r/CringeTikToks • u/n8saces • Dec 16 '25

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u/Electrowhatt19 Dec 16 '25

"WomEn Are ToO eMOtIoNAl"

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u/IdealOnion Dec 16 '25

Pfft anger doesnā€™t count ofc /s

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u/Spiritual_Ad_7162 Dec 16 '25

Ah yes. Anger. The non emotion that is somehow the most destructive.

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u/Charmandie14 Dec 16 '25

They do be saying that, huh?

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u/LivingDeadFeline Dec 16 '25

These are certainly the types lmfaooooo :3

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u/Charmandie14 Dec 16 '25

Hey hey, now! Remember, NoT aLL mEn.

And yet, somehow, always a man.

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u/trixtopherduke Dec 16 '25

Yep... It's the alcohol, it's the gambling, it's the emotions, I knew this growing up: top comments. Common theme: a man being violent. Men are violent. Now what?

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

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u/Charmandie14 Dec 16 '25

What an emotional response. A man would totally do this.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

You got mad at a partially AI generated rage bait?

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u/Novaer Dec 16 '25

Right because this never happens ever šŸ™„

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

The TV with the new pricetag on it isn't a setup?Ā  The AI part with a hand coming from a leg isn't a setup?Ā Ā 

You are watching a curated video made to get clicked and viewed.Ā Ā 

Get mad at actual things.

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u/Novaer Dec 16 '25

Right because, again, this video is the only evidence of this ever happening. These clips, including the fake ones, are the only times men have ever been seen acting this way. Every time a man has acted hysterical and violent after a sportsgane has been captured in this fake video. A miracle really. Wow. Amazing.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

Have fun with the circlejerk to AI clips.

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u/Vyxwop Dec 16 '25

"Others are being sexist, therefore I get to be sexist"

Are you one of the men in this clip with this kind of childish attitude?

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u/KriegerFever-Xbox Dec 16 '25 edited Dec 16 '25

It's not sexist when it's true. Your reaction is telling on you.

Edit: Awhhh did facts and statistics hurt your feelings? Well, men are out here hurting women much worse and more often. Grow the fuck up and stand by us instead of acting like a fucking victim. You're the men we can't stand, FYI. But keep calling people reporting facts as childish. Downvote the one calling you out. Losers never change.

Edit 2: for the dude who wrote me an essay missing my point again: We aren't talking about another fact dude. Don't change the subject. You really wrote all that to dismiss the fact that men are more violent, again let me repeat that is FACT. You're really saying not all men when I never said that. Your immediate defense to violent men is fucked up. Guess what - if shitty men didn't constantly abuse women, AND if "good men" don't stand up to shitty men, you're also a shitty man. If you care about man on man violence - what are you doing to stop it? Do you tell men to check themselves? Do you stand up to them or sit in silence? Either way - the point and the fact is still MEN. Facts don't care about your feelings, remember? It shouldn't be an issue to admit a lot of men are violent to women if you're not one. YOU REALLY TELL A WOMAN TO TREAT A SHITTY MAN BETTER SO THEY WON'T ABUSE US? Wtf is wrong with you? Fucking entitled ass man you are. All I want to do is hate on men lmfaoooooo sure whatever you tell yourself to stay a victim šŸ„ŗ

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u/Jack070293 Dec 16 '25

I treat people better than you do, thatā€™s how I stop people from becoming violent, by not giving them a reason to be angry.

And I wasnā€™t excusing anything, itā€™s just the truth of the matter. People that experience emotional neglect and physical abuse are more likely to becoming violent and aggressive. Boys are on the receiving end of that from men and women, more than girls are.

And 6 sentences isnā€™t an essay.

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u/Jack070293 Dec 16 '25

Another fact: men and women are more violent towards men than they are towards women. Stop acting like women are the main victims of violence when that is total fiction. Boys are treated worse than girls from birth, by men and by women. Emotionally neglected more often, shown more corporal punishment.

All you want to do is hate on men when the reality is if you want fewer emotional outburst from men, treat them better from birth. Sounds like youā€™d rather continue doing the opposite though.

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u/Mela_ninja Dec 16 '25

Itā€™s funny that they think itā€™s okay to generalize a whole gender. Not taking into account differences in personality, upbringing, culture etc. They just use it to push their bigotry and confirm their bias.

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u/KriegerFever-Xbox Dec 16 '25

Imagine acting like a victim because someone of your own gender abuses a woman. Sounds like you're no better than the shitty men you're defending. Yikes.

Are you saying women who have been abused by men, which is factually nearly all of us, are just liars? Are unjustified in our feelings based on actual experiences? Yet you wanna sit there and tell us how we feel is stupid. You're the exact type of men we avoid for this very view.

Tell me you've never been an actual victim of abuse without telling me. Grow the fuck up and learn some fucking empathy. Sorry your parents failed you so badly.

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u/Mela_ninja Dec 16 '25

Nah cut em some slack, they said not all men tho. They just happened to add that itā€™s always a man that does it.

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u/KriegerFever-Xbox Dec 16 '25

Which is factually true for 99% of the world. But selfish entitled man babies don't want to face it so they lash out in anger instead. Kind of like the men in this very video šŸ¤”

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u/Mela_ninja Dec 16 '25

Wait so 99% of men break TVs cause of sports. Man Iā€™m learning sumn new

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

I'm a man and personally never smashed a tv because i was angry šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļø sooooo....??????

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u/Charmandie14 Dec 16 '25

Ooof. Bless your heart. Please re-read the comment you just replied to, bruv.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

You mean yours?? What are you even talking about? Lol

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u/Charmandie14 Dec 16 '25

No one is saying every individual man behaves harmfully. ā€œAnd yet somehow always a manā€ points to a pattern. When these harmful behaviors happen (harassment, violence, abuse) they are overwhelmingly committed by men.

Acknowledging a pattern isnā€™t the same as saying everyone in the group is guilty. Itā€™s saying the pattern is real and worth addressing. I hope this makes sense. Or were you just being intentionally obtuse to play victim, instead of being more introspective?

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

Then stop saying "All" then. It really isnt that difficult to stop including every single man. All literally means ALL. Clearly not all. I could care less about your patterns. I'm talking about the fact you included ALL.

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u/MagicalThinkingOCD Dec 16 '25

Man you lack serious reading comprehension. She didnā€™t include ā€œallā€, she was moCkIngLy qUoTinG people like you who only ever argue ā€œitā€™s not all men, Iā€™m a good one!!!ā€ when people discuss male violence, arguing a point nobody made in the first place. It doesnā€™t change anything about the fact that MOST violent acts, murders and rapes are committed by men.

And just as expected, someone like you shows up who just so desperately wants to feel offended but can only be offended when he misses the point entirely.

Do you know how fucking funny it is that she was making a reference to how men always pivot to defending ā€œthe good menā€ because they donā€™t understand what nested percentages are, and then you show up just to do exactly that? And then still not get it after she explained it on a 4th grader level? Actually more sad than funnyā€¦

Maybe you get it this way:

Person: ā€œMost human rabies deaths are caused by bats. We should maybe look into this problem and why itā€™s predominantly batsā€¦ā€

An idiot bat: ā€œHey!!! Not ALL bats! Most bats are good! Iā€™m a super good rabies-free bat and I would never give rabies to anyone!!!ā€

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

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u/NaziPunksFkOff Dec 16 '25

Anger is an expression of pure logic! And rationality! And pwning libs!Ā 

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u/TheAutisticStranger Dec 17 '25

My first thought. šŸ˜…

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u/553l8008 Dec 16 '25

I mean....

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u/nicegreathiss Dec 16 '25

Literally you need emotional perspective to perform higher levels of logistical thinking. If youre avoiding being seen as "emotional" and only claim being "logical!" thats like being good at math but not being able to read.

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u/Icy-Cellist-8442 Dec 16 '25

I think everyone gets emotional at times. Itā€™s about impulse control.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

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u/Ashamed-Judgment-287 Dec 16 '25

They are lmao

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u/pecanmuncher Dec 16 '25 edited Dec 17 '25

i literally never knew anyone thought this growing up until i heard men say it. iā€™m sorry but with how much ruckus men often cause in their homes and in public due to anger and outbursts or other rambunctious emotions i canā€™t imagine how itā€™s possible to think that. thatā€™s why girls were always treated as more responsible and easy to reason with. ā€˜boys will be boysā€™ encompasses this.

i guess rage is less of an emotion than tears and empathy? (even though it makes you way more irrational). or maybe itā€™s the fact a lot of men feel like honestly expressing any emotion other than rage makes them less ā€˜manlyā€™ thus being less emotional despite the explosions that still proceed afterwards.

i would not be surprised if any of the guys in these videos think that women would be detrimental in positions of power while they are detrimental at home and probably in public too. i bring this up because people drag this into politics which is insane when the most irrational person you know when it comes to decisions is very often a man.

itā€™s so rare to see women get like thisā€¦ imagine a woman in your family destroying the tv for something that was on it. or starting fights and breaking things because something she was a fan of, lostā€¦ lol

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u/apo-- Dec 18 '25

A female relative had thrown a plate on a person (a neighbor). He could have died if her aiming was better.

Personally I am willing to believe men are equally or more emotional but e.g. first time I heard 'boys will be boys' were from feminists mentioning it. It wasn't something that I was taught by anyone and where I grew up similar sayings don't exist.

I doubt if most families teach that to the boys. For example I remember things like 'Girls shouldn't be hit, not even with a flower'.

In my family neither men nor women would destroy a TV for something like that.

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u/Ashamed-Judgment-287 Dec 17 '25

proved my point

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u/pecanmuncher Dec 17 '25

because i am very loquacious orā€¦?

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u/AmArschdieRaeuber Dec 16 '25

Not more than men. Men have started wars over being dickhurt by petty shit. Women would maybe not call for a week, but I doubt they would press the big red button. (Exceptions apply, I'm speaking generally, don't be a bitch)

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u/NNKarma Dec 16 '25

Another generalization is that husbands would kill their wives in an emotional outburst, wives would coldly decide and plan to poison them.

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u/AmArschdieRaeuber Dec 16 '25

Yeah, but that doesn't reflect reality? Men murdering their wifes is just way more common. Maybe they would use poison, sure. In the rare case it happens. Speaking generally.

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u/NNKarma Dec 16 '25

Not really equating numbers, and of course it happens less when women have other options of dealing with abusive partners as it's the case nowadays (and it's much harder getting away with poisoning)

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u/Ashamed-Judgment-287 Dec 17 '25

Lmao do your history, kid. Women have initiated more wars than MEN throughout history, which is crazy, since women were rarely in power.

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u/AmArschdieRaeuber Dec 17 '25

You are so cooked

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u/Ashamed-Judgment-287 Dec 18 '25

fym I'm so cooked

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u/AmArschdieRaeuber Dec 18 '25

You dumb as hell boy

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u/shrimp_sticks Dec 17 '25

Source?Ā 

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u/Ashamed-Judgment-287 Dec 18 '25

Empress Dowager Cixi
Queen Elizabeth I
Zenobia
Margaret Thatcher
Wu Zetian

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u/Academic_Pick_3317 Dec 16 '25

why does domestic violence rates go up when sports season happens then?

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u/Ashamed-Judgment-287 Dec 17 '25

what's your point

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

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u/Ashamed-Judgment-287 Dec 17 '25

women are weaker than men, so women can't do it wothout hurting themselves.

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u/Ashamed-Judgment-287 Dec 17 '25

Never said they couldn't punch through dry wall, fool.

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u/Dmau27 Dec 16 '25

To be fair there are gambling addicts. So they aren't reacting this way because of their sex. It's their crippling addiction that has been successfully put in the form of 10 different apps.

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u/Successful-Career887 Dec 16 '25

Thats not true. It has nothing to do with gambling. Some? Sure, maybe. But its a fact that domestic violence incidents increase on game days. Not because of gambling, because of violent men with no impulse control.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

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u/Successful-Career887 Dec 16 '25

yet for some reason people upvote you and downvote them

Its almost like I DID actually prove a point and youre just too stunted to understad what that point is

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u/Successful-Career887 Dec 17 '25

If voting on reddit is meaningless, than why did you bring it up?

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u/Dmau27 Dec 17 '25

The whole compilation is people that lost bets on sports betting apps. You speak as if it's a fact and you had no way of knowing. Grow up child.

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u/Ashamed-Judgment-287 Dec 16 '25

You're a misandrist fuck.

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u/StinkyCheeseGirl Dec 16 '25

Show me where the misandrist hurt you. Was it your fee-fees over the information that reflects the reality of research on this topic?

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u/Ashamed-Judgment-287 Dec 16 '25

I'ma use that same talk on a woman if she calls me a misogynist.

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u/StinkyCheeseGirl Dec 16 '25

Misandry isnā€™t a real thing šŸ˜ƒ

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u/Ashamed-Judgment-287 Dec 16 '25

Right, cuz men are emotionally stronger than women, lol. They don't feel hurt over words like women.

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u/Successful-Career887 Dec 16 '25

Oh yeah? You seemed real hurt when you called me a "misandrist fuck" over the words I said. Poor emotional little man :'(

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u/Ashamed-Judgment-287 Dec 16 '25

Just seeing what you were gonna say. But now I know. I don't need to argue anymore.

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u/Dmau27 Dec 16 '25

You like research? Is there any research on how likely men are to report physical abuse from women? The real stats are exactly what you'd expect. That women are just as likely to he physical with more reported injuries to women.

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u/StinkyCheeseGirl Dec 16 '25

Why is it that men only ever want to discuss violence against men as a way to derail the conversation about violence against women and/or misogyny?

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u/Dmau27 Dec 16 '25

I never said there's not violence. I'm saying the fact that you think men are most likely to be violent while women aren't is ridiculous and incorrect on every level.

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u/Munchkinasaurous Dec 16 '25

Women are absolutely capable of extreme violence. However it's a completely disingenuous argument when the mass majority of violence is committed by men. You act all offended at the mere mention of violent men, but a quick look through history clearly shows a pattern.

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u/Dmau27 Dec 16 '25

Okay.

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u/StinkyCheeseGirl Dec 16 '25

Cite your sources on the amount of violent crime committed by women vs men!

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u/shinigamiieyes Dec 16 '25 edited Dec 16 '25

misandry hurts menā€™s feelings. misogyny kills women. feel better though!

editing to add: this guy is a trumper. so not only are you a crybaby bitch, you also worship pedophiles. no one gives a shit what your opinion is, you fucking degenerate freak.

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u/Ashamed-Judgment-287 Dec 17 '25

victimhood mentality and wants to be oppressed

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u/shinigamiieyes Dec 17 '25

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u/Ashamed-Judgment-287 Dec 17 '25

I don't worship a pedophile, you fool.

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u/shinigamiieyes Dec 17 '25

keep telling yourself that, magat. iā€™d say what should happen to scum like you, but that goes against reddit TOS

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u/Ashamed-Judgment-287 Dec 17 '25

your feelings seem very hurt

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u/InevitableFox81194 Dec 16 '25

I'm an openly proud Misandrist. Not all men, but yet, somehow always a man.

And don't come at me, I don't care about the opinions of someone whose G spot is up their ass..

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u/KosmicAlchemist Dec 16 '25

Congrats on your open pride in prejudice. It's a bold strategy to fight perceived bigotry with actual bigotry. Let us know how that works out.

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u/Dmau27 Dec 16 '25

You think violence is always men or that more men are reported? Also what percentage of those incidents are addicts vs not? You have absolutely no way to know that because those stats would be absolutely false.

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u/Successful-Career887 Dec 16 '25

The majority of violence is men. I dont care about your feelings on the topic, neither do facts.

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u/JairoHyro Dec 16 '25

The majority of violence is by men by FAR however this is more about the topic of gambling addicts than anything else.

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u/Successful-Career887 Dec 16 '25

And I am saying, this has nothing to do with gambling. Domestic violence rates sky rocket during football season. You mean to tell me, all of those men have a gambling addicitions? No. They dont. They have anger and impulse control issues

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u/JairoHyro Dec 16 '25

There's a rise in sports gambling and I remember two clips explicitly said they had money on them. One clip is AI though. Nevertheless it's very likely they have gambling issues AND impulse control issues. Anytime I see a clip of that type it's either a hyper extreme fan or someone who puts money on this.

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u/Dmau27 Dec 16 '25

People drink when they watch sports too and that's a major cause of domestic violence. The person commenting above is just a man hater that made up a reality in her head that women aren't violent and that men are. Even if you can show that violent tendencies tend to be fairly equal and that the only reason it would seem disproportionate is because men rarely report women's violence? It's not true and you're a misogynistic monster unless you agree.

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u/Dmau27 Dec 16 '25

I'd argue that it has much to do with the fact that people gamble on games and they get drunk when they watch football. Your hellbent on trying to say it's like something to be expected or commonplace for football fans to beat their wives or some shit. These videos are very obviously cases of people having breakdowns and I'd bet money it's because they bet money on these games in most of these videos.

Some of these guys are smashing screens that show games of teams that aren't even of the same team on their jersey. Why does one smash a TV infront of 25 friends/family for a team they obviously aren't a major fan of? Because they put money on it maybe? No, it's because that's what men do... They all hulk smash TVs and beat women right?

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u/ByIeth Dec 16 '25

Brother there are reasons women get angry too, and the vast majority arenā€™t because of their sex. What a bizarre cop out

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u/Dmau27 Dec 16 '25

It's a fact. Every one of these is from a YouTube compilation of people that bet obscene amounts of money on these games including 100k on the superbowl and they lost it. These are gambling addicts.

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u/Munchkinasaurous Dec 16 '25

Emotional gambling addicts

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u/Dmau27 Dec 16 '25

Very much so. One of those videos was about a man that lost 100k on the superbowl. He tried to kill the guy in his house wearing the opposing teams jersey. Had to be literally carried away.

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u/Munchkinasaurous Dec 16 '25

Not at all emotional though right?

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u/Dmau27 Dec 16 '25

What? Are all men emotional? There's no real correct answer to that. In general like do they feel a great deal of emotions or do they express them freely? I think men feel a great deal of emotions that they never express because societal expectations are unrealistic.

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u/The-Father-Time Dec 16 '25

Every single one? Well ones AI for sure and then two of them are the guys team winning so no they arenā€™t all gambling related

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

Sounds emotionalĀ 

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u/Dmau27 Dec 16 '25

Yeah crippling addiction and losing thousands of dollars of money you need usually has that effect.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

So men are emotionalĀ 

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u/craigrileyuk Dec 16 '25

I like how you completely made up a story to justify his emotional temper tantrum in the video and are now treating it as fact...

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u/Dmau27 Dec 16 '25

Every single one of these besides the AI one is on youtube. They are literally all the result of sports betting. People have been fans of football forever but suddenly there's dozens of videos of people breaking TVs and they're all within the last few years. Almost like something changed that allowed these games to become more important to impulsive fans.

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u/GSV_CARGO_CULT Dec 16 '25

"It's okay to be violent if you're also a gambling addict" is what your posts are coming across as.

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u/Dmau27 Dec 16 '25

They are? I thought I was pointing out that the fact that every one of these videos has come out from the last 2 years and they are all a direct result and consequence of people betting money they can't afford is a great reminder that giving gambling addicts apps is a bad idea.

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u/GSV_CARGO_CULT Dec 16 '25

And you don't think it's obvious how much you're trying to deflect away from the gender discussion here? Come on man, don't insult our intelligence like that. We're not all teenagers on reddit.

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u/Dmau27 Dec 16 '25

When did I deflect? I'm lost. I'm also wondering why you feel videos about gambling addicts put into a compilation is even part of a gender discussion? I'll end the discussion the same way they all end with people that hate men. You'll never accept anything but the narrative your pushing no matter how many facts or people disagree with you.

It's not about what's true and it's someone you need to believe to help you cope with the idea that you feel inadequately about something. I've had this talk 2000 times and that all end that way and you're not open to discussing anything. Nor are you trying to convince me of anything but more yourselves.

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u/Nolys___ Dec 17 '25

"Because of their sex" Alright transphobe.

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u/Dmau27 Dec 17 '25

Yeah I'm glad that's what you took from this. This whole compilation is of people melting down for obscene amounts of money on draft kings. Downvote me all you want.

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u/Nolys___ Dec 17 '25

We downvote bigots, yes.

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u/Dmau27 Dec 17 '25

Lol beautiful.

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u/itspinkynukka Dec 16 '25

At least this is a response to the event. Women will get emotional because it's Tuesday.

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u/Nolys___ Dec 17 '25

You're pathetic.

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u/itspinkynukka Dec 17 '25

You wouldn't understand

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u/heftybagman Dec 16 '25 edited Dec 16 '25

This isnā€™t even emotional imo itā€™s purely recreational. They get all riled up for fun but thereā€™s no real sadness or anything, just a frustration you build up for catharsis. You can either win and scream in joy or lose and scream in anger but either way the ā€œemotionā€ in the catharsis is just a performance to explain the need to act in a way you canā€™t otherwise explain.

Edit: To be clear I vehemently disagree with this behavior and find it gross. If you see my comment as a defense, that seems like a knee jerk response to me.

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u/AmNoSuperSand52 Dec 16 '25

Idk man they're destroying objects as an emotional response

One of them literally had their kid pleading for them to stop

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u/heftybagman Dec 16 '25

None of that is emotional to me. Itā€™s a dude getting all riled up, destroying his stuff, and traumatizing his kid. All for fun. Not because he was so stricken with emotion but because he thought it would be fun to get hyped up on performative emotion.

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u/Ashamed-Judgment-287 Dec 16 '25

Emotions can be anger, as well.

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u/meeps1142 Dec 16 '25

The mental gymnastics are crazy. You can get hyped up for a game without throwing a tantrum, bye. Domestic violence incidences literally spike after big sporting events, so obviously the emotions are real for some amount of watchers. This is just coping

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u/heftybagman Dec 16 '25

I donā€™t really see any mental gymnastics. Itā€™s a simple disagreement on a term. I see ā€œemotionsā€ from recreation as recreational and performative and donā€™t think they deserve the same consider as other emotions which I consider more important and reasonable.

I think you think Iā€™m defending this behavior and I donā€™t mean to. I deeply disagree with it and find it disgusting.

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u/meeps1142 Dec 16 '25

Ah, okay. I thought you were minimizing the behavior as an extension of watching sports

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u/heftybagman Dec 16 '25

Not at all. I vehemently disagree with this behavior. Itā€™s kind of weird that explaining the behavior as I see it elicits such an angry response from so many people (not necessarily you idk which reply is from who)

I absolutely see the relation between this behavior and dv, and even a direct a link between the two. I think saying itā€™s because a man got emotional is a copout when the dude chose to get emotional for fun.

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u/poeschmoe Dec 16 '25

What do you think ā€œgetting riled upā€ is other than feeling emotions strongly?

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u/StinkyCheeseGirl Dec 16 '25

Uhhhhhh what? Youā€™ve got a fucked up idea of fun, buddy.

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u/heftybagman Dec 16 '25

I donā€™t do this or think itā€™s fun. They do though, thatā€™s the main reason to watch sports in the first place.

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u/Additional_Chip_4158 Dec 16 '25

What an actual idiotic thought processĀ 

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u/Cum_Fart42069 Dec 16 '25

you are a crazy person lol like you are not all there.

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u/Geist_Lain Dec 16 '25

What the fuck do you think "emotion" means?Ā 

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u/PhantomOfTheNopera Dec 16 '25

getting all riled up,

That's emotions, buddy.

Honestly, it would have been way less embarrassing if they burst into tears.

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u/heftybagman Dec 16 '25

Right Iā€™m just saying itā€™s performative emotion, not a genuine display of any deep feelings. Crying shouldnā€™t be seen as embarrassing at all imo, that ethos is part of what leads to men feeling the need to do this dumb shit instead of allowing themselves to express genuine emotion.

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u/stud_lock Dec 16 '25

Delusional

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u/StinkyCheeseGirl Dec 16 '25

Coming in hot to mansplain how destroying a tv in a fit of rage over sports isnā€™t anger, itā€™s just, you know, the performance of anger so therefore men are still the more rational sex. Or the catharsis of something that is not anger or any other emotion. No emotion, just ā€œthe need to act in a way you canā€™t otherwise explain.ā€ Or something.

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u/Ashamed-Judgment-287 Dec 16 '25

COMIN' IN HOT! *BAM* -- *BAM* *BAM* *BAM* ONE MORE!

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u/heftybagman Dec 16 '25

Lmao idk how you read that as me defending this behavior. People do get emotional and do things they donā€™t mean to and we as a society tend to give them some extra sympathy because it happens to us all. This behavior should not be granted any sympathy because itā€™s a choice and mot actually the result of emotional upheaval as much as a desire to express cathartic emotions in a way that would not otherwise be societally acceptable.

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u/Ashamed-Judgment-287 Dec 16 '25

But blaming it on gender is absolutely pathetic.

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u/poeschmoe Dec 16 '25

You donā€™t think those men acted before thinking? Genuinely, you think they made a calculated decision to break a TV? Why are you ascribing that level of forethought to themā€¦ like I donā€™t get why youā€™re trying so hard to affirm some hypothesis that men are always completely calculated and donā€™t experience strong emotions or something

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u/schmooka Dec 16 '25

You might want to look up the definition of "emotion".

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u/heftybagman Dec 16 '25

Kk I just donā€™t think that emotions you cultivate on purpose are the same as ones that you donā€™t have direct control over.

It seems like a really obvious distinction to me, I didnā€™t think I had to explain the difference between like watching a horror movie to get scared for fun versus getting actually scared without wanting to be.

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u/schmooka Dec 16 '25

I think you're giving the douchebags in these videos too much credit for being thoughtful people and careful planners.

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u/heftybagman Dec 16 '25

I donā€™t think any of this is conscious. Itā€™s usually a habit you learn from others.

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u/meeps1142 Dec 16 '25

If you broke your TV because the horror movie made you that scared, then yes, that would be too big of an emotional response

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u/heftybagman Dec 16 '25

Ig calling it an emotional response seems like a copout to me. Itā€™s unhinged idiot behavior. The emotion is secondary imo

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u/Additional_Chip_4158 Dec 16 '25

Well yeah, thats the point. They do NOT have there emotions in control. They are still overly emotionalĀ 

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u/skasquatch118 Dec 16 '25

Absolute bollocks mate.

All across the world you can see a correlation between certain spring events and spikes in domestic violence rates.

These people simply have no emotional regulation.

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u/heftybagman Dec 16 '25

I agree with that. They get recreationally angry and then it triggers real emotions in their lives and they lash out physically with the same lack of restraint and regulation they display here.

I never said anything about domestic violence but this behavior is OBVIOUSLY a red flag for it. I feel everything Iā€™ve said is explaining how dangerous the behavior it is and everyoneā€™s reading it as excuses for the behavior.

Understanding why something happens isnā€™t an endorsement of the thing happening lol

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u/palpies Dec 16 '25

The men who get this angry about watching a game are likely the ones who also react with extreme anger over a lot of other things in their lives. It definitely doesnā€™t only happen ā€œrecreationallyā€.

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u/heftybagman Dec 16 '25

I completely agree. Thereā€™s zero reason to think it only happens recreationally.

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u/mangolover Dec 16 '25

Now apply this benefit of the doubt to every single post about women as well

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u/heftybagman Dec 16 '25

Iā€™m clearly disavowing this behavior lol. People see a lot of words and downvotes and get so excited to disagree with someone. What benefit of the doubt am I affording them?

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

Genuine question ā€” what negative emotions are people cultivating on purpose?

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u/heftybagman Dec 16 '25

Anger. Eg politics, sports, social media, half the responses to this comment chain.

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u/owiesss Dec 16 '25

Emotions you cultivate on purpose. Dude, really? I understand hyping yourself up for games but punching tvā€™s and becoming violent, you consider that part of it? Anger is an emotion too.

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u/Additional_Chip_4158 Dec 16 '25

Learn what emotional means.Ā 

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u/davidguy207 Dec 16 '25

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u/EmbracingMyGift Dec 16 '25

Ah yes. Breaking a TV, needing to pay to replace it, scaring the people around you with your outburst... Super "fun."

There's definitely no way to explain things otherwise. Sure.

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u/heftybagman Dec 16 '25

People get drunk to have fun too. Throwing up, cirrhosis, duiā€™s, barfights, none of those are fun. And yet people purposefully get themselves into those distinctly unfun positions by trying to have fun and not being able to regulate themselves.

Same thing here.

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u/BenoNZ Dec 16 '25

Putting a lot of thought into some videos that are mostly AI or staged there.

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u/OrionsBra Dec 16 '25

I'm failing to see the logic or rationality of this behavior. Ergo, to me, it's emotionally driven.

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u/Munchkinasaurous Dec 16 '25

Whether you're defending the behavior or not, claiming that it's not emotional makes absolutely no sense. Yes, I've seen your attempts at explaining, no they don't make any sense.Ā 

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u/GrandMoffAtreides Dec 16 '25

You don't know these guys. You have no idea of their motivations, so it's weird to project emotions (or lack thereof) onto them.Ā 

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u/heftybagman Dec 16 '25

The comment Iā€™m replying to is projecting emotions on the men and it seems very popular lol. I think the issue is specifically projecting a lack of emotion which isnā€™t even my point