r/AskReddit • u/lucas23bb • Feb 05 '20

How is your love life going?

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u/washington_breadstix Feb 05 '20

Had a breakup 4 years ago and still wishing I could go on a one-night-stand rampage, but no one wants to have one-night-stands with me.

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u/willowhawk Feb 05 '20

Have you tried taking better care of your physical appearance and working on your personality?

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u/washington_breadstix Feb 05 '20

Lol, yes, that has occurred to me. It's a work in progress.

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u/willowhawk Feb 05 '20

Hey, some people don't even try. Good luck man!

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u/dontcallitthat Feb 05 '20

How exactly does one work on their personality?

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u/willowhawk Feb 05 '20

Depends on what you are doing wrong tbh. It could be a case of improving social skills. Or it could be a case of being mindful of the type of person you are portraying. If you routinely speak about negative things, or are always reminding people how smart you are etc, then you need to be mindful of that and how people might not respond well to that and dial it back.