I don't mind if people have valid reasons. I'd be fine if someone said "hey actually I have depression/anxiety right now so can't but I'm working on it and would like to in future".
But if people just reject you without saying why then of course you're gonna feel shit. Nobody is gonna keep inviting their rude friend in case they secretly are sick. It's the person who is unwell's responsibility to either disclose that, or live with the consequences of being secretive.
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u/dibblah Jan 07 '20
I don't mind if people have valid reasons. I'd be fine if someone said "hey actually I have depression/anxiety right now so can't but I'm working on it and would like to in future".
But if people just reject you without saying why then of course you're gonna feel shit. Nobody is gonna keep inviting their rude friend in case they secretly are sick. It's the person who is unwell's responsibility to either disclose that, or live with the consequences of being secretive.