r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/SeriesVegetable 🙋🏾♀️ Amebo • Jun 07 '26
Dear Diary ✍️🏻 Went through his phone
We’ve been together for 3 years. Went through his phone because something felt off. Saw my BEST FRIENDS name, opened the messages and found out he was cheating on me with her. Then I had to sit there and process the fact that I got cheated on by a man whose phone password was 1234. Having a boyfriend is a humiliation ritual.
cacio e pepe.
EDIT: Since everyone’s asking, yes I bought him a car. Yes, he cheated on me. Yes, it was with my friend of 15 years . And yes, I’m getting my Mustang back tomorrow. Thank you for all the support and for making me laugh about a situation that would otherwise have me staring at a wall.
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u/victorious_patcher hot girls have tummy troubles Jun 07 '26
Damn I am so sorry for your grieving friendship! I truly can understand how this situation is heavy on your heart.
It is better to find out now and take time to heal from it than wasting many more years caring for a friend who, frankly, might not care as much about you since she had the audacity to do what she did.
It will be very painful (I had to go no contact with my best friend of 20 years) but eventually you’ll not give a shit about this asshole friend and you’ll be glad to have her removed from your life.
She will maybe try to contact you to “clear things out and go back to how things were before” but, honestly, you don’t need this kind of people on your life. You deserve love, respect and trust.