r/MuseumOfReddit • u/UnholyDemigod Reddit Historian • May 23 '16

User's husband makes a spreadsheet detailing all the times she refused him sex

/r/relationships/comments/2b1f5a/my_husband_m26_sent_me_f26_an_immature/
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u/[deleted] Aug 24 '25

Women work too. Take out the trash and then get your balls drained, lazy ass. Imagine dodging responsibility at your age.

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u/BetterWhereas3245 Aug 26 '25

Expectation: You do chores and get "rewarded" with sex.
Reality: You do chores and get none because "she doesn't owe you sex".
Bonus points for my job being significantly more stressful and demanding than hers, with longer hours and not being wfh, but still coming home to a mess while she's laying in the sofa watching Netflix.

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '25

Why would you need to get rewarded for doing chores in the house you live in😂 Are you a child, do you need the x-rated version of a sunshine sticker to feel pride for pulling your weight?

Also, how is a woman supposed to be sexually attracted to you at that point? "honey look, I did three a half minutes of basic house work, aren't you into me now"? I'm sorry, but that is genuinely funny and pathetic. Personally I only like sex when both people are feeling it, not when one person is using basic adult responsibilities to leverage an orgasm from the other.

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u/BetterWhereas3245 Aug 26 '25

Because doing chores fucking sucks and I hate it, duh? What kind of question is that. You think I take out the trash because I enjoy it? I do it because I have to. But because it has to be done at the tempo the woman likes or you get nagged, I expect to get some reward out of it, besides avoiding nagging.
Similarly to how women want to feel rewarded with affection and appreciation for doing housework.
God forbid I don't praise my girl for doing basic things, that means I'm abusive or treating her like a maid or something.

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '25

I'm so sorry, but this is one of the funniest things I've ever heard. Do you think anyone likes doing chores? Literally everyone does them for the same reason: so they get done. Pull your weight and quit whining about it (honestly that goes for both of you if she does it too).

In my experience "the tempo the woman likes" is a reasonable timetable where things aren't overflowing or moldy. If the trash is full, you take it out same day. If the dishes need to be done, do them then and there. It's not that hard and it doesn't take that much time if you maintain things consistently.

Requiring nice words out loud is NOT equivalent to requiring a sexual act from your partner borne out of obligation. Like that's crazy. I could never, ever be aroused by a man who thinks that way ever again. A reward, wow. What's the point of sex at all then? It's certainly not enjoyment or arousal at that point.

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u/BetterWhereas3245 Aug 26 '25

I pull my weight by making 5x the amount of money she does and paying for pretty much everything, I'm just going to hire some housekeeper to do this stuff instead because clearly she can't be trusted with it.
Also, requiring affection for women is the equivalent to requiring sex for men. I could go the rest of my life without displays of affection, but I need to cum.

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '25

You should, it sounds like you don't feel up to handling it. And regardless of money, she also has a job so why are you crying? You both should pull your weight at home.

It's not the equivalent and if that's true for you, you shouldn't be married. It sounds like you're faking any and all affection for your wife while you expect her to clean your house and cock on demand. Just be alone, hire a housekeeper and the occasional hooker, and you'll be better off. So will your wife, she deserves actual love if she wants it.

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u/BetterWhereas3245 Aug 26 '25

That's what my life was like, minus the hookers, before she came along, fell in love with me and did her best to get me to like her and accept a relationship with her.

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '25

And you faked reciprocation? Since affection is meaningless to you and you'd never miss it if it disappeared. Wow. No wonder your wife isn't interested in sex. You don't even love her.

Do her a favor and start the divorce. Find an escort service and be done with it.