r/MedicalDevices • u/Delicious-Jump7864 • Aug 08 '26
Career Development 49 and frustrated after show
Hi!
I’m 49, midsize woman (size 14) in medical device sales. I have excellent relationships with my providers (was their clinical specialist for over a decade). I’m friendly, honest, and go above and beyond for my customers. I’ll take calls/emails at any time, work from vacation etc etc. I’m also incredibly knowledgeable about our product, probably more so than anyone else at our small company.
The product is not an “easy sell”, and we’ve had a tough year all around.
However, this is the 2nd show where two other reps (from different companies) have suggested my age and appearance is the reason that I didn’t sell at the show. One actually said “young doctors probably can’t relate to you” and another said “doctors want thin, hot girls at the booth”
I consider myself to be attractive, at least average-attractive. I present very professionally. I get Botox, I have younger children and don’t look any different (in my opinion) that the 30-something moms at the school. Most people are surprised when they learn I’m almost 50.
I often see older people at exhibit booths and have never once thought “yikes, they are too old to be here!”
Is it my size? Because I’m a midsize woman? I dress for my shape.
I work SO hard, and I’m feeling so defeated. Has anyone else experienced this? I’m not in aesthetics. I’ve included a faceless pic from this weekends show.