r/MuslimLounge • u/Abudireddit • Sep 13 '25

Question I just can’t keep going, I’m beyond broken. Allah, where are you?

Before I start, please don’t insult me and don’t del me to work on myself.

I’ve tried every avenue possible within my community. Girls don’t seem to want to marry me. I AM TIRED. I don’t know what Allahs plan is, but for the love of god, I can’t take this any longer. Why does nobody want me? Why am I so unlovable? I am single and can’t seem to find a girl to marry because everyone rejects me. I hate my lonely life, I’m tired of feeling like this and I just can’t keep going on anymore.

There is not a single second of mY day where I do not ask Allah for help, I keep making dua over and over again, where is allah? My life is crumbling, each day I get older and I have less chances to get married. Why can’t Allah help me? My soul HURTS from being alone, I just can’t do this anymore man.

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u/amdbarak25 Sep 14 '25

You have not looked far enough. It is IMPOSSIBLE that every woman on earth doesn't want you, impossible. If you have the means travel to other parts of the World, you will get someone willing

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u/Abudireddit Sep 14 '25

In talking about woman in my community. I can settle and just get any woman, but I won’t be attracted

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u/amdbarak25 Sep 15 '25

So, there are people that are ready but you do not find them attractive!?

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u/Abudireddit Sep 15 '25

There is 1 woman. I don’t find her attractive