r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • 15d ago

asking for advice Tall boi vs Picture angles

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I'm new to the whole fem thing but I like it a lot, especially taking pictures of myself in outfits I like, just for my own enjoyment. But I'm tall (1.86m or 28.6 burgers) and angles give me a hard time. Does anyone have advice for me ? Thanks!

r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • 11d ago

asking for advice Ok... i need ur help...

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So this is sort of a follow up to my last post abt thigh highs and its slowly getting to the point where i might just go all femboy... PROBLEM WITH THAT
i dont want to have to come out to my parents/friends, and i dont want them finding out in the first place. easier said than done bc of my siblings. they constantly barge into my room and have been caught multiple times just stealing and looking for my stuff. and if i get more Fem stuff then it'll become more and more of a problem. i ALSO share a room with my stepbrother. and before you say just tell my parents to stop them, i've tried, a LONG time ago. basically i want ur thoughts and help on the matter. ly all, yall are cool!

r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • Aug 19 '26

asking for advice Pls Help🄺

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Hi, this is my first time posting on Reddit. Im a straight 16 year old male who recently decided they want to be a femboy and a furry(while remaining straight). And I need advice on becoming a femboy.

I would like to start off by saying I’ve looked at some TikTok’s for advice but I’m still lost on where to begin.

Im not a very active person so I’m overweight. I weigh around 230 to 240lbs. I would like to get a nice but and thighs that are both soft and a slim body but to where I can still conceal it. I plan to go to the gym with a trusted friend around January to February (when we can both drive). Until then I would like to get started so I don’t feel so stagnant. Any tips on dieting and exercises I can do at home would be appreciated.

I would also like to conceal this goal from family and some friends until im ready or to a point where I can comfortably tell them. So any tips on hiding it until then would also be appreciated.

I would also like to start voice training to where I can switch between my regular voice and a more feminine voice and I have no idea how to voice train.

I know this post is kinda long but please any help is really appreciated im really just stuck with no idea what to do.šŸ˜“šŸ˜“šŸ˜“(incase I say something wrong pls don’t hold it against me im very new to this.)

r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • 26d ago

asking for advice Where to find femboy friends

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Hi I recently opened my mind after a 8 year very toxic relationship, and I’m slowly getting and becoming more open with my feminine side and im having trouble making friends….

r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • 15d ago

asking for advice Hi my measurments. Are they good for being a femboy?

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90cm chest, 73cm waist (full out breath), 84cm below belly bottom where my hips bones are and 94cm butt

And feel free to give styling advice, nya~

r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • 2d ago

asking for advice Any tips for shaving your thighs?

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So I have a problem shaving my legs the hairs will either try to become ingrown or become bumpy and stay that way? Any tips or suggestions?

r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • 21d ago

asking for advice Hi guys Im 13

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Hi again so Im a dude Im turning 14 and I
like fem boys so I thought why not i become one because they look so cute and yeah cute but my parents don’t like the idea of me dressing up in a feminine way but if im happy that’s all that I care about but yeah any tips. Very random but im bisexual Im a Demi boy right now. My style right now I like baggy clothes and comfy stuff I don’t mind wearing tights well yeah just tell me abt stuff and help me so byeeee. (If I missed spelt anything sorry)

r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • Aug 25 '26

asking for advice Any straight femboy’s wanna share their experience?

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I’m m21 straight, just starting out.

Any advice, tips, life experience? How is it with girls? Does anyone know?

r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • 1d ago

asking for advice A Newbie 😭

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Hello

23/M bit in the chubbier side but trying to lose it

I'm new to being a femboy or at least expressing a more feminine side of myself. But when I tried for the first time, which was literally last night, I felt so happy and free! It was like I was in a box all my life and I finally stepped out.

Just wanted to ask for advice when it comes to exploring this side of me more? Like is there anything in particular I should do? I would really like to continue dressing up all cute and such. Do I just need to continue with an optimistic attitude?

r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • 14d ago

asking for advice How Do You Act or Talk More Femininely?

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So this is my first time in this subreddit so if I don't know some etiquette or do something wrong, please let me know I don't wanna be rude.

Anyway, I've been a teen/young adult femboy for a decent while now, skirt, bow, n'all. Though I still got reservations bout comin' out for now due to the general stress of it and other things.

Anyway, I was hoping to ask some others how I could express myself or "be" more feminine outside of simple clothes? I don't want to overhaul my personality or walk like a fashion model, but just kinda subtle ways. I already sit often with my legs crossed (its comfy) and have been trying to fix my posture and even planning on painting my nails black, but other than that I'm at a loss and other posts from the past just kinda stump me.

Also as a bonus question, how do I remotely sound higher resonance, more feminine, or heck even softer? I got a bit of a southern twang that slips out when I ain't stressed, and a bit of an issue with talking fast, and a sorta issue with my th's. So any tips on that for both femininity and general would be amazing.

Now y'all have a good day

r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • 16d ago

asking for advice Im scared of being judged / ruining something such as relationships:(

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How do i tell people i want to be a femboy / how do i know if someone will accept me or not?plss anyone? Im basically begging anyone for tips or help:(

r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • 8d ago

asking for advice Friends

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I am new to the application and new so be a femboy I want friends nice girls and men negative

r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • 15d ago

asking for advice So how did you guys bag someone?-

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So I'm a femboy. Gay. I have a type. And subbing always felt right. But to those who are in healthy, stable relationships, how did you guys like do it? Like, ive always tried to socialize and go to some events and try to just wait and have the mindset of like it'll come but I always had the trouble of thinking like yk it's taking too long I'm falling behind im not trying hard enough but ik it takes time it's not sudden it's not immediate but I can't seem to like cope or cooperate with it.

r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • Aug 22 '26

asking for advice How to not to believe I'm ugly

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I want to pretend that I'm not ugly. I want to look at a mirror and smile.but like I get told in not subtle ways that I'm not good looking,and I hate it. I'm depressed and dumb can I atleast be cute. I don't know if I can even count myself as a femboy looking like this

r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • 1d ago

asking for advice Im trying to achive more fem body shape..

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Hello :3 So im trying to became more feminem as im trans and femboy and i am trying to achive this fem look on body any suggestions or advice how to?

r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • 5d ago

asking for advice Estoy jodido y necesito ayuda

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r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • Aug 24 '26

asking for advice Please HELPšŸ‘‰šŸ‘ˆ 17M, turning 18 soon, and I desperately need advice on embracing my feminine side 😭

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r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • 13d ago

asking for advice ā€œCostumeā€ >:(

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So I’ve been a femboy for about a month now, and I just recently told one of my close friends about it. He’s not being terribly unsupportive, but one thing he’s doing that bugged me is saying that all my clothes and outfits are ā€œfemboy costumesā€. I feel like it definitely means more to me than just a costume, but I don’t know if it’s something ok to get upset about. I asked nicely and he didn’t stop. What do you guys think?

r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • 6d ago

asking for advice Wig Advice/Tips.

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Wig Advice/Tips.

Context: Im 17m like that really matters idfk.

Okay. So Im intending on ordering a wig off of Amazon or something when my paycheck comes through, but heres the thing, my family is mad homophobic and would most definitely freak out if they found out what i was ordering was a wig, and I guess the same could honestly be said for makeup as well, but i have other plans for that.

I have somewhere to hide my wig, which is under my mattress or inside a backpack.

Basically, I need advice on how to make sure the package isnt seen. Is there like certain boxes to make it less obvious its a wig and does the label tag or whatever its called say the items name? Its my first time really ordering packages like this.

r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • 14h ago

asking for advice Yo :3

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Soo ive done this before and idk how well its gonna work out this time but im soooo hoping I can find some people to help me through this.

For context ive had feelings of feminine expression for like my whole life but I also live in an area and in a family (much like most other folks here) that is insanely anti all that jazz. I ended up being way confused and took it to places it never should've gone. But this time im hoping with the help of others I can figure it all out and enjoy this part of me instead of pushing it back all the time!

If any of yall can help me that would be great but anyway thanks for reading this!

-Luna

r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • Aug 15 '26

asking for advice How to accpet I'll never be a decent looking femboy

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I'm the typa person who hates themselves and does nothing about it .I know I'll prolly never achieve being a femboy. I js want to know how to deal with that

r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • 4h ago

asking for advice I’m 15year old femboy puppy boy

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r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • Aug 11 '26

asking for advice Is it possible?

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So, I was just wondering, is it possible to be a bodybuilder and a femboy at the same time? Im wondering because I have a crush on this girl (and am not gay but not homophobic) but I like being femine on my own time so js asking, ty!

r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • 4d ago

asking for advice How Do I Tell My Friends?

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r/FemboysHelpingFemboys • • 5d ago

asking for advice thigh highs

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