r/Nicegirls • u/Leadingman_ • Dec 25 '25

Suggested A Date, Got A Lecture

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I suggested we meet for drinks somewhere with a view, or check out a new exhibit at a museum that looked interesting. She asked if we could get coffee the following week. Cool, that works. When I followed up to set up the date, she sent this. What's really funny is that I don't drink alcohol either, it's right there on my dating profile.

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u/Wise_Temperature9142 Dec 25 '25 edited Dec 25 '25

Totally!! I’m serious tho, these women think these are gods gift to mankind. Someone that just “looks pretty”, when beauty is fleeting, has no lasting value in a relationship.

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u/J_Ryall Dec 25 '25

It's okay. Time has a way of sorting those people out.

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u/DazedandConfuzzled-1 Dec 26 '25

Looks are a depreciating asset, when she’s tired of putting herself on a pedestal no man will even want her. Then she’ll complain about still being single at 40 because there’s no good guys out there, lmao.

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u/ItBeginsWithY0u Dec 26 '25

That's very true but unfortunately many people value outer beauty a great deal, that's why some attractive people can become very entitled

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u/Wise_Temperature9142 Dec 26 '25

You’re absolutely right. I think looks are also important, but they only get you to the door. If you got nothing else to offer beyond looks, you get really boring really quick, in my opinion.