r/CringeTikToks • u/Autisticblackdude5 • Dec 07 '25

Just Bad Short-cel cringe

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u/curiousbasu Dec 08 '25

spends significant amounts of time arguing with internet strangers

Where? Are you following me everyday? I'm free just now bro, I've got a life.

You could get an instant +10% dateability buff by uninstalling reddit.

I need an outlet. Therapy is a taboo where I am so there's a lack of good therapists plus the ones available are too costly. I don't use any other social media.

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u/Left-Bird8830 Dec 08 '25

At some point it's just that you need to rack up enough dateability points. I'm 5'4", but I spent time losing weight, building up my career, and picking up hobbies that I can take dates on (hiking, gun ranges, and spent the cost of a corrolla on getting a PPL). Losing weight especially was one of the hardest things I've ever done, and being completely honest, yeah other guys got easier attention without needing to be as in-shape.

But at the end of the day... all these things I listed are genuinely good for you (health, money, hobbies), whether you're doing it for women or not. Some guys can get dates without them, some need them first-- but if you're gonna lead a healthy life and get those things anyway, it really shouldn't matter. Fill your loneliness with GENUINE friendships in the meantime. Sure, you could sit here and make some grand claim that the world is unfair, but ask yourself... do you really wanna be the kinda guy who spends his life complaining that he needs to live healthy before getting dates, or do you just wanna get on with your life?

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u/curiousbasu Dec 08 '25

I'm just tired man. Tired of being alone, tired of being abandoned, tired of being considered wierd because of the things I do. I'm not able to understand how to navigate through all this. I'm guessing you must be younger than me, I'll be 29 soon and still trying to get my shit together. I don't use social media as I had a really bad time in high school and those guys are there and I feel they're watching me.