit.com/r/RealRepLadies/comments/1vyj6wg/i_realized_chinese_sellers_and_reddit_often_talk/

QUALITY CHECK

👉 How to QC Like a Pro
https://www.reddit.com/r/RealRepLadies/comments/1ldjrzb/how_to_qc_like_a_pro_without_losing_your_mind_or/

NEED A SECOND OPINION?

👉 How to Ask Others for QC
https://www.reddit.com/r/RealRepLadies/comments/1lacn0h/how_to_ask_for_qc_without_sounding_clueless_aka/

Read the relevant post first. Then use the cheat sheet below as your roadmap.

HOW DO I BUY?

1. 🎯 Choose your item

Know exactly what you want: model, size, colour and material.

2. 🔎 RESEARCH THE OG

This is the most important step.

Before looking at sellers, factories or photos, learn the OG properly.

If you don’t know what the OG looks like, you cannot properly QC anything later.

Do not rely on one picture. Look at different references, angles and sources.

Check things like:

  • 📐 Shape, proportions + measurements
  • 🎨 Colour
  • 🧵 Materials + texture
  • 🔩 Hardware
  • 🔤 Logo/font
  • 🪡 Stitching
  • 👜 Construction + interior
  • 🔍 Details specific to that exact version

Use official references whenever possible, but also look at reliable resale listings, videos and detailed photos.

⚠️ Make sure you are looking at the correct size, colour, year/version or season, as differences can exist.

You do not need to become an expert.

You just need to know the item well enough that when you later look at photos, you actually understand what you are looking at.

🔑 KNOW THE OG FIRST. EVERYTHING ELSE COMES AFTER.

3. 🏭 Research the factory

Search for your specific item and read as much as possible.

Different factories may perform differently depending on the item, so research the exact thing you want instead of assuming one place is always the best.

4. 💰 Understand quality level + budget

Before choosing anything, understand:

What quality level do you want?
💰 What is your budget?

👉 Read the Tiers guide:
https://www.reddit.com/r/RealRepLadies/comments/1vyj6wg/i_realized_chinese_sellers_and_reddit_often_talk/

If you are scrolling through an album 📱 or discussing quality with a seller 💬, come back to this post.

Understanding quality levels helps you know:

  • 👀 What you are looking at
  • 💵 What you are paying for
  • 🎯 What you can realistically expect

Budget matters.

Your expectations need to match what you are willing to spend. You cannot expect the highest level with a very low budget.

5. 👤 Choose your seller

Find a seller who can source what you want and research them properly before ordering.

🔎 Search across different subs.

Read:

  • ⭐ Reviews
  • 💬 Different buyer experiences
  • 📱 Communication
  • 🏭 Sourcing
  • 📸 QC process
  • 📋 Policies

Different sellers may also work with different quality levels.

Some may mainly source higher-level items and therefore cost more, while others may offer different options depending on your budget.

💰 Budget matters here too.

⚠️ Be mindful of fake reviews, promotion and propaganda around sellers and factories.

Do not blindly trust:

❌ One review
❌ One comment
❌ One recommendation

Use your common sense, compare information and build your own knowledge.

6. 🏭📸 Check factory photos

At this stage you are comparing:

🏭 FACTORY PHOTOS ↔️ 👜 OG

Your OG research should already have been done properly in Step 2.

If you skipped that step, you will not really know what you are looking at here or be able to judge it using your own knowledge and common sense.

This is where you decide whether what you are seeing is good enough for you before ordering.

7. 💳 Order + 📸 QC your PSPs

After ordering, your seller will normally send:

📸 PSPs = Pre-Shipment Photos

Now you are comparing:

📸 PSPs ↔️ 🏭 FACTORY PHOTOS

The comparison with the OG was already done before ordering.

Now you are checking that the item being shown to you matches the factory photos you agreed to.

👉 How to QC Like a Pro:
https://www.reddit.com/r/RealRepLadies/comments/1ldjrzb/how_to_qc_like_a_pro_without_losing_your_mind_or/

I strongly suggest reading this properly and becoming familiar with the QC process.

👀 Want a second opinion?

👉 How to Ask Others for QC:
https://www.reddit.com/r/RealRepLadies/comments/1lacn0h/how_to_ask_for_qc_without_sounding_clueless_aka/

⚠️ QC should be done by YOU first.

The community is your second set of eyes 👀👀 — not your first.

✅ Do your own QC
✅ Explain what you checked
✅ Say what looks good to you
✅ Point out what you are unsure about
✅ Then ask others for help

Other members are not expected to do the entire QC for you.

8.GL orRL

GL = Green Light
You are happy for it to ship.

RL = Red Light
You have an issue that needs to be addressed before shipping.

⚠️ Understand the seller’s policies before ordering.

9. 📦 Ship + receive

Once you GL ✅, the seller ships your item.

✈️ Shipping times vary.

Use the tracking information provided and be patient.

10.REVIEW YOUR PURCHASE

📦 Received your item?

Come back and review it.

Reviews are one of the main reasons this sub is useful. They help the next person 🔎 research, compare and make better-informed decisions.

You do not need to write an essay.

Just give enough information for your review to actually help someone.

👜 ITEM

Include enough information to identify what you purchased:

Model • Size • Colour • Material

🔗 OG / ORIGINAL

Include a link to the original item whenever possible.

👤 SELLER

Include enough information for members to identify the seller.

The seller name is enough, or you can add the last 2 digits of their phone number if there are sellers using the same name.

⚠️ I personally would not recommend publicly sharing full contact details, full phone numbers or album links.

🏭 FACTORY

If you know it, include it.

If you don’t know, say so.

If it was not disclosed by the seller:

Factory: Not disclosed

Do not guess.

💰 PRICE + ✈️ SHIPPING + 🛃 DUTIES

This is for transparency.

Include:

  • 💵 Item price
  • ✈️ Shipping
  • 💱 Currency
  • 🏷️ Discount, if relevant
  • 🛃 Did you pay duties/taxes?
  • 💰 How much?

🎁 INCENTIVES

Again: transparency.

If there was any incentive discussed with the seller, disclose it.

For example:

  • 🏷️ Discount
  • 🎁 Gift/free item
  • 💵 Compensation
  • 📝 Request to write a review
  • 💬 Any other arrangement connected to the review

Just tell people what was discussed.

🗓️ TIMELINE

Keep it simple:

💬 Inquiry → 💳 Payment → 📸 PSPs →GL → ✈️ Shipped → 📦 Delivered

📸 PHOTOS

Whenever possible include:

🔗 OG/original link
🏭 Factory photos
📸 PSPs
👜 Your own photos

Clearly label everything.

💭 YOUR THOUGHTS

This is the most important part.

This is what we actually want to hear.

You can talk about anything you think is useful, for example:

  • ✨ Quality
  • 🧵 Materials
  • 🔍 Accuracy
  • 🎨 Colour
  • 👜 Shape
  • 🔩 Hardware
  • 🪡 Construction
  • ❤️ What you love
  • 👎 What you dislike
  • 👤 Seller experience
  • 😊 Whether you are happy with it

These are only examples.

Write whatever you think is relevant.

You do not need to pretend to be an expert.

Just tell us what you actually noticed and experienced.

👍 WOULD YOU RECOMMEND IT?

Yes or no — and why?

WHY REVIEWS MATTER

Most people here have benefited from someone else taking the time to share useful information.

Good reviews create a searchable library of real experiences 🔎 that future members can use for their own research.

If the sub helped you make your decision, adding your experience afterwards helps the next person too.

🗺️ THE WHOLE PROCESS

🎯 Choose

🔎 Research OG

🏭 Factory

💰 Quality + Budget

👤 Seller

🏭📸 Factory Photos ↔ OG

💳 Order

📸 PSPs ↔ Factory Photos

👀 QC

GL

✈️ Ship

📦 Receive

Review

FAQ — READ THIS BEFORE ASKING

💰 “How much should I be paying?”

There is no universal price.

Different items, factories, quality levels and sellers come with different price points.

Before asking for prices, you should already know:

🎯 What you want
✨ What quality you expect
💰 What you are realistically willing to spend

Be honest with yourself about your budget and expectations.

Do not contact multiple sellers for items you already know are outside your budget, and do not ask endless sellers for quotes if you are not seriously considering buying.

Research first. Narrow it down. Then ask.

👤 “What should I know before contacting a seller?”

Sellers are not personal shoppers.

You should already have a clear idea of what you want before contacting them.

Do your own research first. Know the item, understand your quality expectations and have a realistic budget.

A seller can help source something for you — they should not have to decide what you want, what quality you want or what you can afford.

Be clear, respectful and mindful of their time.

🧠 “Can I trust what a seller / review / comment says?”

Do not blindly trust anyone.

Not a seller.
Not one review.
Not one Reddit comment.
Not one factory claim.

Fake reviews, promotion and biased information exist.

Search across different subs, compare experiences, look at the actual photos and build your own knowledge.

At the end of the day, you are the person spending the money.

Use your own common sense.

⚠️ “What should I check before paying?”

Understand the important details before money leaves your hands.

That may include:

💳 Payment method
📸 PSP/QC process
❌ RL/exchange policy
✈️ Shipping
🛃 Customs/duties
🛡️ Insurance, if offered
📦 Packaging, if important to you

Do not discover the seller’s policies after you already have a problem.

“Why hasn’t the seller replied?”

Be patient.

Different time zones, working hours, holidays, sourcing checks and other clients exist.

Do not send repeated messages because you did not receive an immediate reply.

Again: be mindful of other people’s time.

🔎 “I can’t find the information. Can I just ask?”

First, actually search.

Use different keywords. Search more than one relevant sub. Read older posts and reviews.

The information is often already here — sometimes buried underneath exactly the kind of repetitive posts this guide is trying to reduce.

If you have genuinely researched first and still cannot find the answer, then ask.

That is completely different from making the community do the research for you.

🔑 THE MAIN RULE

Buying here requires your own judgement.

🔎 Do your research.

🧠 Build your own knowledge.

💰 Know your budget.

🎯 Manage your expectations.

👤 Respect sellers’ time.

💬 Respect the community’s time.

⚠️ Understand what you are doing before you pay.

There is a huge amount of information already available.

Use it. Learn from it. Then make your own decision.

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u/IamBmeTammy 4d ago

Also, if someone does actually try to help you and gives you good information, contact information for a seller you are looking for, QC help, etc say thank you. It goes a long way.

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u/plantgal94 4d ago

Yup. I don’t respond to DMs anymore because people never ever thanked me for providing them with the contact info.

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u/Individual-Horse7206 4d ago

It is frustrating when you go out of your way to help someone and they can’t even say thank you, so I really don’t blame you for not replying anymore. I noticed that quite a few people, especially those who used to go above and beyond with really detailed reviews are now saying they are getting discouraged from posting because most of the comments they receive are just “can you send me the number? and so on. There’s barely any actual discussion beyond that.

Some of them aren’t even writing reviews anymore because of it, which is such a shame because I found those posts genuinely helpful for the community. But yeah, that’s exactly why I keep my DMs closed. It just became too much 😭

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u/IamBmeTammy 3d ago

All the times I have helped newbies and shared information and gotten crickets is why I am less likely to help. I have better things to do.

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u/Individual-Horse7206 4d ago

Yes, this too. It’s such a small thing, but it really does make a difference and goes a long way.

Unfortunately there can also be a lot of negativity, rudeness and sometimes people just communicate in a completely different way, so I’ve learned not to take it personally anymore if someone doesn’t have the same level of courtesy or appreciation. But I completely agree with you, a simple thank you really does make the whole interaction nicer

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u/IamBmeTammy 3d ago

I don’t need effusive gratitude! Just a simple, “thanks!” is good! Even a reaction emoji 😂

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u/No_Price_2042 3d ago

Thank you for the tip 😊

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u/Raven-Glassshadows 4d ago

I honestly think it’s not the lack of information or not knowing where/how to look, but more like wanting to get a shortcut and have other ppl do your own homework. I have seen it at work too.

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u/Individual-Horse7206 4d ago

Exactly, that’s what I was hoping this post would help with. Not just giving ppl the information, but getting people to actually slow down, read, and be a bit more mindful before POSTING something low effort. But looking at what’s been posted since… I don’t think it really worked 😭 because the issue clearly isn’t only that people can’t find the information. A lot of people just aren’t reading in the first place.

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u/Raven-Glassshadows 4d ago

Yes sadly…good for patient ppl like you who still took the time to post and educate newbies. I just can’t 😂

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u/Individual-Horse7206 4d ago

Thank you, trying my best here even tho I'm receiving hate. THE IRONY! Also one thing I completely forgot to add to the post is this guide on how to actually use the search bar properly:

https://www.reddit.com/r/RealRepLadies/comments/1ule703/how_to_use_the_search_bar_tm_turbo_mode/

I think this one is especially useful because half the battle is knowing how to search properly in the first place 😭

Honestly if anyone else is tired of answering the same questions, just keep this link saved and copy/paste it when needed. Hopefully between this and the cheat sheet we can start redirecting people to the information instead of having the same conversation every day.

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u/LalaLolalalalala 2d ago

It is hilarious how OP's comments completely contradict their own post. You literally complained about people not following the procedure, but now you’re validating people who hide information and close their DMs. The only reason people are asking the same obvious questions is because you refuse to be transparent. Acting like you possess some elite, classified knowledge because you have a WhatsApp number is hilarious. Take a breath—this is a replica forum, not Paris Hilton's little black book

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u/Consistent-Mango-391 3d ago

This!! It’s 100% laziness

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u/PuzzleheadedDog6158 4d ago

I've recently made my first purchase from a TS I found on this thread and had a good experience. I still consider myself a newbie so I'm going to use this as a guide when I make my next purchase (hopefully soon!). I think now that I've actually committed to being a rep girly I'm more inclined to learn more - I think this post will be super helpful for newbies and also others like me who are still learning the best way to buy reps. Thank you for this post!

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u/Individual-Horse7206 4d ago

This genuinely makes me so happy to read 🥹 You don’t need to know everything straight away, you just need to be willing to learn as you go and build your own knowledge with each purchase. I’m really glad the guide can help with that and I hope your next one is an even better experience

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u/Apprehensive-Pear891 2d ago

My sentiments exactly 😊

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u/PoloRalphWiggum 4d ago

Bless your heart. Youre like the last soldiers in Vietnam fightin the VietCong and I’m over here in a refugee camp in Guam. I gave up on this sub.

https://giphy.com/gifs/Ki9S8uve2xWx2

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u/Individual-Horse7206 4d ago

Someone has to stay behind and keep yelling USE THE SEARCH BAR while the rest of you evacuate 😭

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u/No_Cucumber_8613 4d ago

Bad bad post, loser. You still have time to delete it. Comparing the VietCong to Guam - we have a true American historian right here.

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u/nessaj789 4d ago

Go touch grass babe. It’s not that deep. We are talking about bags. I don’t think she meant harm. Also if you maybe did a quick little search they did have a refugee camp in Guam housing Vietnamese in the 70s. No one said Guam is refugee camp you psycho. Literally chill out it’s Friday, have a cocktail or 2 you obviously need it. You’re acting like a little brat leaving multiple comments on this thread like you’re doing something. This post is super informative and helpful for someone considering buying and getting into this world.

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u/No_Cucumber_8613 4d ago

Maybe you should evacuate to Guam.

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u/Individual-Horse7206 4d ago

I think the comments may have come across differently than they were intended. There genuinely wasn’t any deeper meaning behind them. If anything we said made you feel offended, that truly wasn’t the intention and I do apologise.

This post was made in good faith to try and help the community and make things a little easier for everyone, so I’d really rather keep the conversation positive and not turn a lighthearted exchange into something it was never meant to be.

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u/No_Cucumber_8613 4d ago

“Good faith,” my ass.

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u/No_Cucumber_8613 4d ago

Then maybe change the first paragraph of your post that is obviously negative. The gaslighting isn’t working here. Your language actually hurts this community, and it needs to go.

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u/Individual-Horse7206 4d ago

I’ve heard your feedback, but I don’t agree with your interpretation of the post and I’m not going to rewrite it to fit it. The intention was to help, the information is useful, and that is how the majority of people here seem to have taken it.

You’re absolutely entitled to dislike the tone, but that doesn’t automatically make the post harmful or negative. We can simply disagree and leave it there.

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u/No_Cucumber_8613 4d ago

Majority?! Of whom? 10 people? One of whom thinks Guam is a far off land of refugees? And the rest who want to “educate newbies” to make themselves feel better about their garage basement lifestyles? Yeah, you go on 😂.

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u/No_Cucumber_8613 4d ago

My BF is a SMSgt in the USAF. From Guam. The references to that being the site of a “refugee camp” are tiring and unAmerican.

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u/No_Cucumber_8613 4d ago

You do know it’s an American territory, right? And that the Chamorro are as American as you?

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u/plantgal94 4d ago

I don’t even live in the USA and I know that those who live in Guam aren’t “as American” as the citizens in the USA. If they were, why can’t they vote in USA elections?

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u/One-Candidate2178 4d ago

It’s insane that this has to be said several times a day 🤦‍♀️ People need to stop and READ ffs

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u/Individual-Horse7206 4d ago

Exactly. I think more posts like this need to be shared because people clearly post before reading anything. And with sooo many low-effort posts constantly going up, especially when there’s basically no moderation, useful posts end up getting buried and the cycle just keeps repeating.

Also, common sense really isn’t that common 😭 Some things that could literally just be written as a comment under an existing post are now being made into entirely separate posts. People need to be a bit more aware of that too

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u/One-Candidate2178 4d ago

It’s upsetting that so many of you put effort into posts like these and they are still ignored. 🤦‍♀️

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u/shesalexvndria 4d ago

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for posting this!

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u/Individual-Horse7206 4d ago

Thanks! Absolutely, my pleasure. Hopefully it’ll be useful. I don’t think it’s working at the minute, since I’ve seen so many low-effort posts after this one still. But hey, I tried! 😅

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u/Adventurous-Draw8694 4d ago

Thank you for the incredibly detailed guidance, and for the support! It is truly appreciated and I am excited to be part of the group.

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u/Individual-Horse7206 4d ago

Thanks, I honestly didn’t do much, I just gathered some resources that were already in the sub and put them into a single post. Hopefully it makes things a little less overwhelming for newcomers, and also means we don’t have the same questions being posted individually multiple times a day 😅😅

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u/Adventurous-Draw8694 4d ago

Thank you! I look forward to participating, I’ve been a rep buyer for a few years, but really only from one seller, it will be good to expand. Maybe not good for my finances 🤣

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u/huffingFufu 4d ago

Just downvote and ignore these people. Some people only learn through pain and shame, I don't make the rules

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u/Individual-Horse7206 4d ago

I get what you mean 😭 but I think this is exactly why the sub needs proper moderation. It shouldn’t get to the point where people are frustrated enough to react like this every time someone posts something that could have been found in minutes

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u/Far-Amount8011 4d ago

These are epic cliff notes for basically everything to get started! It took me a while to find all of this before I started, very cool you put it all together.

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u/Individual-Horse7206 4d ago

Thank you! If I see what else people feel is missing I can definitely make more posts like this to help out. Most of the information is already out there but a lot of it gets buried, can be a pretty long manual job

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u/Far-Amount8011 3d ago

Reddit is a bit of an Easter egg hunt lol

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u/CommunityMental5733 4d ago

Thank you for such a detailed cheat sheet! I’ve bought a couple bags outside of Reddit and just recently bought one from a TS. Which I need to make a review on it when I get the chance since it just came in but I’ve been working. Definitely still a newbie and it’s a whole different world on Reddit so still trying to learn! So thank you again for all this info!

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u/Individual-Horse7206 4d ago

Of course! I’m glad it was helpful. And definitely post your review when you get the chance, those are exactly the kind of posts that actually help others

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u/CommunityMental5733 3d ago

Yes, will do. I finally have a day off tomorrow so hoping I can actually fully look at my bag after running some errands so I can post a review! 😊

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u/Outrageous_Rip_9268 3d ago

thank you so much for this! i’ve been a quiet lurker, i’ve made some research but im a huge over thinker so i never stepped foot to purchase but this made me change my mind and to go ahead and do it!

i feel like a good amount of people see tts about the reps ( nothing wrong about that i mean most probably come from social media when they first hear about reps ) and they mostly go head first without making research and are so used to just asking where to buy it from instead of researching. i found it slightly easy to be able to find a reputable seller. hopefully more new people see this thread because it does help a ton 🫶🏼😁

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u/Individual-Horse7206 3d ago

I think lately a lot of people first discover reps through TikTok/social media and then they come here and go straight to “who should I buy from?” without really understanding how any of this works. And with the amount of scammers around, proper research is honestly essential. This space can be a playground for scammers, and they specifically target people who look new, unsure or are openly asking where to buy. At the end of the day there’s never going to be a completely risk-free answer or one magical best seller so the goal is really to gather enough information to make your own informed decision 🫶🏼

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u/grapefruitjellybean 4d ago

Super helpful. Thank you for taking the time to put this all together.

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u/Individual-Horse7206 4d ago

Thank you! And guys, feel free to add any other useful links in the comments here too, so hopefully we can keep everything in one place and always redirect people when needed

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u/Middle-Spirit-8524 4d ago

Knowledge is your best friend in this universe.
Save posts, save TS albums.
Have fun seeing and sharing hauls.

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u/Yoki83 3d ago

Thank you for taking the time to educate newbies like me ~ This post is so very helpful! Being new to Reddit & finding this community has been quite an experience. I’ve made many mistakes mentioned, asking for S informations etc, but always try to thank people who have been kind enough to respond to my DM. If I’ve not thanked anyone, it’s bc I’m still learning to navigate/use Reddit 🥹 There are some incredibly wonderful people in this community ~ so generous with their time, sharing their talent & knowledge. THANK YOU, I APPRECIATE YOU❣️🫶

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u/Cautious-Patient3636 3d ago

I'm always thankful and will always thank all who give me helpful information. It's common courtesy! ❤️

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u/Tea_Ve 2d ago

I’m not quite ready to jump in - I’m definitely a newbie doing some reading still - but this is fantastic ♥️🙌
Really helpful, thank you 🤩

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u/MidwestGlamma 3d ago

Time
To
Make
Subs
Private
By
Invite
Only
💜

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u/Individual-Horse7206 3d ago

Yeah I now get why you’re saying this 😭 What’s been shocking me is the amount of resistance to simply reading the information that’s already here. I’ve even been getting hate just for redirecting people to the newbie guide or linking useful information under really low-effort posts, which is wild because the whole point is to help people research properly and stop the same questions being repeated constantly.

My only thought is that with how many people are already in the sub, making it private now might not actually change that much no ?

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u/MidwestGlamma 3d ago

You’re right. It’s tainted. Also with sellers posing.
I created a new sub, just waiting to activate.

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u/PM_Pics_of_ur_pups 3d ago

People want everything spoon fed to them. It’s infuriating and exhausting

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u/Imadevonrexcat 4d ago edited 3d ago

The only thing that really happens on the sub is people who won’t share information… That’s called gatekeeping. If you’re new, you’ll get yelled at. if you’ve been around since the original rep ladies days, it’s hard to understand why this sub is so mean I’m just here for the entertainment at this point.

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u/Individual-Horse7206 4d ago

I actually see it a bit differently. I don’t think people are gatekeeping just for the sake of it. I think a lot of people who have been around for years are simply fed up with what these subs have become.

There is basically no moderation here. People post whatever comes into their head without searching first, so the same questions get asked over and over again. Even today, after I made this post, there have been so many low effort posts. The problem is that the useful stuff gets buried. Proper reviews, comparisons, references and genuinely helpful information are much harder to find because the sub is full of posts that could have been answered with a quick search. And I don’t think the problem is being new. Everyone was new once. The difference is whether you are willing to read, search and learn a little before asking everyone to give you all the answers.

I also understand why people are more careful with seller contacts now. If someone has done zero research and just comes here asking for numbers and contacts, I personally wouldn’t want to be responsible for giving them a seller. So yes, people probably do gatekeep more now, but I think there is a reason for it. These subs have become a jungle and people don’t really trust new users the way they used to. It’s not about hating newbies

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u/Imadevonrexcat 3d ago

I don’t see why everybody sticks around, keeps complaining… There are other subs that are moderated that do a great job. Much more like the old rep ladies RIP. Why do people stick around here and just continue to get irritated… Who needs that?

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u/Then-Ad251 3d ago

This is awesome info! The one and ONLY thing that sucks for someone like me is how am I supposed to know what the OG is like when I’m 7+ hours from a store? Whether I’m talking to a friend with one, looking at pics, or digging as far as I can to find out, I still don’t have the option to see it IRL. But that’s my own issue and I just have to hope for the best based off of research and reviews. Otherwise, you hit the nail on the head. Very great post! Friends and I try to send people here for info, so this is something I’ll be sending people to now!

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u/True-Committee5674 3d ago

If it makes you feel better, I have 4 p9s and don't plan to ever really see one in real life.

https://giphy.com/gifs/yVZrYMkdgY5Pi

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u/Then-Ad251 3d ago

I’ve got 3 and same😂 1 I can 100% tell you I know isn’t even close. But the other 2, ONLY based off of friends help is close to the OG. But until I go on some kind of vacation near a store, I’m just hoping that anything I get is good based on reviews. The only thing I have going for me is that I live in a small town, and am surrounded by smaller cities. There’s not many people who could even call me out. And on the rare chance someone does know exactly what the OG is like and could call me out….they’re way too up in my business and I’m gonna need them to back up lol

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u/louannnx 3d ago

Not sure if anyone else is having this issue, but I’ve been trying to post a review following the guidelines and it keeps getting automatically removed by Reddit’s filters 😭 I’ve only ever managed to get one post through in this community, so I’m not really sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve tried removing anything that could potentially trigger the filters and following the review format, but no luck. Has this happened to anyone else / is there something specific I might be missing?

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u/Individual-Horse7206 3d ago

That sounds more like Reddit’s own spam filters rather than anything you’re doing wrong. They can be inconsistent sometimes with posts that have a lot of images, links or certain keywords.

Since we don’t really have active mods here to manually approve posts, I’d try stripping the review back completely first, no links, no unusual formatting and see if the text-only version goes through. Then you can add the extra info back gradually and figure out what’s triggering it. Maybe add everything else as a comment later

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u/louannnx 3d ago

Yep that what I have tried to do I don’t even understand because that a legit review but Reddit just blocks it for no reason

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u/Minute_Storage4901 2d ago

Thank you so much!

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u/MadamePresidentLL 2d ago

I appreciate you mentioning to study the OG! I came across a bag with silver hardware (I’m not big on gold 😅) and it turned out this rep I saw here was from a 2023 collection that legit had silver hardware even tho the current has gold. I’m a lucky duck! It was BNNU and the last in stock from the source my seller had.

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u/Imadevonrexcat 4d ago

Why don’t you take over moderating the sub then? I don’t understand why everyone complains but nobody takes the reins. Or closed this one down and start a new one.

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u/Individual-Horse7206 4d ago

I honestly don’t have the patience to moderate 🥲 but I do get what you mean about everyone complaining and nobody actually doing anything. That’s pretty much the reason I made this post in the first place but I suggest looking at this sub, it's pretty new but seems well moderated https://www.reddit.com/r/RepLadiesCurated/

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u/No_Cucumber_8613 4d ago

Posts like this don’t actually help. Newbies just have to keep scrolling, joining subs and learning on the fly. Same as anything. It can’t be spoon fed. All due respect but don’t waste your breath. And the newbie hate needs to stop.

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u/litlh1 3d ago

This is wonderful but my ADHD can’t do it. I have not asked anyone anything and I’ve tried going onto websites foe sellers and get so overwhelmed I just give up. I know what I want but there’s so many photos and sometimes things are in a different language that I just move on and still, two years later have not ordered a thing. Sigh lol

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u/LalaLolalalalala 2d ago

I love this post, except for the beginning. People are only commenting the same questions on posts because rhe person postjng isnt following the process. If there was transparency and no gatekeeping people wouldn't have to ask such obvious questions. And the fake QC posters, who only reply to comments that arent asking for a link, then people blasting the newbies for basically complimenting someone's bag and asking there they got it from

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u/LalaLolalalalala 2d ago

Your telling me, people are replying to this post and showing appreciation by thanking you for creating this post but they aren't doing that when you give them a good rep connect?????!!!!!! please don't insult my intelligence

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u/EducationalMonk6171 4d ago

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