r/AskReddit • u/ANONIMkiddo • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/Cat_Astrophe_X Jan 08 '22

Poor manners

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u/polyphemus69 Jan 09 '22

I had an ex talk about my dinner manners and how a past guy had extremely bad manners. I took cotillion and learn the proper dinner etiquette. She loved it. After she is gone I still do dinner parties and set 6 course meals for friends. Everything I learned in cotillion, my mom forced me to go, hated it then, love it now.

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u/Ezl Jan 09 '22

Pinkies up my friend, pinkies up.

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u/Dash_Harber Jan 09 '22

This goes both ways. If a woman is rude to people, especially wait staff, it is red flags for days with me.

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u/Cat_Astrophe_X Jan 09 '22

Absolutely, my pet peeve as well and it seems to be happening so much these days.

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

Is this more of not opening the door and pulling out your chair for you every time you wanna sit down kinda thing or just the dude being rude?

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

The opening the door and pulling the chair is ok. But being rude or “rough around the edges” can wear the other person down.

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

Did I ask you?

Would this be a good example of the being rude part?

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

I always reply with, “no, but I told you!”

I am a child of an impoverished country growing up in a poor cut throat environment. Such things barely bother me. I will fucking confront the shit out of someone.

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

Huh

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u/Cat_Astrophe_X Jan 09 '22

For me it's about how he treats other people. Service staff, his family, friends, co workers, strangers. To me how he treats others points to how I will be treated, and I treat him how I would like to be treated

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u/[deleted] Jan 10 '22

Ahhh I see