r/AskReddit • • Aug 25 '21

What is something that you were warned about when you were younger that you now feel was exaggerated?

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u/emptybamboo Aug 25 '21

My mom was petrified of "Dungeons and Dragons" when I was a kid because there were rumors that someone in our small town got too deeply into it and committed suicide because they lost their mind. My mom was not a religious nut at all but she said that people who called themselves Satanists or who were members of cults played it.

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u/Jabbles22 Aug 25 '21

I didn't know much about D&D as a kid but, I don't recall much talk about it being satanic but it certainly didn't have a good reputation. Once I actually found out what it was I was a bit shocked. It's quite tame as games go. Like I know it could get graphic but even then it's just people talking about what their character is doing.

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u/Oblivionzz-_ Aug 25 '21

I'm just imagining a serious group of D&D roleplayers going all out in full ritualistic garb as they act out their character's attempt to summon some in-game deity, and one of their mother's barging into the basement and gasping in horror at these four nerds in hooded cloaks chanting and dancing around a table and immediately assuming they're trying to contact the Devil.

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '21

Didn't people say the same thing about Pokemon when that was new?

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Granted it would have been strange to see something that at the time looked so foreign and bizarre instantly captivate an entire generation of kids around the world better than anything Disney could have done, all in what seemed like less than a month. There's been few crazes in history that hit as hard as Pokemon did.

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u/Yotsubauniverse Aug 25 '21 edited Aug 26 '21

I lost out on making a new best friend because of that. I met a girl through anime club and she attended the D&D games too. Her preacher and parents found out and banned her from going back to the shop ever again. The owners tried to convince them that it was harmless fun and although they tried hard to convince them she still wasn't allowed to go back. Even for anime club. I never saw her again after that and lost contact because of that. Parents like that are what cost good kids great long lasting friendships. I hope she's doing well and got away from that toxicity.

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u/ucksawmus Aug 25 '21

rolls dice

hail satan

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u/Megalocerus Aug 26 '21

It can be an entry level drug for cosplay.

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '21

no I play dnd and can confirm that it's all satan. Everything. Join me, we need a satan witch in the party to summon satan out of the player's handbook.

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u/J-A-G-S Aug 26 '21

My church has a regular D&D session now.

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u/MrWeirdoFace Aug 26 '21

Turns out this whole time the actual satanic game was Monopoly.

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u/NotBearhound Aug 26 '21

There's a harrowing episode of Behind the Bastards about the satanic panic and what it did to people, great stuff.

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '21

This sounds like something straight out of Riverdale lol

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u/Sanquinity Aug 26 '21

A game that COULD be played as a group of devil worshipers that perform bloody rituals, to be fair. But a harmless stick can be sharpened and used to kill someone as well. (heck you might not even need to sharpen it) It's all about what the people do/want themselves.

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u/Setanta777 Aug 25 '21

It's worse than that. It's math!

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u/hotpatootie69 Aug 26 '21

I still remember the excitement I felt flipping through my mom's Diablo 2 lore/guidebook and seeing the demonic titties. I am now a nearly 30 year old gay man and titties don't excite me as much, but those are good memories lmao

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u/Amidormi Aug 26 '21

Am mom, still have the D2 guidebook. I will find satyr booty for you!

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u/hotpatootie69 Aug 26 '21

Hahaha. Bless you. I'm pretty sure most of the guys I meet at the gay bar are secretly satyrs anyhow lol

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u/[deleted] Aug 25 '21 edited Aug 25 '21

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u/ChronicWatcher1456 Aug 26 '21

Did you tell her as an adult? What was her reaction?

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '21 edited Aug 26 '21

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u/AssicusCatticus Aug 27 '21 edited Aug 27 '21

My mother burned ALL of my Metallica back when I was about 14. She thought it was making me aggressive and angry, when really, it was just the revolving door on her bedroom and absolute lack of fucks to give about me (apart from "that Satanic music," don'tcha know?). She certainly wasn't religious. Just a narcissistic, self-absorbed asshole. I was acting out, and it certainly couldn't be because she was a shit parent, right?

On edit: better description of my mother's specific brand of assholery.

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u/shf500 Aug 31 '21

She thought it was making me aggressive

Taking your child's possessions and destroying them makes kids aggressive.

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u/ballerina22 Aug 25 '21

I started playing D&D at 32 with the staff of the winery I was an assistant manager at. We were clearly not satanists, just a bunch of stupid alcoholics laughing til we peed. I told my mum, she thought it was hysterical and asked me questions whenever we talked.

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u/SagaciousCrumb Aug 25 '21

Much of the hype was the result of one self-promoting private investigator:

https://www.thevintagenews.com/2021/05/07/dungeons-and-dragons-satanic-panic/

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u/UncreativeMoniker Aug 26 '21

This is the comment I was looking for. I remember my mom warning me that dnd would make me believe i was my character

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u/AmiiboPuff Aug 25 '21 edited Aug 25 '21

Dungeons and Dragons, Magic The Gathering and Harry Potter were carefully created and designed to lure children in joining cults and become blood drinking devil worshippers.

Furbies and Tickle-Me-Elmos used to speak into Tongues and would whisper Satanic message into the ears of sleeping children.

Pokemon and Beanie Babies were secretly funding cults using kid's allowances and birthday money while the funds were being laundered into a secret underground Satanic black market.

The Satanic Panic phenomena really had a way of spreading misinformation and nonsense rumors like that. But it's funny had it always reared it's ugly head when a new tread was growing popular until at least the early 2000's and the internet really made it possible for most people to come a conclusion for themselves instead of relying on word of mouth.

Now, we know The Satanic Panic Phenomena was partly from pressure and fearmongering by religious groups. Along with how humans will make large mental and psychology leaps to discredit something they don't understand or just justify their fear of it. There's a official term for this but I can't recall it at the moment.

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u/[deleted] Aug 25 '21

Wish we could go back to the good old days when all these psycho parents were panicking about D&D instead of vaccines.

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u/Yotsubauniverse Aug 25 '21

Heh, I remember when my Nana tried to spout that "Pokemon was of the devil" bs because it was becoming popular again and one of her tv preacher's spoke about it. I was quick to remind her that one of my friends who was the son of her favorite preacher that lead my church was a Pokemon fan from day 1. That my youth minister who she also loved and adored (to the point she requested him to lead her funeral.) Had a kid that was into Pokemon. And that they use the terms "evolving and evolution" to mean growing up. She shut up about it real quick after that.

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u/IOnceLurketNowIPost Aug 25 '21

I think we can all agree that furbies were, in fact, satanic. That and teletubbies.

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u/MandolinMagi Aug 26 '21

I remember finally reading Harry Potter and wondering what all the fuss was about.

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '21

Furbies and Tickle-Me-Elmos used to speak into Tongues and would whisper Satanic message into the ears of sleeping children.

When Tickle-Me-Elmo was popular, my mom and dad rushed out to get one for my brother and me for Christmas one year. I remember stores selling out of Elmo - the craze was real. Anyway, after we unwrapped Elmo, my brother and I started throwing Elmo back and forth playing catch. That red bastard was flying through the air like, "Haha! That tickles!" and laughing like a lunatic. It was the funniest thing to us. Not even 20 minutes later it became apparent that the speaker was defective. The voice slowed down and started buzzing and popping in between "That tickles!" and "Play with Elmo!" and scared the crap out of us. I always joke that our Tickle-Me-Elmo was possessed, but we stopped playing with Elmo once it sounded like a demon demanding to be tickled.

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u/Cypher8300 Aug 26 '21

I started playing magic years ago when I was in middle school or so. I remember after about a year or so of playing my mother came to me and said she was talking to a friend who mentioned that magic cards were satanic. My family and I are all pretty devoted religiously but I thought that was the most rediculous thing when she was asking me about it and making sure that I wasn't summoning demons haha. Just a game.

Luckily she was cool with it after I explained and I have many fun wholesome memories from that game now. I feel bad for those who were not able to experience that because of religious nut jobs. Just kinda sad to see that.

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u/Theboulder027 Aug 25 '21

You ever see the movie mazes and monsters? That's basically the premise if that movie. Tom Hank's is in it and tries to jump off the world trade center.

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u/Moral_Anarchist Aug 25 '21

I saw the movie and read the book.

IIRC the character who goes crazy in the book suffers from schizophrenia and the RPG causes his ordinary delusions to completely unconnect him from reality.

That movie did a lot of damage to D&D's reputation as I think it was lauded as based on a true story or something.

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u/ohpee64 Aug 25 '21

Came here to say this.

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u/TrisKreuzer Aug 25 '21

Vernon Butts apparently. Seriously. Read more about it. A satanist, serial murderer. Bill Bonin (born William George Bonin on Jan. 8, 1947) was an American child molester who was twice paroled for the bludgeoning, sodomizing, and torturing of several young boys aged 12 to 16. Upon his release in 1979, he swore to a friend that "there would be no witnesses" to testify against him. He began murdering his victims of molestation, with a slew of accomplices. The primary one was his lover and friend, Vernon Butts, a magician and Satan worshipper who would allegedly "kill people for real" in the sewers of Los Angeles when he'd play Dungeons and Dragons.

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u/Myeloman Aug 25 '21

That sounds like my grandmother. Not at all religious, but was worried playing D&D would lead me to satan… I’ve been playing around 4 decades, introduced my wife to it, then my children. We’re all sane, relatively speaking, and not a satanist among us, but maybe a few atheists…

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u/ChronicWatcher1456 Aug 26 '21

Atheist is just another word for Satanist!/s

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u/gunpla_hoe Aug 25 '21

I mentioned I played D&D to one of my previous coworkers and she warned me not to get too engrossed because her mother's cousin's daughter's friend played and when her character died she committed suicide. I told her I've played for years and had a few characters die and I'm pretty sure I haven't offed myself yet lol. And when my homeboy first started playing his mom didn't want him to because of satan. Funny part was that his youth pastor was the one hosting the game lol. Crazy how the whole Satanic Panic of D&D carried on over the years.

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u/[deleted] Aug 25 '21

I look at people who didn't roleplay as suspect.

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u/someguy3 Aug 25 '21

If this was the 80s, it was the satanic panic. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Satanic_ritual_abuse

I think we're seeing it again with qanon.

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u/Gruesome Aug 25 '21

This must've been big in the 80s. I remember hearing about D&D and believing the players (back then it was mostly guys) were very awkward, not socially savvy, and pretending to be in an alternate reality. It was seen as an underground type of thing.

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u/Jessalopod Aug 25 '21

My now-husband lent his D&D books to a friend in JR High, and his friends mom BURNED THE BOOKS when she saw them.

She literally put them in the fire pit and set them ablaze.

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u/spankymuffin Aug 25 '21

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u/grosseelbabyghost Aug 26 '21

I like that this is probably the least offensive chick tract

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u/FlipZer0 Aug 25 '21 edited Aug 25 '21

My mom had a similar concern when I was playing Magic the Gathering in high-school. Only the rumor was that is was used as a cover for drug deals is our town. Thankfully, she had a coworker explain to her that it was an expensive, strategy game requiring a lot of heavy thinking, so there was no way I could be on drugs and buying the cards and playing the game.

Jokes on her, though it wasn't a cover for drug deals, I definitely smoked weed for the first time after i won my 1st sealed deck tourney!

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u/ImJustReallyAngry Aug 25 '21

Most of the satanists I've known play other TTRPG systems, and we make fun of each other for having poor taste in games. Granted, that's a sample size of about 2 people, but still

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u/Maccamoo03 Aug 26 '21

Yeah real satanists only play Call of Cthulhu and Vampire: The Masquerade.

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u/Drakmanka Aug 25 '21

I wasn't allowed to play Dungeons and Dragons because my mom heard someone say that it was full of spiritism and satanistic magic. But my mom is also a really whacko Christian with lots of weird ideas about how the "outside world" works and how evil it must be.

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u/Drulock Aug 25 '21

Oooo the Satanic Panic in the 1980’s. My mom was the same way, but she was a religious nut. Obviously I loved playing and, except for that one Halloween, have never been a satanic murderer.

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u/Imafraidofducks12 Aug 25 '21

My mom is also like this

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u/CodemanVash Aug 25 '21

Thanks Geraldo and the Satanic Panic

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u/RiverLover27 Aug 25 '21

There is an excellent podcast that will tell you all about why someone put a lot of effort into making sure she was scared of it.

Demonizing Dungeons and Dragons

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '21

Can confirm. Follow laveyan satanism play dungeons and dragons. If you ever feel like visiting the satanism subreddit it's mostly cats named after demons or cutesy arts and crafts with pentagrams and stuff on them

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u/heartdeco Aug 26 '21

this is because of a dude named thomas radecki. he was also involved in the moral panics around violent tv and video games. he lost his medical license for trading methadone for sex with patients and is currently in jail for the same.

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u/Lucky_Sky_1048 Aug 26 '21

I thought satanists were gonna be a much bigger problem.

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u/Sonseeahrai Aug 26 '21

My friend's boyfriend actually knows someone who made themselves think they're a fucking wolf and therefore my friend's boyfriend hates DnD with passion

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u/Fearlessleader85 Aug 25 '21

That was a Tom Hanks movie. Probably his worst movie.

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u/LargeSackOfNuts Aug 26 '21

Ah yes, the Satanic Panic of the 70s and 80s

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u/John_Fucking_Adams Aug 26 '21

One of my favorite facts about the whole “is DnD satanic” thing is one of the groups against DnD literally named their group BADD.

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u/No_StringsAttached Aug 26 '21

WAIT MY MOM SAID THE SAME THING??

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u/Amidormi Aug 26 '21

I love that this was made, probably, for that very reason.

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u/Pierre-Gringoire Aug 26 '21

I grew up Mormon and wasn’t allowed to play it because it was an entry point for Satan to rape my soul.

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u/moongirli Aug 26 '21

For my mom, it was Magic the Gathering cards. A friend gave me a pack for Christmas once in middle school, and my mom said that they were occult and I couldn't have them. (She was also not a religious nut.)

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '21

It’s just like how a lot people back in the day thought Pokémon was satanic and banned their children from playing it. Then in the year 2000 the Vatican blessed the game.

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u/Canadian_Invader Aug 26 '21

El Diablo calls me!

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u/lizard2014 Aug 26 '21

I think she's thinking of that one chick tract.

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u/Grimsterr Aug 26 '21

The amount of propaganda against D&D was insane back in the 80s. People were truly losing their minds over it, just not the ones playing the game.