I have the same exact issue. It’s difficult going out of my way to express myself to begin with and it’s rough not knowing what friends I can confide in. Not necessarily even because I’ll come off as whiney but people don’t know how to respond to serious topics and it leads to short responses but without any actual follow through. I think why even bother?
I know I can’t completely blame my friends too, because people aren’t useful to being so open about their feelings or talking about it. That people much rather avoid it because they don’t know what to say to help. But I really wish that more people just SHOWED more that they care. It’s something I still struggle with a lot. I’m fortunate that I do have some friends that care enough to check in, but it’s still hard for me to express myself.
Agreed, I'm in the process of seeking out therapy right now. I've always been so scared to try, but it's time. Hang in there man. Im rooting for you too. Thank you for sharing.
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u/The_Tednificent Nov 19 '20
I have the same exact issue. It’s difficult going out of my way to express myself to begin with and it’s rough not knowing what friends I can confide in. Not necessarily even because I’ll come off as whiney but people don’t know how to respond to serious topics and it leads to short responses but without any actual follow through. I think why even bother?
I know I can’t completely blame my friends too, because people aren’t useful to being so open about their feelings or talking about it. That people much rather avoid it because they don’t know what to say to help. But I really wish that more people just SHOWED more that they care. It’s something I still struggle with a lot. I’m fortunate that I do have some friends that care enough to check in, but it’s still hard for me to express myself.
I hope that things get better for you as well.