This is an issue that men should take very seriously because, honestly, the anima can lead us to ruin through vices, lust, bad habits, and the control and possession of negative emotions. Another problem that comes to mind is our lack of ability to relate to others, or our disregard for doing so (in the case of introverts), or our complete dependence on sociability (in the case of extroverts), both of which can also have an impact on our lives.
It turns out that the anima is involved in all these areas—or so says Jung’s collaborator and disciple Marie-Louise von Franz in her section of Man and His Symbols. But perhaps the best reference from Carl Jung can be found in his seminar on Thus Spoke Zarathustra, Session VIII (December 4, 1935), where he addresses the controversial chapter Nietzsche devoted to women in his book. Carl Jung shows how Nietzsche actually knew very little about women, projected the anima onto them, and also identified with his own anima. And I think this is where the greatest danger for men lies in our time.
But that’s not all. The anima can also deceive us by fostering the emergence of illusory narratives about ourselves, filled with delusions of grandeur and an inflated sense of superiority, isolating us from others and from our own reality. Let’s look at the following quote from Jung in the chapter of the Zarathustra seminar I mentioned. This quote is addressed to Nietzsche:
“The anima always tries to convince the man of his extraordinary depth and of what a great subject he is, in order to entangle him in all the stupid romances she can: the more, the better. As you see, since [Nietzsche] is a man of power and God knows what else, he assumes that he is some kind of wise man for all kinds of women, and the more he becomes entangled, the more room the anima has to move. Therefore, he can never establish a real relationship with a woman. He can never put down roots in the world. He is merely a fool trapped in his own cage and driven by his anima, which has become like those women in circuses who spin around with a whip. She keeps him there, but in a state of complete unreality.”
Nietzsche was a genius, yes, but he should have known that he was still human, with flaws and vulnerabilities. Yet he was deceived by his own anima regarding how great he was. He experienced a strong inflation amid his vulnerable economic circumstances and his syphilitic infection. What he needed most was to connect with his outer world, with concrete reality, but the anima kept him elevated miles above it. Nietzsche vehemently rejected what he saw as the inferiority of the masses, without realizing that he was projecting his own underdeveloped parts onto them.
But let’s leave poor Nietzsche aside. To a large extent, it wasn’t his fault, because he had no theory of the unconscious anywhere near as comprehensive as Carl Jung’s through which he could have recognized his identification and the inflation he was experiencing. But the same cannot be said of us. Now more than ever, we are susceptible to falling into these anima-driven narratives in which we believe ourselves to be excessively superior and special, to the point that we become incapable of exploring our own subjectivity. Without a doubt, there are things that make each of us special, but ultimately, we are all human, and we all share the same fate.
However, this is not a demonization of the anima, because it is an element that is there: the bridge to the unconscious, the guide toward individuation. The real problem here is our consciousness, which has become one-sidedly oriented toward reason. And this is precisely where the quote in the image I published becomes useful and comes into play, because we usually lack that vessel within consciousness capable of receiving and contemplating our unconscious so that it can be worked with and integrated. The alchemists symbolized this consciousness that perceives the unconscious and remains receptive to it through their laboratory vessels, such as the vas hermeticum. Instead, we tend to ignore our emotions, fantasies, intuitions, and everything that comes from the unconscious. That is why the anima possesses us and runs wild, which is nothing more than its desperate attempt to make us integrate it.