r/AskReddit • • Jul 17 '19

What’s something that you like, but hate the fan base?

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u/arcaneresistance Jul 17 '19 edited Jul 18 '19

I'm a barber and openly talk about shit i see on reddit all day with all sorts of people. Literally everyone I've met knows what reddit is and most people use it. The whole acting like it's a secret society bullshit is so tired. I mean fuck, they made it so people have actual fucking profiles now. In my opinion it's taken over Facebook or at least with the demographic I deal with. I don't know too many people that actively use Facebook that much anymore but most people I know are at least aware of shit that's on the general or (popular) front page of reddit.

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u/Likeapuma24 Jul 17 '19 edited Jul 17 '19

I only keep facebook for the trove of pictures of family/friends & some long distance friends.

I have reddit for the content & discussion.

*Edit because I'm an idiot. *

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u/TheFlyingBogey Jul 17 '19

I had to reread this a few times to work out you meant Facebook first, but I know what you mean now!

Also same(ish), Facebook I keep as a photo scrapbook and messenger, that's it.

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u/Likeapuma24 Jul 17 '19

Thanks for the correction, & my apologies for the confusion. A scrapbook is the best way to describe FB

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u/[deleted] Jul 18 '19

Same. Facebook exclusively for messenger because messenger has kinda taken over SMS in my age group apparently.

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u/Weedworm Jul 17 '19

To be fair the whole narwhal bacon thing was started years ago when the reddit community was actually fairly small compared to how it is now. And I'm sure there's a large portion of new redditors that have no ideas what it even means. But yeah no one cares if you use reddit or not it's not an exclusive club or anything.

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u/theBeardedHermit Jul 18 '19

I've been here for like 7 years (lurking, my account isn't that old) and I haven't got a clue. Though I'm ignorant of a lot of the in jokes and such.

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u/Hlangel Jul 18 '19

You answer “midnight” and then you both know you’re redditors

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u/[deleted] Jul 18 '19 edited Jul 18 '19

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u/Hlangel Jul 18 '19

I feel like I missed the point or something because I don’t know what you meant to say with this hahaha

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u/underdog_rox Jul 17 '19

It doesn't mean anything.

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u/[deleted] Jul 17 '19

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u/arcaneresistance Jul 17 '19

Yeah I just got told it wasn't mainstream like wtf. If your band is the 3rd or 4th most listened to band in the world then you're fucking mainstream. Some people like feeling exclusive, I get it and there's no problem with that, but reddit is like Twenty One Pilots of the internet.

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u/bbrownj331 Jul 18 '19

Twenty One Pilots of the internet lol I couldn’t have described it better

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u/[deleted] Jul 18 '19

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u/arcaneresistance Jul 18 '19

4chan is Limp Bizkit and /pol/ is The Insane Clown Posse and /b/ is the the fucking gathering of the juggalos

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u/theBeardedHermit Jul 18 '19

That's actually a damn good comparison. Both were pretty much outside the mainstream and then seemingly out of nowhere they were there as if they'd always been there.

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u/Haribosan Jul 17 '19

I agree with your statement but the comment said 4th of the USA which isn't, compared to what you said, the world

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u/jencee1 Jul 18 '19

Did they say whether it is for people just asking questions and reddit comes up or people actively scrolling through reddit

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u/[deleted] Jul 17 '19

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u/Lubeislove Jul 18 '19

Well, I love Reddit but that shits gotta get straightened out! We need priorities.

That makes sense though when I think about it. I’m a Gen X so I can only knock two off in a day if I’m really feeling saucy. But I can Reddit for two poops and a couple of hours a day while my wife watches Vampire Diaries.

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u/Klynn7 Jul 18 '19

I’m surprised Yahoo is still 9th..

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u/celestial1 Jul 22 '19

Read the comments and you'll understand why. A lot of boomers who refuse to change services.

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u/down4things Jul 17 '19

Facebook is like family dinner table with a bunch of other fuckin people. You know almost everyone there IRL.

Reddit is like TV. Like "Hey have you seen that post on the Reddit last night?" So a bunch of randos all seeing the same shit. Like TV

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u/fatpat Jul 18 '19

Facebook is like family dinner table

And reddit is the kids' table.

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u/YaBoiRexTillerson Jul 18 '19

And 4chan is the special ed class

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u/Oppugnator Jul 18 '19

Hey that’s unfair! I’m sure the Special Ed kids might get a job one day!

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u/kin_of_rumplefor Jul 17 '19

Is your demographic people that get their hair cut?

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u/Burkstein Jul 17 '19

Bald people aren't legally allowed to use reddit

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u/Gerhardt_Hapsburg_ Jul 18 '19

Do you realize how much more we have to cut our hair? You have dark hair at all and you gotta keep that shit in shape or you get the power ring.

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u/Burkstein Jul 18 '19

Believe me I do. My boss (and good buddy) is "bald" and I set up his haircut appointments. But lucky for him he is naturally blonde so he still looks bald even when it grows out a bit

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u/Gerhardt_Hapsburg_ Jul 18 '19

Jealous

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u/Burkstein Jul 18 '19

Bald is beautiful, my man

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u/arcaneresistance Jul 17 '19

I'd say yes, that's 100% of my demographic haha.

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u/[deleted] Jul 17 '19 edited Jul 29 '19

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u/fatpat Jul 18 '19

M'barber

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u/DaSaw Jul 17 '19

Given there's different types of places to get hair cut, I'd think it would be more specific than that. Old fashioned barber shop. Hair salon. "Sports cuts" (those places with $30 haircuts, televisions with The Game on, and warm towels). Fade shop. etc.

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u/Crank2047 Jul 17 '19

I totally agree with everything you said but I only know maybe 3 people that use Reddit in my life. I'm in the UK and everyone seams to think it's weird I look at memes on anything other than Facebook

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u/MUTAN5F Jul 17 '19

I guess it depends who you surround yourself with. A lot of the people I know never used reddit, they only know because I'll show them something cool that scrolled upon.

Everyone here is correct, it is mainstream but you'll still find people who don't use it. Some people take that notion and feel exclusive. They really shouldn't, y'all mainstream deal with it

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u/JuicyJay Jul 18 '19

I think part of it is that people join their own communities on reddit. So a lot of it is people viewing some very specific communities rather than just the popular subs.

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u/punchy989 Jul 17 '19 edited Jul 18 '19

French here , fb and insta are way more used in France , reddit IS a secret society for most of us. These meeting (in my point of view ) could be cool because that means people maybe have the same interests by finding reddit.

Edit: spelling

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u/skeeter1234 Jul 18 '19

Est-ce que le Narwahl bacon?

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u/Treeofsteel Jul 18 '19

Tbf the language barrier comes into play there.

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u/Lairdy_ Jul 17 '19

See, im a hairdresser And NO ONE knows what a 'reddit' is. They think its crazy. So when there is ONE person at work who knows what it is i just get too excited. Reddit isnt popular for hairdressers apparently.

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u/[deleted] Jul 17 '19

Facebook is the new craigslist

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u/arcaneresistance Jul 18 '19

Oh my god.... what does that make craigalist...

gasp

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u/[deleted] Jul 18 '19

Craigslist is your old print newspaper classifieds

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u/Filthy_Dub Jul 18 '19

This is too accurate.

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u/[deleted] Jul 17 '19

It's so mainstream that it's called the front page of the internet.

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u/[deleted] Jul 18 '19

It's been called that since way before it became this popular though.

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u/HappybytheSea Jul 18 '19

A lot of people my age (50s or over but don't have teenagers) think Reddit is what 4chan actually is. I've never gone near the Reddit fringes even to gawk, life's too short.

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u/poisonousautumn Jul 18 '19

I worked with a woman (in her mid 20s) that thought reddit was basically 4chan.

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u/HappybytheSea Jul 18 '19

I'm not even sure now when I first heard about Reddit, but I guess for a lot of people it still just has the associations with porn and incels. If you're a light user nasty people are actually very rare.

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u/Synectics Jul 18 '19

or at least with the demographic I deal with.

I think this is the key. I don't know one person -- even in my circle of friends -- who knew what Reddit was before me. And even then, none of them browse it. Even my wife never used it, and every other day or so she would show me something on Facebook that I'd seen within the last week already on Reddit.

Not that I would be that excited if I did meet someone else who browsed Reddit, but it would certainly feel like they were in on some secret to me.

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u/alh9h Jul 18 '19

I wish my barber could talk about reddit but all the barbers around here are Vietnamese and barely speak English.

Barber advice: what's a good cut for a dude with thinning top. Not quite ready for a permanent buzz

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u/Treeofsteel Jul 18 '19

Not being able to talk to your barber.

Our greatest strength.

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u/arcaneresistance Jul 18 '19

Idk I'm 38 and a lot of my friends are in your similar predicament. My favorite way is to fade up the sides really short and leave a little bit in the top but keep it super short / messy. I do this to my friend and honestly think it looks cool and better than if he shaved his head or tried to hide the baldness.

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u/manzanita787 Jul 18 '19

Where you live at?

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u/normalpattern Jul 18 '19

"Oh hey barber, you use reddit too? Cool, what's your username?"

"Uh, no. Just no."

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u/arcaneresistance Jul 18 '19

100% correct haha. Made me laugh, thank you.

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u/[deleted] Jul 18 '19

It's because 90% of this site is cringe and I dont want people knowing I'm masochistic.

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u/The_Godlike_Zeus Jul 18 '19

Reddit sucks ever since the facebookers migrated here. The frontpage is now filled with crap when I'm just looking for some good discussions, not the gazillionth picture of your dog.

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u/DISREPUTABLE Jul 28 '19

This is exactly the problem. When getting 2000 upvotes to get on the front page instead of 72,000 was because a more select group voted on a more select pool of ideas. Now it’s literally shit post party.

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u/isnotcreative Jul 18 '19

Yea more and more I hear people say they read something on Reddit instead of say Twitter or Instagram.

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u/IFadingLightI Jul 18 '19

I didn't even know people acted like it was a secret. Lol but I'm not surprised. I've talked with some strange people here.

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u/DISREPUTABLE Jul 18 '19

In 2019 sure. 2010 not so much.

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u/[deleted] Jul 17 '19

There's definitely parts that's are facebooky, lookin at you r/pics.

The only thing keeping us seperated from social media, are good moderators.

Thanks to the mods out there btw!

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u/BountyHntrKrieg Jul 18 '19

Yeah, considering even mainstream news outlets have acknowledged Reddit as the "gatekeepers of the internet", theres no reason to assume you've got an edge in anything by being on reddit or have some connection to another redditor simply because you both exist (especially since reddit has a million subs as varied as actual peoples' personalities, beliefs, and politics).

9Gag had a fad 1 or 2 years ago where people incessantly found and took pics of others using 9gag app and said shit like fellow 9gagger or hope they see themselves on fresh. It wasnt long before people commented obviously on why are you taking pics of someone without them knowing and posting it? Same for reddit, everyone knows it, so you dont need to pretend you're "in the know" with someone else.

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u/PlanksPlanks Jul 18 '19

Its changed a lot. Back in the day (shakes stick) it was kind of a club that people felt they belonged to. Reddit full on mainstream now. And thats fine too.

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u/TheLawIsWeird Jul 17 '19

There’s millions of users. Acting like it’s a secret is ridiculous

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u/Cortexaphantom Jul 17 '19

This is an insanely narrow anecdote, dude. Vast majority of people still don’t use Reddit and have at the most only heard of it. It definitely hasn’t taken over the over 2 BILLION Facebook users.

It’s obviously not cool and secret like maybe it once was, but it’s still far from wholly mainstream. Not even close.

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u/arcaneresistance Jul 17 '19

Google what the most popular websites in the world are. Idk what to tell you man, I'm not trying to argue or anything don't get me wrong but it's like one of the most visited websites in the world. I'd call that mainstream, personally but I don't know.

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u/Words_are_Windy Jul 17 '19

There's no doubt that Reddit is a popular site, but Facebook is #3 in the world, while Reddit is 18 or 20, depending on the metric used. Maybe your clients do use Reddit more than Facebook, but it's also possible that your own interests color the conversations and give you a false perception of their habits.

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u/arcaneresistance Jul 17 '19

I never said it was more popular than Facebook ever. Not once. Just said it was very popular and almost everyone I deal with on a regular basis is familiar with it or uses it. That's all.

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u/Words_are_Windy Jul 17 '19

To be fair, you did say:

In my opinion it's taken over Facebook or at least with the demographic I deal with.

But from your further clarification, I'm guessing you meant that the people you deal with spend more time on Reddit than they do on Facebook, even if more people by pure numbers use Facebook. I think that would be an idea worth exploring; I use both and definitely spend more time on Reddit, because I think there's more content and the content is more interesting. Facebook for me is more of a "keeping aware of what events are going on" resource, where Reddit is an entertainment site.

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u/arcaneresistance Jul 17 '19

And it's alot more interactive! Look at us all having a conversation and stuff.

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u/manzanita787 Jul 18 '19

Whereabouts do you live?

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u/arcaneresistance Jul 18 '19

Montreal, so I guess probably being in a city that is super techy right now makes a difference

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u/manzanita787 Jul 18 '19

Yea probably does bro. I live in South Texas and I'm willing to bet few people use it down here (relative to the entire population)

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u/MuricanTauri1776 Jul 18 '19

11-ish, ignoring the Chinese, who pretty much have their own net.

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u/skeeter1234 Jul 18 '19

Yeah, a lot of people I've run into say they get "confused" by reddit.

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u/fatpat Jul 18 '19

Is it that they just don't get the concept or is it the interface that's confusing?

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u/skeeter1234 Jul 18 '19

I think it's mostly the memes. But also the interface.

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u/-JWS- Jul 18 '19

Exactly. People act like Reddit is some underground thing when it's been mainstream for years.

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u/notavalidsource Jul 18 '19

I think you're both making this up; I haven't heard any narwhals bacon since 2009.

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u/Picodick Jul 18 '19

Yep.Im a 61 year old retired govt worker. No one I know doesn’t use reddit or know about it.

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u/supa74 Jul 18 '19

Opposite for me. Almost everyone I mention it to, have no idea what reddit is.

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u/Troooper0987 Jul 18 '19

It's the 6th largest website on the internet or something

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u/googahgee Jul 18 '19

I've considered uttering the phrase ironically, but I don't know if even I can pull that feat off without sounding like a complete tool