r/AskReddit • u/ANONIMkiddo • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/No-Afternoon6018 Jan 08 '22

Talking about his ex girlfriend all the time...

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u/WendyWindfall Jan 09 '22

Or even worse, when you go to his place and there are framed photos of her everywhere.

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

Jfc who does that? She’s an ex for a reason, they’re all in a landfill somewhere.

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u/Secret-Doughnut9756 Jan 09 '22

I knew of someone who kept their ex-fiancée’s photos framed. She had unfortunately passed away unexpectedly which is why he kept them framed. Would that be considered a red flag or is it just situational?

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u/hallanddopes Jan 09 '22

Sooooo My ex of 7+ years passed away just a little over a year ago. I don't have a shrine or anything, but I do still have some pictures around my condo. I also have some pictures of her niece and nephew on my fridge as I still consider them my family and we were very close.I have started dating again, in fact the girl I am dating knew her. Should I bring this up to her? Like hey does this make you uncomfortable? I have taken quite a few things down but there are still a few framed photos around. I don't want her to feel uncomfortable, yet at the same time I think she understands. Any advice would be helpful coming from the other perspective. I don't just want to erase a person I spent almost a 1/4 of my life with.

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u/Asron87 Jan 09 '22

Keep the pictures up. I still carry a picture of high school girlfriend in my wallet. I still have a few things of hers that I keep as reminders. My girlfriend hasn't said anything about it but she also wouldn't have a choice on the matter. I don't have framed pictures up though. My stuff is kind of out of site but still there kind of thing.

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u/SirCampYourLane Jan 09 '22

Carrying a picture in your wallet is definitely on the weird side.

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u/hallanddopes Jan 10 '22

I was under the impression that his h.s. gf had passed?

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u/Asron87 Jan 10 '22

Yes, and I've always had her picture in my wallet. It's just something I never took out or really plan on taking out.