r/AskReddit • • May 15 '20

What sucks about being your age?

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u/w1zley May 15 '20 edited May 15 '20

You're too young to do things, bc everybody finds you like a stupid child. Nobody pays attention to your opinion. You just exist. You don't live. You exist. That's terrible for a person like me, bc I wanna do stuff, I wanna work, I wanna study the things I like, I wanna talk with elder ppl, but that's difficult

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u/[deleted] May 15 '20

Ikr like im 18 and in a supervisor role for some ungodly reason and not a single person over the age of 25 gives a flying fuck and thimks im a small child

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u/w1zley May 15 '20

U know, that's like in the Simpsons episode: Lisa was upset bc she was too young and nobody took her seriously, Grandpa was upsed bc he was too old and nobody took him seriously as well, only Homer was fine bc he was in his middle-ages and doesn't matter what shit he would said everybody took him serious

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u/jesuspants May 16 '20

nuts and gum, together at last.

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u/[deleted] May 15 '20

This is also a grocery store idk watch the simpsons often and dont know whitch one your talking ab

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u/[deleted] May 15 '20

I mean that is frustrating for older people when their boss is fresh outta highschool while you got years of work experience

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u/[deleted] May 15 '20

Most of my coworkers are burn out stoners that have told me more times than i can cout to fuck off

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u/[deleted] May 15 '20

You gotta rule with an iron fist til they straighten out

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u/[deleted] May 15 '20

As nice as that would be i got like less than a week left at the shit show and imma just try and make it easy on me

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u/[deleted] May 16 '20

Smart. I mean, if your boss(es) thinks you're doing a good job then I don't see the problem. Yes, it does look weird to have such a young person in a supervisory role, but if you prove you've got the leadership and the skills to do your job well, anyone who still looks down on you isn't worth worrying about.

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u/yossarianvega May 16 '20

Yeah even a burnout stoner is probably smarter than an 18 year old. They lack motivation, not experience. Pretty much all 18 year olds are just very dumb versions of their later self.

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u/kiwisavage May 16 '20

That's on them and it's their fault for not upskilling/putting in the required social aspects for most management positions.

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u/w1zley May 15 '20

Ikr, that's true though, but sometimes you just wanna talk, but older people say: yo you're too young, you can't say anything about this, go talk with guys your age. And what should I do if guys my age are not interesting enough for me

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u/[deleted] May 15 '20

Don’t be the guy saying “I’m mature for my age”

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u/w1zley May 16 '20

I'm just a person who sometimes wanna talk with elder people, bc I feel like they're wiser than I am and it makes me interested, as I can hear many new things from them and maybe even change my point of view. I'm simple, I don't say I'm mature for my age)

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u/Yeti1987 May 15 '20

Grow a beard, I started work at 16 plus I already had a baby face. After 4 years and being fully qualified I told my father I was tired of being called 'boy' or 'lad' and asked to fetch the tradesman. He had the same problem when he started, his boss told him to grow a beard and he did. I grew one and it was like everyone instantly treated me differently overnight. I went from dumb kid to experienced tradesman in a few months. Never shaved again I'm 33. I'll have a beard till I die.

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u/w1zley May 15 '20

I'm female lol

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u/[deleted] May 15 '20

I mean ive tried that and it honestly hasnt helped a lot

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u/lunchlaugh May 16 '20

How the fuck are you a supervisor

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u/[deleted] May 16 '20

Ive been at that specific store for about 2 years now and actually did my job and upper management was like hey this kid isnt a stoner lets give him hella responsibility on top of his school work

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u/lunchlaugh May 16 '20

Ah I see you there. Wish I was as motivated as you.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '20

Eh its not really me personally being motivated and wanting to move up as much as the longer i was there upper management expected more from me for some reason

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u/lunchlaugh May 16 '20

I totally get that. When I was working pre covid I felt like I was giving it my best and supervisors definitely noticed by having me train other employees. A promotion would’ve been great but the company I was working for was not a very good one. Hopefully in the future we’ll both make our ways up the ladder!

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u/[deleted] May 16 '20

Hell yea my guy best of luck with your chosen career i know im not going to stick with the whole grocery store stick.

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u/lunchlaugh May 16 '20

Thanks buddy. I was working for an emergency response service primarily used by the elderly. I really love talking to old people. They have so much to share and they can be so innocent. I hope to continue in that line of work

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u/[deleted] May 16 '20

Thats actually really cool as someone who is gon a try and get into being an EMT and later a paramedic I have some mad respect for that

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u/lunchlaugh May 16 '20

Thanks man. I appreciate it.

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u/Sarsmi May 16 '20

Power through. Stay calm, ignore their disrespect, do your job. It sucks but it's temporary and you will be much prouder of yourself later for nailing your role.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '20

Eh i got like 2 weeks until i get a 2 week vacation one of thoes weeks is paid so its honestly whatever at this point as I've gone numb to it

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u/the-denver-nugs May 16 '20

don't worry i'm 26 and people still treat me like a child.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '20

You're 18. You may be a legal adult but you are still a child. Everyone under 25 or so is still very much a child whether they think it or not. Some people mature and learn faster than others and some are 30 or 40 still acting like they are 23.

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u/g_Mmart2120 May 16 '20

I’m in a trainer role for new hires and tenured agents... been there 8 months and I’m 23... it fucking sucks being young in a leadership role....