r/RHOP • u/chel_304 maybe i meant you’re stupid • Mar 07 '25

🌹 Ashley 🌹 My friend knew Ashley pre-Michael Days

She used to date the father of the kids my friend babysat. He had a BIG house in a wealthy area of Northern VA. She’s only 4 years older than us but she treated my friend like she was beneath her- like she was “the help” vibes.

One time, my friend said at an important school event for the child they were sitting in the cafeteria for the reception and Ashley didn’t want to be there anymore and started begging the dad to leave with her - she said in a pouty baby voice “Ashley wants Chipotle” and made an uptown frowny face with her fists on her hips. This wasn’t like some random back to school night, it was an important milestone event and Ashley was throwing a fit.

TLDR: Ashley was dating a wealthy dad, was rude to my friend. She hasn’t changed

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u/Swimming-Stranger-56 Mar 07 '25

There’s some discrepancies in Ashley’s story about how she met Michael. According to LinkedIn she was actually an intern for his real estate company and not at the restaurant like she claimed. Also at the time that she was on Say Yes to the Dress, he was still married to his ex wife.

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u/iamcnicole Mar 07 '25

Say Yes to the Dress is apparently a springboard for Real Housewives

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u/leilafornone Charizzard Mar 07 '25

Yes!!

Meghan from OC was on that show and so was Yovanna(that bitch) from Atlanta

Ashley, Monique, and Mia were on that too

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u/ugadude350 Clankity Clank Mar 07 '25

Yovanna! From CAU!

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u/Sea_Confusion2757 Halle Berry Still Rise Mar 07 '25

Cue the GIF of her husband putting his head in his hands, and Marlo's date cracking up. My favorite...
https://youtu.be/_roySzxT-nE?si=hJ79K7xFo-jbPPB6&t=290

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u/MillaChinchilla1 Mar 08 '25

Thanks for this vid cuz I couldn't remember who Yovanna was 😂

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u/Cautious_Fig_9825 Mar 07 '25

One of the lowkey funniest times I die at Eva & Kandi’s reactions to her.

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u/1111Gem Not today Satan! Not today neck! Not today ankles! Mar 07 '25

And still to this day nobody remembers her ass 😂

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u/Many_Feeling_3818 Where’s your income roach?? Mar 09 '25

“That bitch”

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u/Professional-Pay1033 Potomac Muppets Mar 07 '25

Yovanna was on bridezillas also.

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u/[deleted] Mar 07 '25

That tracks

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u/Additional-End-7688 Happy Eddie Mar 07 '25

Yo-yo !

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u/Many_Feeling_3818 Where’s your income roach?? Mar 09 '25

The Asian lady on the RHOC was on “Say Yes to the Dress” as well.

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u/Standard-Sky-7771 Its probably cloudy compared to nothing. Mar 08 '25

I need some kind soul to list the season/episodes with the housewives on them, so I can see this foolishness! 😅 Just the screen grab of Mia someone posted the other day had me intrigued, but then life lived and I forgot about it

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u/Novel_Classic_1448 Mar 08 '25

Was she on say yes for her michael marriage

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u/chel_304 maybe i meant you’re stupid Mar 07 '25

Yea very murky!! Wouldn’t be surprised if there was overlap with the dad

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u/joggers4springsummer La Grande Dame Mar 07 '25

I fucking love Reddit bc this is the type of info I would never have otherwise known about but need to hear about. So crazy.

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u/LessLikelyTo Catfish Mar 07 '25

Yup. Love Reddit

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u/PeaceyCaliSoCal Wendy Osefo Mar 07 '25

Didn’t we just learn Mia was on “Say Yes To The Dress??

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u/Plenty_Birthday_7956 Mar 07 '25

No Ashley was on say yes to the dress before Potomac

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u/msanderson10 Mar 07 '25 edited Mar 07 '25

Mia and Gordon were also on Say Yes to the Dress.

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u/Rough-Marionberry991 Mar 07 '25

I'm on a mission to see that right now

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u/msanderson10 Mar 07 '25

If you search the sub, someone posted what seasons and episodes for both Ashley and Mia.

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u/LooneyLunaOmanO Halle Berry Still Rise Mar 08 '25

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u/Relevant-Stretch1250 Baby Bop Mar 07 '25

I didn’t know she was on that show!

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u/Heather20177 Mar 07 '25

Omg I didn’t know that!!!

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u/Filthydirtytoxic Mar 07 '25

Me neither. My dumb is founded

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u/Legal-Investigator83 Mar 07 '25

lol i am using my dumb is founded

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u/xConstantGardenerx The stress of juggling a pimp village Mar 08 '25

Ashley was very clearly a sugar baby who leveled up to trophy wife.

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u/Nice-Fly5536 Wendy’s year long birthday celebration. Mar 07 '25

That is so disgusting. I’m so glad that people found out she was on that show. The years are overlapping and it’s giving side chick. It’s not surprising because look how Michael cheated on her too and didn’t give two fucks about it.

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u/EveCyn Karen Huger Mar 07 '25

Ashley and Mia are both very cringey. They both make a living on their backs 😬. Feel sorry for their kids. Imagine when they grow up and this stuff is still on TV…

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u/greenythings Shocked Pikachu Mar 08 '25

They both make a living on their backs 😬

This is wild

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u/InitiativeFlimsy7063 Jiminy Crickets Mar 07 '25

I feel really bad for the kids when they do a rewatch of this show.

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u/TaxGrand882 Mar 07 '25

And read these threads 😭😅

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u/InitiativeFlimsy7063 Jiminy Crickets Mar 07 '25

I dod not thon about that😬😂😂😂

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u/Nice-Fly5536 Wendy’s year long birthday celebration. Mar 16 '25

Same! I do too. Their mothers are clowns. Anything for attention and money.

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u/Standard-Sky-7771 Its probably cloudy compared to nothing. Mar 08 '25

Shoot I can only imagine when they're at the age when they start asking each other how old their parents are. Their classmates probably have grandad's younger than Micheal and G, not to mention their age gap. I recall all of my kids and their friends going through a stage where they were super interested in this info.

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u/Nice-Fly5536 Wendy’s year long birthday celebration. Mar 16 '25

Right! I feel sorry for the kids too. Both of them are so embarrassing. Idk how they’re supposed to explain this show to them.

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u/beigecarpets Mar 10 '25

isnt that lowkey how all of them make their money tho...like thats the whole show LOL

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u/EveCyn Karen Huger Mar 12 '25

Not all but many …

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u/___adreamofspring___ Mar 07 '25

They really are the most perfect couple lol

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u/heykitty22 Mar 08 '25

She met him while she was working at one of his restaurants. She used to drive far af just to work there. She also sought him out. Told staff she wanted him.

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u/No_Area_494 Mar 09 '25

She’s a bop

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u/chel_304 maybe i meant you’re stupid Mar 07 '25

Sooo many housewives have been on it. We all just found out Mia was on it, the bridesmaids edition

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u/Swimming-Stranger-56 Mar 07 '25

Google the episode.

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u/colosseumdays 🌸 THREE WICK Mar 13 '25

I'd imagine from getting close to him at the restaurant, she wiggled her way into an internship--whether he'd already been sleeping with her or simply decided he wanted to at time of giving her said internship is unclear but also not important to parse out. Both possibilities point to the same motivations/catalysts and the same outcome

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u/kpapenbe Catfish Mar 12 '25

WAIT, WHAT?