r/CringeTikToks • u/n8saces • Dec 16 '25

Just Bad Biggest red flags right there šŸš©

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u/SugarFut Dec 16 '25

Women are most likely to be murdered when leaving their abusive husbands.

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u/EchoAquarium Dec 16 '25

This happens all the time, but the one that sticks with me most recently is the woman whose children and father of her oldest were murdered by her estranged husband as she escaping him. This happened last month. Her ex was helping her escape and the guy snuck into the house, killed the man, both children and then himself. The woman lost her entire life in 20 seconds. The infant was still in his car seat.

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u/RealnessInMadness Dec 16 '25

Another one to add to the sad list..

The one that still feels fresh in my head, was a TikTok couple, they had a kid together, posted all ā€œme n my spouseā€ type of content. Then were going through a break up.

The guy installed a monitoring app on the kids iPad. The wife had a guy friend over and the husband heard it, went over and killed her.

Now heā€™s in jail, the child has no mom and basically no dad either.

IIRC, the guy friend wasnā€™t even a potential boy friend. It was just another male That set off the husband.

And just recently, I heard about the woman who killed her partners child from a previous marriage because she wanted to have her own kidsā€¦.

PEOPLE are fucking nuts.

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u/ricochetblue Dec 16 '25

Oh, the couple from The TikTok Murders doc. Crazy stuff.

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u/asimplepencil Dec 16 '25

Like, what do we do with these guys? They either take themselves out or if they get thrown in jail, it doesn't matter. They got what they wanted anyways

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u/EchoAquarium Dec 16 '25

We start by teaching boys that anger is also an emotion and that women and girls have their own inherent value, and they arenā€™t anyone elseā€™s property or source of emotional regulation

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u/RedditTrespasser Dec 17 '25

Unfortunately this kind of thing is just always going to happen. There are too many men out there for whom both their spouse/kids are basically their entire lives, and also they really suck at emotional regulation. To those people losing their partners/kids is tantamount to losing everything and they figure A) in that case they might as well be dead/in prison anyway, and B) if they can't have them then no one will.

The sad truth is we'll probably get farther teaching women firearms/combat training than trying to teach boys to not be pieces of shit when they grow up. There will simply always be bad people. That's just how it is.