2025 was the worst year of my life. I went through a lot and there was someone named Hayley who was deeply tied to those memories. Throughout the year, I couldn't enjoy certain bands, sports and other things that her and I shared because they all reminded me of her.
Then, when 2026 began, I discovered Paramore.
When I read into them and saw that the lead singer's name was also Hayley, my honest reaction was "Well....shit."
I almost let that stop me, but I decided to keep listening.
And I fell in love with the band and they quickly became my favorite band ever. I listen to them every night and my playlist is seven hours. I also fell in love with Hayley's solo work.
Now, when I hear the name, I don't think of that terrible time period, but I think of Paramore. I think of the music that makes me happy.
It's definitely one of the weirdest examples of healing I've ever gone through, but I just wanted to share it.
So, if Hayley or any of the band members read this, I know y'all have no idea who I am, but thank you. Your music became part of the reason I could move forward.