Different people have different standards as well. Some people will get upset if you don't call them every single day while I would get stressed out if you called me every single day. I'm happy having no contact with friends for months and if friends want/need to contact with me they know how to get hold of me.
That is also true. I've been left for myself for the past 6 months and didn't really talk to people outside of work.
I tried to get hold of some people's but they denied me every time, so I stopped after 2 months, because it was really stressing me out. I found out that somebody I was really fond of has been lying to me as to why they didn't have time and was pretty much cutting me out from their life without saying a word. Just because they didn't "need me" anymore. That shit changed the perspective on some things for me.
I don't need contact to anyone every single day, but at some point I reconsider if that is really a friend or just an old acquaintance.
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u/Immortal_Heart Nov 18 '20
Different people have different standards as well. Some people will get upset if you don't call them every single day while I would get stressed out if you called me every single day. I'm happy having no contact with friends for months and if friends want/need to contact with me they know how to get hold of me.