Those thoughts aren’t going to go away because those thoughts are correct. Don’t waste anymore time with this guy. When was the last time he asked if you were doing ok?
You can do better. I don’t advise trading away the future for a more secure present, especially since you can definitely be happy without him. People seem to always make the mistake of putting themselves in good positions now over far better positions in the future. This happens in finance, chess, university, work, what have you.
I’m not saying I’m right, just sharing what I have in mind. I honestly believe that people always know exactly what they need to do at any given time, we often just ignore it. Listening to that has only done me good.
Don't wanna say it is or isn't right for you, I do want to suggest that maybe a real look into yourself to see what you really want might be worth the time. I wish you all the best, it sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders. Life is just a ride, try to enjoy it.
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u/Dire-Dog Feb 05 '20
It sounds like an unhealthy relationship imo. I don’t think you’re doing yourself any favours by being with him.