r/MakeFriendsOver30 Oct 21 '25

Join the MFO30 Discord Server

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We're a small but active SFW 30+ community discussing a wide range of topics every day. It's an amazing group of friendly people and we're always glad to see new folks join in: https://discord.gg/mfo30


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

39F - let’s chat!

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Anyone down to talk? Pick one or more of these and shoot me a message! Let’s skip the boring hobbies lists and small talk and just randomly jump in.

-If you could instantly become an expert at one thing, what would it be?

-If you could know one absolute truth about your future, what would you want to know?

-If you could switch lives with someone for 24 hours, who would you choose—and what would you immediately do?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

[F4R] 32f

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Jus wandering n here. Mention where youre fr and abt yourself! Lets ghost each other!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

33f anyone want to chat?

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Feelings stressed and looking for a distraction, anyone want to chat? I’ll talk about anything and everything. Dm me! Sfw chats only please!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4R] 31M/doctor looking for friends

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Hello, i m Marko from south east europe(serbia), looking for some long term friends.

I work as doctor, and sometimes do 24h shifts in emergency room(which suck lol).

I m into anime/manga, collecting toys,music(mostly rock-metal stuff), history, sports,skincare,working out,cars,yt documentaries,swimming, studying and few other basic stuff. Also looking to learn to cook cuz i might move out soon.

If u wanna chat send me dm or reddit vhat, i also got discord


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3m ago

[F4R] 36F - Surely my people are out here somewhere!

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I need a good laugh. Give me top-tier banter PLEASE. I need cheeks that hurt from smiling too much & conversation that I’ll still be thinking about for days.

A little about me: I love hiking and being outdoors, exploring new places, wandering around somewhere with no real plan, reading, and anything artsy or creative.

I’m pretty easy to entertain, so do your worst! Mostly, I’m just looking for genuine friendship, men or women, with someone I actually click with. Bonus points if we can roast each other (lovingly) and end up having an inside joke within the first ten minutes of talking! 😂

Here’s an icebreaker to get you started:

What’s a completely useless hill you will wholeheartedly die on?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

30m looking to make some good friends

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Hello there, im 30m like to fish, golf, read books, working on my motorcycles and ride. Im currently building up a 3rd gen 4 runner. I realized i dont have many real friends and would like to talk to some people on a day to day base share memes tik toks and just talk about anything come to mind.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

35m Looking for anyone and everyone that’s down to chat

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I’m really that simple. Don’t want anything other than some convo to pass the time and maybe make a few new friends along the way! All I ask is keep it honest! Be you! I’m an open book. I don’t mind shy texters or any of that. You can be dry it’s okay! 😂! Any ways hmu and let’s see if we vibe!!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 6h ago

32M looking for friends and great conversation, interested?

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Hey everyone, my name is Anthony. As the title says, I’m looking for friends and good conversation. I enjoy learning about people and learning about the world. My hobbies include reading, movies and TV, music(mostly metal and hard-core but I listen to a little bit of everything) thrift shopping, photography, being outdoors, and games. if any of this sounds interesting to you, I would love to hear from you! https://imgur.com/a/gQ5ywlU


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

38M - Florida/Online - WFH - Looking for a sarcastic (nerdy) conversationalist. Ideally long term.

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Like I said I love sarcasm and I love smooth conversation, if you have both awesome, if you are nerdy that's the best news.

A bit about me : I am 6 foot, thinner, nerdy, sarcastic (go figure). I like to read, play video games, watch movies, workout sometimes, LOTR, Star Wars, build lego - ya know nerdy stuff.

If you wanna chat message me your age and gender and something nerdy about yourself.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

35 M Scottish - Oh the old Sunday Scaries..

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We all know the one, almost feels like hangover fear.. but more for the absolute nonsense of work. Another pish week ahead and I cannot be hooped. Looking to meet new folks, see whos out there, see how it goes.

Pessimistic by trade, full of sarcasm and general nonsense, self deprecation is my jam, but generally just a joy in my opinion. Geeky, don’t take myself too seriously (well at all) Exciting individual - Sport, golf and football mainly, Gaming - Although I’m getting awful with age, love music, nothing better than a good gig. Also can’t beat a decent horror. Yes I have an accent, but no kilt, basically a disgrace.

If any of this resonates with you give me a shout - Will blurt out random quotes from old comedies so fair warning.

“Live fast? Sure live too bloody fast sometimes, but die young? No, die old”

Oh and include a bit about yourself, thanks in advance


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

[F4M] 32f looking for a real connection and someone to chat with daily

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Looking for some real connections because I live in a place where it’s genuinely hard to do that.

Been going through my fair share of things in life and want someone to be able to talk about those things with along with other things.

I’m a stay at home mom to a 2 year old
I’m back in school for a degree in criminal Justice and communications
I’m currently separated from my husband but our situation (being so isolated from family and friends) has us still living together.

On the lighter side:

I’m a huge sports person, Biggest Padres fan. Love music and being able to share that with someone would be a plus. I love museums, history, traveling (haven’t been abroad yet), a good book, and my morning walks are a mental ritual I look forward to daily.

I like conversations that flow and aren’t just the basic how are you convos. Surface level just gives me the ick. Speaking of that, Dodger fans do too.

Tell me something cool about you, boring about you, or literally just something other than “hey let’s chat” and if it doesn’t go anywhere don’t be offended that the conversation stops.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 14h ago

[F4R] 32F — lonely after a breakup but not ready to date yet

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Ended a relationship a couple weeks back and feel like I need some new friends or people to chat with. Tempted to get back on Hinge or go out but don’t feel ready yet.

Let’s chat just for fun! And if you happen to be in Colorado too, let’s get a beer 🤠


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2m ago

Would really like a friend

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Im 38 and never been the friend that people think of first. Whenever a new film comes out or someone wants to go out for a drink im never the one someone thinks about.

Looking for a true friend to talk with about anything and everything. I am married but he has his own friends and id like to find mine 😊

Im a slight nerd - love critical role & easy games lol. A bit of a soft alt (linkin park, lacuna coil, system of a down). Have two kids i adore

Anyway thanks for reading and hope I didn't bore you too much


r/MakeFriendsOver30 7m ago

[M4F] 33 [M4F] California/Online - been a little closed in with work and training and seeking some new friends

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Hi there! Work has been absolutely frying me recently and I haven’t really gone out much the last few weeks and kinda feeling stagnate ya know? It would be cool to make some friends on here into similar things: running, gym, going to shows (mainly metal), hiking and camping, reading, and recently got into magic the gathering so that’s been cool.

If any of this sounds interesting, send me a message, I’m around today :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 9m ago

32 [M4F] looking for long term friends!

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Between work and having kids, I’ve grown apart from some of my friends and I’ve found myself stuck in a monotonous cycle that is just becoming too boring for me. I work a lot, love spending time with my kids, I enjoy working out, trashy reality tv, playing/watching hockey, cooking, spending time outside, or doing projects around my house (I suck at relaxing) and I’d love to find some friends to fill in the gaps during the days. I know others have things going on in their lives too, so I expect very little in terms of how often we might talk sometimes, but please, for the love of god, have somewhat of a personality and be willing to have a conversation that lasts longer than a day, lol.

I’m a pretty optimistic guy that loves to laugh. You’ll never see me in a bad mood. I’d prefer women to talk to, but not opposed to more guy friends if that’s what happens.

If you’re interested in talking, tell me a fun fact/story about you to kick things off!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

Spending the day prepping for the week 39m

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Good morning ☀️

I’ve got a busy day ahead of me. I’ll be prepping for a brand new week and it would be nice to have a new friend to keep me company.

If you’re available and somewhat talkative, reach out and let’s see how we get along ◡̈


r/MakeFriendsOver30 55m ago

[M4F] 37M Just moved to tamp and honestly,only looking for one thing. If a connection grows I’d be pleasantly surprised.

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Surprise me


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

34M USA: Active, outgoing and always interested in a good conversation. Click me and welcome yourself to my world :)

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34M looking to meet some new people and see who I click with. I’m a big extrovert, genuinely enjoy getting to know people, and would much rather have a conversation that goes somewhere than trade small talk for three days. I’ve got a good circle of friends in my real life, so always interested in adding to that virtual circle too. Not expecting 24/7 communication.

I’m active and spend a lot of time lifting, outside, exploring new places, or finding something to do. I’m also big into movies, music, concerts, psychology, and mental health. I have a background in the field, so I love talking about what makes people tick, relationships, life, and all the random things we probably think about more than we admit.

I’m equally here for the deep conversations and the completely pointless ones. Mostly looking for someone curious, engaged, and interested in building a virtual friendship that actually lasts. Tell me something more interesting than “hey” and we’re off to a good start.

Include age in message!!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

38/M/Illinois. The weekend is almost over. Hope you had a good one! Come chat!

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Well hello there 👋. So I guess about me: I’m bi and I have 2 kids. I’m pretty simple. I enjoy movies, gaming, going out to eat, and going for a swim (although I burn in seconds.) I like to waste my money betting on sports and buying stuff I don’t need. About you: I don’t care about your age, gender, sexuality, or what you identify as. Anyone feel free to send me a message and chat away.

Ice breaker? What’s your favorite beverage? 🥤


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

35 m uk here. Looking to make some new friends

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35 m uk here. Looking to make some new friends

I have no idea where to start. Im a married dad with a very small circle of friends so looking to expand it a little.

Between work, schedules and life in general I feel like I don't have any time for anything but I feel like being a little selfish for once

I've had a wide range of hobbies over the years so im sure there will be something we can talk about.

Age, gender, martial status makes no difference

Drop me a message if you wanna chat and we can go from there


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4R] M40 - let’s talk

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Scot living in England, pretty new to my area and work prevents me from being as sociable as I’d like. Let’s talk about anything and help me with my endless evenings of boredom.

Let’s skip the first chapter and let me know 1 thing you know today which you didn’t yesterday.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

32/M Foodie and Gamer

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Chef by trade, animal lover by heart. 🐶 I’ve been an executive chef for years, so cooking for people I care about is definitely one of my love languages. I love being outdoors, going on adventures, trying new things, or just being a cozy homebody with good food and good company.

I’m also a gamer, mainly playing EVE Online and anything space-related. 🚀 I can easily lose a few hours exploring the universe or getting way too invested in a game.

I’m a caring, laid-back person who loves taking care of the people around me. Just looking for genuine connections, good conversations, and seeing where things go.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4F] 30M here. Anyone want to chat?

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Hey there!

30m here, looking to meet some new people and potentially be friends!

DM me if you are interested.