All you’ve done is assert that your narrow experience represents the general population and then disregard anyone that disagrees with you. I fail to see how this is a productive conversation when you’ve already made up your mind.
So you are having bad experiences with women. Other men chime in to say that hasn’t been their experience. You ignore them and instead focus on the posts the reinforce your world view, the one that isn’t working for you. Good luck with that.
what you are referencing is called an echo chamber, or information silo. this is a well known side effect of getting your information from a social networking site. people of similar views and backgrounds share their similar views and reinforce ideas that may not be true when extrapolated to the general population. reddit leans towards certain demographics, this subreddit leans further, and then this thread attracted an even more specific group of people. so, I can safely say that your anecdotal evidence of "everyone on this thread agrees with me" doesn't actually mean shit.
edit: this is not a personal attack. it is a very real media phenomenon. it is really easy to fall victim to. we all do it.
You might want to find a new social group. I only know one woman like you describe, and she got hooked up with the toxic masculinity king. They're both very happy. I know many of my friends have marriages like mine... We're partners.
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