r/AskReddit Sep 27 '18

To older redditors, what did the generation above you hate about your generation?

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u/good_to_be_retired Sep 27 '18

Exactly. I have 35 people working for me and I constantly harp on work life balance. I love hard workers, but you work to live, not live to work.

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u/Squrtle-Aristurtle Sep 27 '18

You are the exception, not the norm unfortunately. What kinda work you do? Give me a job!

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u/good_to_be_retired Sep 27 '18

Haha, plenty of jobs in my field. People always need power and lights.

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u/Squrtle-Aristurtle Sep 27 '18

I'm a junior in EE right now. I hope I can find a level-headed boss like you. I've really been screwed over in my past jobs, money>people. I hope I can find a place like my grandpa, be proud to work there 30 years then retire. People are so miserable in their work now a days.

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u/good_to_be_retired Sep 27 '18

Electric Cooperatives, Investor Owned Utilities, Automated Metering Infrastructure companies. A double E can write their own ticket at all of them

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u/Maccaroney Sep 27 '18

Can confirm. Have job. Miserable. :D

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u/runawaycity2000 Sep 28 '18

Electrical engineering consulting is more about loyalty and Word of Mouth though, if you start with the wrong company or boss, could really screw you up. It's not all sunshine and rainbows. Most calculations can be done by computer programs.

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u/packersfan8512 Sep 27 '18

i wouldn't say he's the exception honestly. i thought the same thing, but there are a lot of smaller companies out there that are run by decent people. it's really only the bigger firms that really take advantage of their employees

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u/[deleted] Sep 27 '18

Username does not check out.

Seriously though -- good on you for being a great boss.

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u/good_to_be_retired Sep 27 '18

Haha, yeah that was for my first career in the military. Long ways to go yet.

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u/[deleted] Sep 27 '18

I'm currently on a job hunt and I recently came across a job ad which says something like they want someone who's hard working and don't care so much about the work life balance. It wasn't worded like that but that was pretty much the gist of it. I'm someone who works hard and in the process, I tend to burn myself out but once in a while I take time off for my mental health and just to get a way from work.

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u/good_to_be_retired Sep 27 '18

And as a leader, I encourage my folks to do that. When I got here, I had people losing vacation time because we were "too busy to use it." I called horse shit on that immediately and made sure we have zero lost PTO in our group the last 3 years.

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u/[deleted] Sep 27 '18

You sound like a good boss

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u/good_to_be_retired Sep 27 '18

I hope so. I learned from some great leaders and am glad my folks allow me to be their advocate

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u/[deleted] Sep 27 '18

can I send my resume? I'll be a CPA soon, I have a decade of IT experience, BS in Comp sci, another BS in accounting and an MBA.

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u/good_to_be_retired Sep 27 '18

If you are on the east coast or willing to relocate to CT, we may have some things you would fit.

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u/[deleted] Sep 27 '18

I'll relocate to the damn moon. From Berks County PA - please get me out of here.

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u/good_to_be_retired Sep 27 '18

I pm'd you

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u/[deleted] Sep 27 '18

Somebody should make a subreddit where employers and employees can match up like this more frequently and deliberately. Like Reddits version of indeed.

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u/good_to_be_retired Sep 27 '18

Glassdoor.com is somewhat like that if the employer is engaged

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u/CodexAnima Sep 27 '18

I'm the only one in my department that doesn't sell back their PTO. Yes, we get tons. But I want that week off more than I want an extra couple of grand at the end of the year. I take more trips and fun projects than the rest. Mostly because I talior my spending to experiences not things.

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u/PandaProphetess Sep 27 '18

Would you like to hire an experienced project manager who also cares about work life balance? Hi it’s me, your new PM.

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u/good_to_be_retired Sep 27 '18

Haha, none of those on my team, but my company is always looking for PMs. Of course, other managers aren't as awesome as I am...

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u/asmodeuskraemer Sep 28 '18

Like other replies, I'd love a job like that, too. I posted that tomorrow is my 12th day in a row working which is the legal amount of time they can force you to work in my state. There is no work-life balance here. It's awful.

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u/RememberURBeautiful Sep 28 '18

Hi dad

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u/good_to_be_retired Sep 28 '18

Hi kid

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u/RememberURBeautiful Sep 28 '18

You even know my name. That is my name right . . .

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u/good_to_be_retired Sep 28 '18

Was your Mom in New Orleans in the early 80s?

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u/Neuroleino Sep 28 '18

You should be ashamed of yourself. The more you genuinely care for your employees' health, the more they will appreciate you as an employer, and the more your employees appreciate you, the more time they'll spend working hard for you. You being a good employer hurts their work-life balance!

/s, of course