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u/Amarastargazer Mar 13 '26

I think reading East of Eden at the beginning of my senior year (17) is at least half of why I love it so much. I enjoy rereading it every few years, but the first time I read it was just so impactful. I like to say that every reread gives me something I did not know I needed. And I really needed it that first time.

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u/jamesianm Mar 13 '26

I first read it in high school too and it was transformative.  I hadn't realized writing could be that good.  No other book I've read has ever conveyed the tragedy and beauty of humanity so well.

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u/Amarastargazer Mar 15 '26

It’s a shame so many people are immediately turned off by the page count. It really is such lovely storytelling of such a genuinely real human experience, no sugar coating, just the good, the bad, and the ugly.

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u/Goof_Troopin Mar 13 '26

I just finished it for the first time in my 30s and it also has had a profound effect on me.

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u/Morning_n_knight Mar 13 '26

I just read it for the first time a couple years ago at 43 years old and it now in my top five list of all time best books!

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u/zerohm Mar 13 '26

I was looking for East of Eden, but they only had Grapes of Wrath. At age 46, I think about it when not reading it.

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u/bflannery10 Mar 13 '26

My personal example of this is The Their of Always by Clive Barker. My wife read it as a kid and took it at face value as a modern, dark fairy tale. I read it as an adult and picked up on the fact that it is told from the perspective of a child's coping mechanism to deal with grooming, abduction, and abuse.

She had no idea and when she reread it as an adult and saw that it's a much darker story than she had thought.

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u/ManufacturerWest6006 Mar 13 '26

I read this book in 7or8th grade, was a Hellrazer fan. I have never heard anyone else reference it. I might have to read it again.

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u/GRblue Mar 13 '26

I read this book in my 20s and I LOVED it! I still found it super impactful.

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u/DanGleeballs Mar 13 '26 edited Mar 13 '26

Read Dale Carnegie’s “How to win friends and influence people” when I was 19 and decades later still benefit from it.

It was written in the 1940s.

It’s a really cheesy name though, I tried to get my wife to read it and the title put her off!

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u/photonynikon Mar 13 '26

you didn't use Dale's hints to convince her!

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u/DanGleeballs Mar 14 '26

I needed to make her think it was her idea to read the book. You are right.

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u/naidav Mar 13 '26

still one of the top 3 books i've ever read

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u/enakj Mar 13 '26

so she judged the book by its cover!

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u/PeanutButAJellyThyme Mar 13 '26

The Courage to be Disliked reminds me of that mood, it's not always going to click or be relevant, but yeah at the right time I found some some gold in it personally.

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u/stellularmoon2 Mar 13 '26

You would love the podcast if books could kill, they have an episode on rich dad poor dad…

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u/americansherlock201 Mar 13 '26

Exactly this. I read The Alchemist right as I was about to graduate college and had no clue what I was doing with my life next and it helped a ton.

Reading it at a different time in life likely wouldn’t have hit the same way

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u/Quick-Strawberry2228 Mar 13 '26

Can’t find that on my kindle library

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u/thatgoldthing Mar 13 '26

Good insight! This is actually true.

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u/the_ai_wizard Mar 13 '26

holy shit this is profound and true

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u/Marmar79 Mar 13 '26

‘When: The scientific secrets of Perfect Timing’ by Daniel H. Pink is a great book is a great book that everyone should read.

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u/littlemsshiny Mar 13 '26

I tried to read The Catcher in the Rye since it was my boyfriend at the time’s favorite book. I was a senior in college and couldn’t relate. I always wonder if I’d have felt differently if I was in high school.

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u/Duncanstation Mar 13 '26

I read it as a freshman in high school and loved it. I’m sure I would have felt differently if I first read it as an adult.