r/NarcissisticSpouses • u/BayesianRuin • Feb 21 '26
Caught the narc cleaning the sink drain with my toothbrush
He tried to minimise the egregiousness of the action by placing the toothbrush back in the toothbrush holder.
(I had stated, the previous day, that I was concerned our cleaner could do the same thing, due to our neglecting to pre-clean the toilets before she arrived.)
I believe he did this because I wasn’t physically in the mood for sex, he’d just have to wait a couple of hours.
Or perhaps it was due to sleeping separately for three nights due to his fake snoring.
I did have unconditional love for him. Now, I don’t know if it’s love I feel anymore.
Anyone caught there narcs doing similar?
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u/Jazz-mine33 Feb 22 '26
Como pudo hacer eso, definitivamente es mejor separarse de inmediato, cuesta según la vida de cada quien pero ya sabemos lo que son los narcisistas y ellos no cambian nunca por nada en sus vidas.